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**konabuds** · 01-13-2010, 07:35 AM

Good Morning Barbie,

i am not trying to be rude or disrespectful, just honest. With your post on here, you do not make yourself approachable. Men want real girls that are polite, sincere, friendly, open and don't trash talk everyone.

Admin, you can remove this post, just answering Barbie's question and trying to be honest and nice about it.

kona

**Barbie_Swallows** · 01-13-2010, 08:20 AM

Originally posted by konaexposif View Post

Good Morning Barbie,

i am not trying to be rude or disrespectful, just honest. With your post on here, you do not make yourself approachable. Men want real girls that are polite, sincere, friendly, open and don't trash talk everyone.

Admin, you can remove this post, just answering Barbie's question and trying to be honest and nice about it.

kona

Thank u for ur opinions.... i had a few guy approach me at goodhandys telling me they like my reality storoies on tgirlforums, then i have others that just ignore me and think i'm totally fucked up. But hey if u wanna be a big pussy and not say hello,, that's not my fucking problem, go for a cheap looking drag queen, with a wig and fake padded tits, lol. The point is, i'm not a bad person, i'm just straight forward and say it like the way it is. Unlike majority of shemales that shy away from the truth. What would this site be like without the one & only b@rbie swallows? And admin... no need to remove this post, thank u!

**stroker408** · 01-13-2010, 08:37 AM

I agree with Kona. It seems that you are not approachable and may actually scare guys away.This is personal opinion but if I was there and saw you the only way I would approach you is if you were the only girl there.

**10ptbuck** · 01-13-2010, 09:34 AM

I have to agree with the other two poster's. Barbie, If I lived near goodhandy's and also visited this site, after having seen some of your posts, I would not approach you either.

**quirkyfellow** · 01-13-2010, 09:46 AM

Your hostility explains a lot of it. Also the fact that all the girls are there to make money. That's okay for them but if you don't have $60 or $100 or whatever to spend, then maybe you're there just because you enjoy looking at beautiful shemales. Is that so bad? Didn't we pay a cover charge?

**Jizelle** · 01-13-2010, 09:49 AM

no posts are being removed
personally, I've been told Im a very approachable person and everytime i've ever gone there it's been like pulling teeth to talk to anyone. people tend to stand around, scope out what's going on, but have no courage to instigate a conversation. this is only based solely on my experiences there. but i find the same even at other bars and clubs.
maybe men are just intimidated by beautiful women in general. who knows

and if you enjoy that voyeuristic style of engagement with tgirls, where you admire from afar, there's absolutely nothing with that. and not everyone is there just to escort. i dont escort and i go to meet new people have fun. but to be honest, i've yet to have a good time there.

**little_guy** · 01-13-2010, 11:24 AM

I have not been to Goodhandy's in a while but I agree with Barbie the guys do stand back and just look. I tend to do the same.

But it not a normal bar. First not all but most girls are working but most are so I don't want to be harrassed.

Also have you ever been to a strip club the guys allways sit and the girls aproach them.

**prettyboy** · 01-13-2010, 12:05 PM

I have seen Barbie out in the clubs on several occasions and in person she seems to be a lot less scary than her forum persona suggests. If I was interested in 'her type' I would have no hesitation in approaching her.
Part of the reason that guys don't approach girls at Goodhandys is that with it being fundamentally an indoor 'stroll' once you make the initial move and show any interest in a girl there is a sense of expectation to spend money on them. If after closer 'inspection' you decide to look elsewhere there is often that uncomfortable moment of rejection . Consequently guys like to window shop until they see someone that stirs their loins, then make a move.
It's a shame really because many of the girls there are a lot of fun to just hang out with
even if you have little interest in having sex with them. It is a great opportunity to get to know Transgirls as people and not just as sex objects. Many of the guys that go there are still wrestling with the 'am I gay if I come here' syndrome and find it difficult to just relax and have a good time.

**tslisaparadise** · 01-13-2010, 12:53 PM

on the rare time im at goodhandys ya the guys stand around but for the most part they always take the time to say hi to me and chat me up maybe cause they know i wont work there and that puts pressure off i dunno but i know me as a rule wont speak to anyone unless im spoken to first not because im rude far from it but its just who i am i dont feel comfortable approaching guys.

**Tasha Jones RIP** · 01-13-2010, 01:35 PM

Just my thoughts

O.k this post might shock some of you. Everyone knows Barbie and I have always had a ?nasty? relationship on the forums. But truth be told, we have never really spoke in person. I based my feelings on things she would write about and things she would sometimes say that I think crossed a line.

