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    Hello

    I see a lot of reviews that the guy won't say what happened between the two or any sexual content.

    Is this something the girls are requesting for discretion? I find a review not very worthwhile if there is no indication of what services are shared.

    Now that I feel I have enough posts to show I am real guy, I would like to contribute reviews next time I go for it, so I am learning.

    Thanks for the comments if anyone has them.

  • #2
    I like good sexy reviews that are a nice paragraph or so.
    Pictures would be good too, lots of pictures.....
    theladyboyforums.com
    asiants.com
    tgirlasian.com

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    • #3
      Originally posted by vancouverman View Post
      Hello

      I see a lot of reviews that the guy won't say what happened between the two or any sexual content.

      Is this something the girls are requesting for discretion? I find a review not very worthwhile if there is no indication of what services are shared.

      Now that I feel I have enough posts to show I am real guy, I would like to contribute reviews next time I go for it, so I am learning.

      Thanks for the comments if anyone has them.
      You should have more confidence in yourself. You keep doubting it by several statements here and there.

      And if there are people who still don;t believe your existence....who cares? At least you know and maybe few others (the girl whom you were/will be with) know.

      There are girls who are discreet and don;t want to be reviewed, so the guys won't review them.

      There are guys who are explicit and all of us who are dirty (including me) like to read the "juicy details".
      However, some of the guys who write a review of particular girl won;t (or prefer not to) explain the juicy details because they want to keep it private between them and the girl only, which i totally understand.

      Why still they write the review for the girl then?
      Because the review is essential in this saturated, highly competitive business. Review without juicy details is still better than no review at all. The guys know, that's why they do a favor for the girl to write one for her to increase or at least establish/maintain her popularity in this business.

      Remember, one few girls can make it in this industry, the rest of us are still on our "survival mood" (renting, living with parents or share a room with roommate, or even worse, unemployed and being subsidized by the government).

      Escorting is extremely tough profession. I won't recommend it, unless the girl has it takes to be successful.

      And talking about saturated, highly competitive business, that's why some girls try their best to get rid of me from the market by spreading bad rumors (which i definitely won't tolerate ) so they can monopolize the market for themselves.

      O well...i'm tough too, they can try..but i always win the "battle"...at least in the past LOL

      my 2 cents (before going to bed )

      Tia
      A World Class Courtesan. Seeing is Believing.
      Canada-USA-Europe-New Zealand-Australia-South Africa and the Middle East

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      • #4
        Originally posted by Tia Phoenixx View Post
        You should have more confidence in yourself. You keep doubting it by several statements here and there.
        Dear Tia

        It is easy for you to take a shot at someone's confidence in their physical appearance when you are a 9/10 or 10/10 by most people's view points or at worst someone gives you an 8. You haven't lived in the shoes of someone who most women in the single dating world in my city say is not attractive; and would never get interest in dating from a TS girl as they all are looking for a young, muscular, lean, or big dicked guy (or a combo of all 4). , so please keep that in mind when being critical. Just because a person acknowledges a weakness in his visual appeal, doesn't mean he lacks confidence in other areas in life.

        That also had nothing to do with my topic, so you really didn't need to make the crack at me.


        Cheers

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        • #5
          Men

          Originally posted by Babe View Post

          Originally posted by Babe View Post
          The original post that i had posted here was moved to here http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...d=1#post445722
          because i think i put it in this thread in error.

          Hi all,

          Lots of newbie gentlemen can't be bothered with writing detailed reviews. They think it will be viewed as a reflection of their secret perversions. They are not used to being so open about it all.
          They think to themselves, "Some things about me are too private to tell others".

          So they join, plop down the REAL review about a REAL date that she asked for, or suggested he write, and they don't care to get involved with places like this.
          A bare minimum of words don't reveal HIS real perversions which actually took place during the meeting.

