Every once in awhile I am reminded by some guy that he views any form of "paying for sex" as a bad thing and the girls/t-girls who do as "whores" selling themselves. Of course the same guys LOVE cheap sluts - girls so desperate for male attention and love that they will spread their legs for any line a guy gives them. Of course the guy feels more masculine that he has seduced, enticed, and conquered the woman by having sex with her regardless of the lies and BS he told her to get it.
For me escorting as a t-girl is a way of making the guy pay his "fair share" for fulfilling his "t-girl/shemale" fantasy. I went through an early stage as a part-time cross dresser before starting to escort where I did the random, anonymous, discreet sex hook up thing and of course it was just about the sex and "getting off". As I began my serious transition the costs quickly added up for wardrobe, makeup, laser hair removal, breast implants, etc. When guys told me it was their "lifelong fantasy" to be with a t-girl I would say and it's my lifelong dream to be a woman and my dream will cost me 10's of 1000's to fulfill and satisfy so them paying a few 100 was a bargain to fulfill theirs!
Of course, I have still dated and had the odd one night stand but never a free sex hookup. To me without the courtesy of a date (ie drinks, dinner, more drinks, lol) there is only one other avenue into my panties that's the direct deposit route! No doubt t-girls who escort live a higher standard or living and can afford to progress their transition and cosmetic surgeries a lot more easily than those who don't. While it may seem contradictory it is my way of valuing who I am as a trans woman and the costs associated with my transition. I would feel bad about myself if I let every guy with a "t-girl" fantasy dupe me into putting out for free or without the courtesy of a date.
For me escorting as a t-girl is a way of making the guy pay his "fair share" for fulfilling his "t-girl/shemale" fantasy. I went through an early stage as a part-time cross dresser before starting to escort where I did the random, anonymous, discreet sex hook up thing and of course it was just about the sex and "getting off". As I began my serious transition the costs quickly added up for wardrobe, makeup, laser hair removal, breast implants, etc. When guys told me it was their "lifelong fantasy" to be with a t-girl I would say and it's my lifelong dream to be a woman and my dream will cost me 10's of 1000's to fulfill and satisfy so them paying a few 100 was a bargain to fulfill theirs!
Of course, I have still dated and had the odd one night stand but never a free sex hookup. To me without the courtesy of a date (ie drinks, dinner, more drinks, lol) there is only one other avenue into my panties that's the direct deposit route! No doubt t-girls who escort live a higher standard or living and can afford to progress their transition and cosmetic surgeries a lot more easily than those who don't. While it may seem contradictory it is my way of valuing who I am as a trans woman and the costs associated with my transition. I would feel bad about myself if I let every guy with a "t-girl" fantasy dupe me into putting out for free or without the courtesy of a date.
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