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    Let me preface what I'm baffled about by first saying I live in NY State. I'm coming to Toronto in June and so my search for who to see has begun. I like to pick out several potential girls to spend time with, and narrow it down as my trip gets closer. If I read an ad that intrigues me, I first look for discussion or reviews here and go from there. If there isn't anything negative about them, they remain a possibility and if there are several negative things, I won't consider them any longer. Anyway, if a girl has an ad and they list things that are on the menu that I need more info about and I can't find any information about it here, I will call and ask and then follow that up with a thank you email or text message. I used to just start out by emailing but more times than not, there isn't a response and that has been discussed here numerous times and I don't think we need to go into that any further. But this past week, this is what happened. I saw an ad that intrigued me and then did my search here. Nothing negative was found. Actually there wasn't much information at all but there were a couple of good reviews from a while ago by respected and trusted members here so I tried calling her. The phone rang and rang. No voice mail came on so after about a dozen rings I hung up. So then I sent an email. I explained a little about me and that I lived in NY State and that I was coming to Toronto in June. I explained that I thought she was very attractive and that I would like to have the opportunity to see her when I'm in town but I had a question about her services. In her ad, she said she did 3somes. So the question I asked was if the 3somes that are offered were with another tgirl, a GG or a male. After asking the question, I ended my email by saying that I was looking forward to hearing from her. Well, a few days went by and I hadn't received a reply so I sent her a text. In the text, I said that I had tried calling and wasn't able to leave a message, and that I emailed her with a question about her services and was wondering if she had received it. I also included my email address in my text in case my email had gone into her spam folder. About 8 hours later, she replied by text with this "Hi there, give me a call if you want to make an appointment". I texted back and said that I had tried calling earlier in the week and that I had a question about her services. I waited and got nothing more from her. So I sent another text saying, I'm sure you're busy so I will resend my email and asked her to keep an eye out for it. After that, nothing. No reply text, no email from her, nothing. Do you think the lack of response by her is because I'm not going to be in town until June so she thinks I'm not a serious client or maybe she felt my question wasn't appropriate or some reason I'm not thinking of? I thought maybe the ad was old and she isn't active as an escort any more but then why respond at all? I don't want to mention a name because there could be a very good reason for the way she handled this and there's no need to be negative without knowing the reason. What are your thoughts?

  • #2
    Originally posted by bluequad View Post
    Let me preface what I'm baffled about by first saying I live in NY State. I'm coming to Toronto in June and so my search for who to see has begun. I like to pick out several potential girls to spend time with, and narrow it down as my trip gets closer. If I read an ad that intrigues me, I first look for discussion or reviews here and go from there. If there isn't anything negative about them, they remain a possibility and if there are several negative things, I won't consider them any longer. Anyway, if a girl has an ad and they list things that are on the menu that I need more info about and I can't find any information about it here, I will call and ask and then follow that up with a thank you email or text message. I used to just start out by emailing but more times than not, there isn't a response and that has been discussed here numerous times and I don't think we need to go into that any further. But this past week, this is what happened. I saw an ad that intrigued me and then did my search here. Nothing negative was found. Actually there wasn't much information at all but there were a couple of good reviews from a while ago by respected and trusted members here so I tried calling her. The phone rang and rang. No voice mail came on so after about a dozen rings I hung up. So then I sent an email. I explained a little about me and that I lived in NY State and that I was coming to Toronto in June. I explained that I thought she was very attractive and that I would like to have the opportunity to see her when I'm in town but I had a question about her services. In her ad, she said she did 3somes. So the question I asked was if the 3somes that are offered were with another tgirl, a GG or a male. After asking the question, I ended my email by saying that I was looking forward to hearing from her. Well, a few days went by and I hadn't received a reply so I sent her a text. In the text, I said that I had tried calling and wasn't able to leave a message, and that I emailed her with a question about her services and was wondering if she had received it. I also included my email address in my text in case my email had gone into her spam folder. About 8 hours later, she replied by text with this "Hi there, give me a call if you want to make an appointment". I texted back and said that I had tried calling earlier in the week and that I had a question about her services. I waited and got nothing more from her. So I sent another text saying, I'm sure you're busy so I will resend my email and asked her to keep an eye out for it. After that, nothing. No reply text, no email from her, nothing. Do you think the lack of response by her is because I'm not going to be in town until June so she thinks I'm not a serious client or maybe she felt my question wasn't appropriate or some reason I'm not thinking of? I thought maybe the ad was old and she isn't active as an escort any more but then why respond at all? I don't want to mention a name because there could be a very good reason for the way she handled this and there's no need to be negative without knowing the reason. What are your thoughts?
    Girls will get a lot of inquiries from out of town and some consider those people not to be customers until they are in town.
    I suspect dozens of guys call from out of town saying they are coming and never show.
    Maybe your call wasn't answered because you are out of town.
    In this business it is pretty much call when you are ready, it tends to be harder to book a long term appointment with escorts unless you are a regular.

    Chances are this person may be one of those that thinks everyone that makes an inquiry is a so called "Time Waster".
    Of course if they have such an off putting attitude, why would you end up going to see them?

    I would just wait until closer to the time you are coming or when you get to Toronto.
    Most of the girls are not going anywhere, and the chances of them being all booked up is pretty low.
    Of course there is always the very well known girls that you know won't snub you like this.
    Possibly it may be easier to arrange something in advance from any girls that frequent the forum.