          I have had clients tell me that as soon as they reviewed me, there were several other "male" members PM'ing the client and asking for more intimate details.
          They cringe at that "intrusion" of their private dealings with others being questioned further.

          Some paranoid men have NO IDEA who is asking those questions and feel like they are being tracked by a private detective or something. Married men can be paranoid as heck, and they should be as there is a lot at stake if they get caught screwing around with the likes of us (TGs).

          Most members of the "old boys club" know how to write the acceptable review formats that the other "old boys" just accept as fact.
          I feel that, sometimes, many of the real reviews are the ones that are lacking all the pornographic, professional storytelling details.

          If the male members want detailed made-up, erotic fictional stories to be written, why not devote a section of the board to the male porn writers who wish to provide written smut material for other male member to jerk off to?... i mean, they already provide XXX porn vids and all sorts of erotic XXX photos to help each other masturbate.
          Babe,
          xoxo

          Last edited by Babe; 04-18-2014, 10:58 AM.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by vancouverman View Post
            Hello

            I see a lot of reviews that the guy won't say what happened between the two or any sexual content.

            Is this something the girls are requesting for discretion? I find a review not very worthwhile if there is no indication of what services are shared.

            Now that I feel I have enough posts to show I am real guy, I would like to contribute reviews next time I go for it, so I am learning.

            Thanks for the comments if anyone has them.
            Reviews with sexual details are much more interesting to read and in some cases can support a jerk off session
            Some people seem to be able to put their experiences into words well and others get writer's block or go blank so
            just say "Was good time"
            I still disagree with the expectations of guys having to "act interested" in participating in the forum before posting reviews. Some guys are here to look at the pics and vid links, some guys like the debate of the forum posts and topics and so participate and some guys just want to post their review and go back to lurking incognito.
            *F*A*N*T*A*SA*

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            • #7
              I agree

              Originally posted by Babe View Post
              Hi Fantasia,

              I agree with you 100%.

              Clients should be allowed to write reviews without being bashed and intimidated out of the site. But getting to the bottom of matters is the site administration's duty.
              Babe,
              xoxo

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              • #8
                aahhh, so you were thought as non existent too?

                Originally posted by vancouverman View Post
                Hello

                I see a lot of reviews that the guy won't say what happened between the two or any sexual content.

                Is this something the girls are requesting for discretion? I find a review not very worthwhile if there is no indication of what services are shared.

                Now that I feel I have enough posts to show I am real guy, I would like to contribute reviews next time I go for it, so I am learning.

                Thanks for the comments if anyone has them.
                Hey vancouverman, I completely understand your point here, it would seem rather pointless to post a review without giving any details, but TS fantasia makes a very good point, some people just want to write a quick review, give number score for others to go off of, and then continue lurking in private.

                Also, it seems I have made enough posts now to be considered real as well. Did people think you were someone using a made up account for fake reviews? that sure happened to me. left a sour taste in my mouth too. never got an apology but I certainly got over it. I suppose as it is a rather competitive business things that like would in fact happen, so I can't blame the assumption. bBut it's nice to know that neither YOU nor I are now viewed as FAKE. Testify, my friend, Testify !

                and I agree with you that just because someone acknowledges a weakness doesn't make them lacking in confidence. Well said sir! finding a "special girl" with whom to date is a rather difficult thing, for more often than not, they are indeed looking for the type you have described. However, more often than not, we are looking for an equally specific type of special girl, are we not? I mean, there is a certain TS look that attracts and a certain one that does not. It's cultural ideology, and it sucks but we let the world continue as it is, in all it's decadent deception... but I won't turn this into a talk about my problems ideological state apparatuses... just wanted to chime in.. Good post.

                -Mark

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                • #9
                  Empty post sorry about that.

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                  Last edited by Babe; 04-18-2014, 11:29 AM.

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                  • #10
                    Without the juicy stuff it is not a review, it is just a commentary!