So, I walk into Goodhandys Monday night, saw Kim with some girl in a corner. Thought, who is that bitch, she is tiny like me. So as I am walking over, I see it is Barbie. I am thinking, this could go very wrong. But I walk over and give her a hug anyways, her grandmother died and I wanted to show my support.

Though out the night we talked a bit. Then at the end of the night we really started talking to each other, as people, away from the tranny drama and message boards. I have to say, she is 100% different in person from the potty mouth I am used to reading. It was enjoyable talking with her. She is not this stupid dumb slut I thought she was. She has a soft side to her, endearing almost. It was odd, but in a very good way. She is also pretty in person. Softer, more real and less like a painted up cartoon. I really mean that in a good way..lol

Do I think she crosses the line way to much. Yes. But after speaking with her, I think she is being more honest then rude. More shocking to be shocking for the shock value of it all. She is just more honest rather then insulting to anyone. I think allot of her charm and thinking is lost in translation. I think that she can be a total cunt, I almost mean that in a nice way. But, how she comes across on this board is really not who she is in person. After speaking with her, you get why she says what she says. Right or wrong, it just makes more since now when I read her posts.

I watched her with a guy. She was not asking for money, she wanted to be a dirty cock sucking whore! She came right out and asked if he had a big dick and she wanted to suck it. He ran away. I was there, Kim was there and so was Barbie. All of us looking fucking hot if I do say so myself. Tits out, lips pumped and we all wanted to get some good cock sucking in & maybe a good fuck before we went home for the night. It had nothing to do with money and that point was made clear. This guy went to talk to some CD, we all were like ?wtf?. Barbie with her big balls went over again and said something like ?want to have your cock sucked? I could be wrong, I think that is what she said. He walked out of the club..lol

Yes Goodhandys has working girls and all of us are one of them sometimes, but not always. Because as all of you know, some of us like sex, alot! Barbie & I are on the same page when it comes to sex. We both love the ?I love sex party's? & guess what, it is not about money at all. I do not expect when a guy comes over and talks to me for us to go to the sex room and get paid. That would be stupid. There saying ?hi? to me, and if it turns out we are both in the mood looking for the same thing, then lets go fuck. If not, it was great talking to you.

I do see both sides. But, the only way your going to get to know us, understand us or really get a hard on with us. Is if you use what your born with and walk on over. See where it goes, if that person turns out to be not your type. Say your goodbyes and move on. They can not force you to pay them. They have no right to be upset because there not your type. If they do, that is there problem not yours! Let them look like fools by being upset because not every man wants them. God, if that was the case I would be rich..and my head would be so far up my ass I would not need a good, hard, long & hot fucking!

But, if some of you guys had of talked to me Monday night, you would have had your cock & balls drained for free. Just keep that in mind the next time you see a girl at Goodhandys. It does not mean she is only there to work. That is also not saying that every guy will be my type or that I am not working. If I am, I will tell you, if I am not, you will know it when I am on my knees sucking that cock!

I think Barbie has been a bad influence on me...look at my dirty mouth...wow....I can not even wank off because I have to save it for the Lounge...shit...blue balls anyone..lol

Tasha

**drdrdr** · 01-13-2010, 02:26 PM

Originally posted by Barbie_Swallows View Post

Men That Like Shemales, Won't Approach Us @ Goodhandys Night Club, Unless We Say Hello First... Like WTF! lol

Ok so what the FUCK is up with all the guys that go on t-girl nights at goodhandys on mondays, tuesdays, wednesdays & thursday nights? Let me explain why i'm fucking pissed off right now & why i hate men so much. When ur a transsexual and u go to goodhandys club, the guys that admire & lust u so much, will not approach u and speak to u. Yup no joke, they rather u approach them and talk to them first. Like what the fuck,, are they like little 12 year olds or something? Like grow the fuck up! Which i think is very fucking lame. Cause in straight clubs, its the guys that chase us. I'm sorry, this is fucking pathtic like for real. We put so much time and energy to get ready with our hair and makeup & clothes, getting ready to look hot & sexy.

And when u go there, they will not persue us at all, unless u talk to them first of course, and on top of that they still act all nervous around us. Maybe i'm too aggressive and there afraid of me or something. Anyways I'm mad at this one fucking loser that i met at the club that wouldn't allow me to suck his cock. He said u have to wear a condom. I'm like, ur getting a free show and this is the respect i get in return? I told him, it's because i'm a shemale, that's why u won't let me suck ur dick without a condom, u worried i might have aids or stds disases, right? I told him i garentee u if i were a real woman, you'd let me suck ur dick without a condom, no problem. He lied right to my face and said i always wear a condom with women too. I told him whatever, do whatever that makes u fucking happy, and i left him alone.