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    • #3
      Happens all the time . . .

      My gut tells me that she did not entertain you any further because you are not in town until a later date, and quite possibly also because they question the seriousness of your intent. She stated quite clearly that you should contact her if you want to make an appointment. Her focus appears to be on whether or not money will change hands, rather that fielding any of your concerns. At least, this is what her response would suggest. I have had a couple of ladies, who were well reviewed, and reportedly very pleasant, act in a manner unbecoming, when I called them. For example, a relatively recent newcomer to the Toronto scene, was travelling just outside Toronto at the time that I contacted them. They were returning to TO the next day, and I called to get some information. Incidentally, their ad states that if you have questions, to call the number provided. I did so. I was polite, stated that I was in TO, that I was interested in seeing her the next day, and then asked about rates. Her response was simply that I should call her the next day, when she would actually be in town; then hung up abruptly.

      It seems as though there are escorts that have no interest in conversing with a client unless they are a sure thing. This is why they ask that you only call if you ARE making an appointment. At the same time, they will invite you to call and ask questions, in their ad. Its like calling a restaurant, thinking about making a reservation to dine, and wanting information about the menu, and being told when you call that information and civility will be given to those who ARE making a reservation.

      In other words, you will be given that which you require to make your decision, only after you have actually made your decision. I am not saying that this is definitely what happened in your case. I am not saying that my experience was definitely due to a person with a deficient approach; merely someone who was possibly having a rough day. I try to give the benefit of the doubt, and that's why I haven't provided a name. However, this behavior is prevalent, and should be a warning sign in general. I know that this is a business, but when a "service provider" is hesitant to engage a "prospective' client regarding their questions/concerns, and is solely focused on bookings, this should be a red flag in general.







      The pain in so many asses.

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      • #4
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        bluequad.This type of behavior is rather normal. I would believe your inclination is correct that because you are not available in June as also that you live rather a great distance that the chance of a meet up is slim to none considering what may happen between you and she until then. Generally speaking there have been many stories written here by both sides talking about the lack of no shows so to speak and not necessarily by appointments made within a months advance but rather a week or even by 1 or 2 days notice. I should stress though that even though this is somewhat of a common issue there are a few girls that I know of that would not handle your curiousity this way and would in fact listen to you.

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        • #5
          I tend to forget that the girls get a lot of inquiries and many aren't serious but doesn't that go with the territory with being an escort? To immediately think when someone inquires about their services that they aren't serious isn't a good thing. I guess after a while the girls do this because there are so many that are time wasters. Being someone who is serious and has spent time with many girls during my visits to Toronto, I just like to increase my chances of seeing good providers by doing my homework. Over the past 10 years, that strategy has served me very well. I've yet to see a provider in Toronto that was bad. Some are better than others but all were good. That's the problem with being from out of town though. There could be many providers that are excellent but don't get discussed much on here and so you're left with always seeing the girls you've seen before that are well reviewed or winging it and hoping for the best. We've all read and told newbies to read reviews and search for information before seeing someone and that is the best advice but if there isn't much information it's difficult for out of towners. Because this girl did take the time to tell me to call her to make an appointment, she easily could have just answered the one question I asked. It wouldn't have taken her any more time and I wasn't asking for specific details about services that would make her uncomfortable. Many girls that offer 3somes say right on their website who they do them with or at least something in their ad like "two hot tgirls" or something to that effect. I wouldn't be too excited to make the appointment for a 3some, then when I arrive, I find out it's with her and a guy. That's not my thing so knowing in advance would be something I would need to know. Maybe when I get to Toronto if I were to call her, she would be more forthcoming about the arrangement but even then there's no way to prove to her I'm a serious client on the phone so what's the big deal in telling me when I inquire regardless of whether I'm in town or not.

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          • #6
            A statistic..

            I get lots of inquiries as such..

            Also 95% of my prank phone calls come from the USA..

            Mainly NY, FL & CA..

            When someone want to book with me they need to call me from a local number to prove they are in the city..

            So ya when the likelihood of a serious meeting is less than 5% there's little motivation for discussion..

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            • #7
              I tend to believe that life will make things difficult if they are not meant to happen. This sounds like way too much effort for someone you want to meet in June. She must be SMOKING HOT.

              If it were me, I'd move onto something less difficult.


              KC

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              • #8
                You're right KC, I'll be moving on

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by KCinToronto View Post
                  I tend to believe that life will make things difficult if they are not meant to happen. This sounds like way too much effort for someone you want to meet in June. She must be SMOKING HOT.

                  If it were me, I'd move onto something less difficult.


                  KC
                  Exactly,
                  Also there is no point in setting yourself up for disappointment.
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                  • #10
                    always another option

                    You could simply wait until June and try her again from a local number? you never know? Just a thought. Did someone already mention that?

                    ( I completely understand and resect your position on withholding her name, but I must tell you, I am rather curious now)


                    -Mark

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                    • #11
                      law

                      I might be mistaken but is the act of soliciting for prostitution illegal. eg, writing (Text and Email) questions about the type of sex you wish to purchases. maybe that is the reason she asked you to call. maybe you could ask her in your e-mail to add your phone number to her contacts to stop her from passing you by.

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