                    Traditionally reviews on this forum have tended to include the ?juicy? details because after all, that is what is expected by those seeking information about an escorts performance. It is hard to understand how some guys who would willingly pay an escort for sexual services suddenly become so afraid to discuss the escorts provision of those very same services!

                    Why in the world have so many guys become so reluctant to provide those very details that are needed by others who may be considering engaging that same girl for those very services. Geez, those details are what they are aching to read in your reviews guys. They already know she is easy on the eyes and that she has a great smile or a nice backside! They can see that in her ads but what they don?t know, and the very reason they are reading your written piece, is to see how she goes about providing those services that you?ve just paid big bucks to receive. They need to know the likelihood they will receive good value for their hard earned cash.

                    E.g. if you are reading a review of a new Chevrolet for example and if the reviewer says ?Oh she has a beautiful paint job and her cushions are so well upholstered but out of respect for General Motors I shan?t discuss her performance on the highway or what kind of mileage she gave us?, you wouldn?t have learned much other than some superficialities about that car now would you? The same goes for escort reviews - without detail they are pretty much useless!

                    After all, in a review you are writing about how you just paid "x" $$$ for the priviledge of spending ?x? minutes of time with a commercial provider of sexual services, you are not writing about some innocent young maiden who needs to be protected from the ravages of a bunch of dirty old men! Nor do those reading your review want to read some dusty old platitudes, they want to know how she performs her very expensive services.

                    A REVIEW must have DETAILS of the services provided to be of any value, otherwise it is just a pointless commentary!

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                    • #11
                      Reviews are important, but

                      I bought a DVD of a concert once that I would be attending a month or so later. Bad idea to say the least. I knew what was going to happen and when. I enjoyed the show, but had already seen it. after seeing this thread, I read some reviews of one provider that I will probably never meet (geographical reasons) and it was fairly repetitive. All good things but because of the "juicy" details, I've already been with her without spending a nickel. Back to the concert, there were parts that were omitted from the live show as well that left one wondering if they cut the performance short because of one reason or another?
                      This is why, for one reason I don't read a lot into reviews as each encounter should be different and wouldn't want to leave somewhat disappointed because she did this with one guy and that with another and none of it with me. SP's are people that have good days and bad days like everyone else and when coupled with clients that have such a diversified pool of interests, it makes it pretty hard to expect the exact same encounter that was read about the week prior.
                      Don't get me wrong, I'll write a detailed review ( My last one was a short novel ) but for me personally to read them, well, I was never one that got off reading erotic literature, you know I only bought penthouse and hustler for the articles....
                      If there was an SP that I was interested in meeting, I would do a little groundwork first by checking to see if she had a personal website, then I would come back here and see if there were any reviews on her. If so, I would then pay the most attention to the statistical portion of the review. I would finally give a quick scan to look for attitude and personality as I feel that is probably the most important part because if the personalities can make somewhat of an early connection,(it's only an hour, maybe a little more), the session following will take care of itself
                      So are detailed reviews important? Maybe to some, maybe not so much to others because hey, we're all different.

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by rider014 View Post
                        I bought a DVD of a concert once that I would be attending a month or so later. Bad idea to say the least. I knew what was going to happen and when. I enjoyed the show, but had already seen it. after seeing this thread, I read some reviews of one provider that I will probably never meet (geographical reasons) and it was fairly repetitive. All good things but because of the "juicy" details, I've already been with her without spending a nickel. Back to the concert, there were parts that were omitted from the live show as well that left one wondering if they cut the performance short because of one reason or another?

                        This is why, for one reason I don't read a lot into reviews as each encounter should be different and wouldn't want to leave somewhat disappointed because she did this with one guy and that with another and none of it with me. SP's are people that have good days and bad days like everyone else and when coupled with clients that have such a diversified pool of interests, it makes it pretty hard to expect the exact same encounter that was read about the week prior.