So because of one asshole, i was pissed off through out the whole night. He apparently left early from the club. Remember, i didn't swore at him or anything, i was like fine fuck it, if this is how u wanna play, go find yourself another shemale at the club, cause i think i'm being treated very poorly & rude. I honestly believe with all my heart that if i was born a real girl with an ugly pussy, i swear,, men wouldn't act all up tight and scared about me sucking there cocks without a condom. Unfortuantly, when ur a shemale whore such as myself, alot of men are intimadated by me because i speak my mind & i'm straight forward. Anyways i'm so fucking pissed with men in genereal. More so with those guys that are into my kind (chicks with dicks) cause i feel like i gotta be a fucking therapist with them.

Help them calm down and relax that everything will be alright. Well u know what i'm fucking sick & tired of being a nurse and taking care of these big babies, these big pussy's! If there not man enough to approach me at the club then they can go fuck themseleves & go back home to mommy & ask her to wear a strap on dildo and be a pretend shemale for a night! The thing that really pisses me off is that they stand like statues at goodhandy t-girl nights and they wait for u 2 cum to them first to talk, otherwise you'll loose ur business to an ugly cross-dresser, and she'll end up making all the cash at the end! Like hello, i'm a real shemale, but yet they don't fucking care weather u have tits or not, which i think is retarded. It's all about ur cock,, they could careless if u have implants or not.

If u like one of the t-girls at the club, don't be a big fucking shy about it, have some fucking balls and come up to us and say hi, otherwise go jerk off to dvd shemale porno, lol! Don't get me all wrong, i love going to goodhandys club & I respect the owners Amanda & Todd, its a wonderful place for us t-girls to go and meet guys that admire us, i just hate the fact majority of them act like little 12 year old boys and won't say hi to us, unless we do it first, like wtf, grow up, and be a real man. I feel like i'm more of a real man then they are... then again there all bottoms once ur alone with them, so i'm pretty much the one doing all the macho work in there little dirty discrete fantasy while there gf's/wives are at home sleeping waiting for them! Hahahahahahaha

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like always right on Barbie...

**SavvyMark** · 01-13-2010, 02:59 PM

Wow... do I love you girls! The honesty, the horniness and the sexual prowess!

**Barbie_Swallows** · 01-13-2010, 03:14 PM

Originally posted by 10ptbuck View Post

I have to agree with the other two poster's. Barbie, If I lived near goodhandy's and also visited this site, after having seen some of your posts, I would not approach you either.

Well then again, i'm glad ur showing ur true colours, being such a repressed homosexual pussy. I'm not being rude, i'm just telling u how i feel like right now, that's all, so no need to cry about it, lol. The truth is, the reason why the majority of men at goodhandys club won't approach us t-girls at the club is because there "REPRESSED homosexuals" & living in the closet. You think any of these men have guts to be seen with us outside the club or to introduce us to there family members, co-workers, or friends? I'm afraid not... there all discrete, they all seem to be ashamed of sexual attraction & feelings for us, cause society still views us as being taboo for being shemales. Society looks down on transsexuals, period. I've had people that would only speak to me only within the gay community or in gay clubs, but when i see them in the straight world, they pretend they don't know who i am.

Like this one asshole, that i saw and said hi, he said hello back, but walked away, cause he was working and didn't want his co-workers to know any of his business that he's a homosexual. He says that he's discrete about it and dosen't want anybody to know. So is it my fault that he avoided me after i said hello? Nope, he's just ashamed of his own homosexuality. If he was so proud of himself, he would speak to gays, lesbians, shemales no matter where the fuck he was. Unfortuantly, majority of them are repressed homosexuals, sad but true. I'm so glad i don't live that lifestyle, cause it's so depressing, i'd rather kill myself then to live a double life, one being straight to please society and one being my true self, behind closed doors or at gay clubs. I had another situation where i've had guys that got mad at me, and told me, the next time u see me with my gf in public, please don't say hello or smile at me, cause she kept asking me who's that girl that keeps staring at u?