                        Don't get me wrong, I'll write a detailed review ( My last one was a short novel ) but for me personally to read them, well, I was never one that got off reading erotic literature, you know I only bought penthouse and hustler for the articles....
                        If there was an SP that I was interested in meeting, I would do a little groundwork first by checking to see if she had a personal website, then I would come back here and see if there were any reviews on her. If so, I would then pay the most attention to the statistical portion of the review. I would finally give a quick scan to look for attitude and personality as I feel that is probably the most important part because if the personalities can make somewhat of an early connection,(it's only an hour, maybe a little more), the session following will take care of itself
                        So are detailed reviews important? Maybe to some, maybe not so much to others because hey, we're all different.
                        Hmmm writer's block over? Very intelligent response! Why would everyone have the same experience is true as everyone has different turn-ons and what they want out of the session.
                        And yes T-girls are people who have mood swings and good and bad days. And people tend to report really good experiences or really bad ones because they are pissed off and want to let everyone know.
                        If I look at a review (out of curiousity not because I'm going to book them lol) and it is too detailed and long then I lose interest to read it all. Too short and doesn't seem to carry much weight. (Sounds like Goldilocks and the three bears I know)

                        I don't understand when someone refers to me as "tall" at 5'7" (I guess I'm 5'10" or 11" in my heels)and someone as "medium" height who is 5'10"+? Some refer to me as long and thick while most say average and average. And I wish the one who said "short & thin" and "stayed soft" would have qualified it by putting in the details that he has never seen my dick in over 12 sessions that I always remain tucked the whole time and that I just perform oral on him and he tops me with my panties moved aside enough for access. But I can't say that or I would be "coaching" and "coercing" lol.
                        *F*A*N*T*A*SA*

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by Mark Hermetic View Post
                          Hey vancouverman, I completely understand your point here, it would seem rather pointless to post a review without giving any details, but TS fantasia makes a very good point, some people just want to write a quick review, give number score for others to go off of, and then continue lurking in private.

                          Also, it seems I have made enough posts now to be considered real as well. Did people think you were someone using a made up account for fake reviews? that sure happened to me. left a sour taste in my mouth too. never got an apology but I certainly got over it. I suppose as it is a rather competitive business things that like would in fact happen, so I can't blame the assumption. bBut it's nice to know that neither YOU nor I are now viewed as FAKE. Testify, my friend, Testify !

                          and I agree with you that just because someone acknowledges a weakness doesn't make them lacking in confidence. Well said sir! finding a "special girl" with whom to date is a rather difficult thing, for more often than not, they are indeed looking for the type you have described. However, more often than not, we are looking for an equally specific type of special girl, are we not? I mean, there is a certain TS look that attracts and a certain one that does not. It's cultural ideology, and it sucks but we let the world continue as it is, in all it's decadent deception... but I won't turn this into a talk about my problems ideological state apparatuses... just wanted to chime in.. Good post.

                          -Mark
                          Thank you for the comments.

                          I love how Tia took her shot at me and then ignored my reply

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by vancouverman View Post
                            Thank you for the comments.

                            I love how Tia took her shot at me and then ignored my reply
                            I noticed that too.. in fact I wrote a response to the aforementioned regarding a few shots taken at me.. Perhaps I went a bit overboard, but they kept happening and I wanted the clear the air... and so I wrote

                            if you care to read it ...... http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...ne-Tia-Phoenix

                            Cheers mate!

                            -Mark

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                            • #15
                              ....

                              A few reasons why details are left out of reviews

                              • the lady asks the person who saw her not to write anything too extravagant
                              • the guy just doesn't want too
                              • fear ( both sides ) primarily from backlash by SOMEBODY, theres always one person who always has something nasty to say publicly or privately
                              • the person who writes likely doesnt want others to "get off" from their meet up
                              • discomfort of revealing anything personal ( both sides ) what happened between the 2 was their business
                              • laziness
                              • the reviewer simply doesnt know how to express themselves



                              and much more ....

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