Mind u, i've had sex with him a few times in the past. He loves shemales, but he's discrete about it. I feel like pretty much everybody i fucking meet, are afraid to be themselves and be open about it. I also believe if they were secure enough being free of there sexual attraction towards shemales, they wouldn't be living there lives in fear, paranoid, scared, nervous, shy ect. This explains why majority of men that like transsexuals act so wierd and retarded, cause there repressed homosexuals. Sometimes i ask myself, if these guys admited they were turned on by guys, we tranny's probaly would be out of business, how funny eh? lol. I keep forgetting alot of these guys that go to goodhandys are discrete, married men. No wonder there all shy and won't approach us t-girls. I feel like i gotta be a mommy and take care of them from top 2 bottom, lol. I guess u can say i feel a little bit jaded, but hey try being a transsexual, and see how much abuse we get as people everyday.

They love u when ur alone in the bedroom, when ur out in public, they pretend they don't even know who u are. I feel like i'm the only person in the world that is just so free with being open about everything and being open about being a shemale. I feel like everybody is repressed and not expressing themseleves. There doing what the world, what society wants them to do, which is CONFORMING to there standards. Believe it or not, we shemales are consider a fetish, pretty much like noveltys, cartoon characters out of a disney movie, lol. Sometimes i feel like i'm the little mermaid, but minus the fish tail to a big cock. I like to say one last thing before i'm done. Last night i met a east indian guy at goodhandys club. I was surprised he approached me and said hi, but to make the long story short he asked if i can suck ur cock.

I gave him the rates, and then he told me, that's too expensive & i'm a student, and i'm doing u a favour by giving u a free blow job, u should be happy that i'm doing this for u. I was like wtf are u talking about? Do u realize majority of transsexuals work in the sex trade, as strippers, escorts, porn stars? I was like whatever, thanks for nothing, and wasting my time for the past 20 minutes. Go find ur self another shemale who is hot like myself that actually have boobs, which i highly doubt you'll find, and on top of that dose it for free, lol. Anyways he kept talking to me, and i just walked away and ignored him and gave him the cold shoulders like whatever bitch. And he left the club after i told him i don't do it for free. Like what makes him thinks i'd do him for free for fuck sakes?

I've done many guys for free at the club cause they were hot, but he just wasn't my type at all. Then again, from his culture background, they always ask people for discounts or ask things for free, not realizing that's consider very rude here in canada. That's another reason i refused to see those type of guys from that background, i avoid them all together, cause i know there not serious at all, just cheap skates playing fucking games, lol. I don't know what else to say, i pretty much covered it all and expressed all my thoughts on my new thread on here, and i'm glad it's attracting alot of attention and other members to post there thoughts as well. I just go sick and tired of staying home every night stripping nude on my webcam, so i decided to check out the club instead, but wow are the guys even more shy in person.

That explains why they never wanna meet u when they add u on msn, they just wanna jerk off to u on on cam2cam sex instead, and they stay on for like weeks, months & even years. Maybe it's guys in toronto, are a bunch of anti socail losers, who knows right? I know in europe guys are more socailable & approach girls, and don't walk like zoombies like hey do here, lol. So i like i said b4, the REAL reason why they won't approach us is because there repressed homosexuals. I truly believe in that with all my heart. Love me, or hate me, this is from my personal experience only. I only wish i can find a real man out there that is not afraid of what the outside world thinks, and just be themseleves like we do as shemales. I'm gonna pray to GOD to meet a real man someday who is cool, not a big fucking pussy, Amen!

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**Barbie_Swallows** · 01-13-2010, 03:20 PM

A fan email me today (which is posted down below) after reading my new reality story here on t-girlforums of this topic "Guys at Goodh@ndys Night Club Won't Approach Us T-Girls to Say Hello.... Like Wtf!?!?!?" Well i just wanna say thank u for ur kind words, but please next time post it on my thread, and let the world know, not everybody hates me, lol. Thank u! Maybe one day u can get the chance to suck my big tranny cock! Lol

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Today, 12:41 PM
SavvyMark
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Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: ToonTown
Posts: 23

Wow... where do I begin.
Miss Barbie,

I have been an admirer from afar for quite sometime.
When I first saw your profile on Shemale Canada, I was hooked in by the pouty lips, the gorgeous tits and your amazing cock and firm ass.
Then I joined here and had the pleasure of reading my fantasies in your words and your reality.
Your honesty and expression is refreshing and even at times shocking and intimidating, but I believe that makes you - you. I would love to approach you at GoodHandy's. You don't scare me that much baby... besides, I like that.
Thanks for it all! Someday I will be in Toronto and would love to see you and Lucy... until then, I am stuck here in Saskatoon, SK with no one but you on a screen and in my fantasies.
PS - I am not some loser... as I love how you putit "Don't call if you're a loser"... but quite the opposite. I just love you girls! I am a hot 34 year-old professional (accountant/teacher at the university), athletic and well hung.
Take care and keep bein' you.
Mark.

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