Hi. I am new to this forum and have quickly become addicted to reading the Tgirl section. This will be a long rant but I hope some of you will take the time to read it. I was thinking about a lot of the stuff said when Kitana's post turned into a talk about money. I think this is the classic walk in someone else's shoes experience. First off it is so enlightening to read some of the girls talk so candidly open and intelligent on some of these issues,in particular Kitana, Lisa,Sunshine,Paris-Montreal and of course my new favorite writer Barbie Swallows and any of the other girls I failed to mention. I am all for you getting as much as you can and comparisons to other jobs like accountant or whatever else are moot. I was once a guy who would pick up girls and try and be cheap about it until I was with a girl and wanted more and of course she wanted more money and I argued until she looked at me and said I'me not selling you a piece of my body, I'me selling a piece of my SOUL. The way she looked at me and said that just about floored me and really made me think. I paid her the extra money, thanked her and left because those words said so much to me. Since then I have never haggled about money. I try to do some research if possible and talk as candidly and if I don`t feel it after talk to a girl I move on. Thanks to that girl and you girls for reminding me you are actual people with brains and feelings and not just warm meat for us degenerates to use for our fantasy's that we can`t or wont do with our wives or girlfriends.And yes we are degenerates not hobbyists,the stupidest thing I ever heard. Collecting stamps or building model cars is a hobby, this is something totally different. I can only imagine some of the stuff you girls get asked to do or do to us on a daily basis by us degenerates and before someone goes off on me I include myself in that group. I`me sure if we had to do what you do we would never bitch about money again. I have come to accept that its part of this game we CHOOSE to play as I have come to accept that more often than not your experience will not be what you want it to be in your head. I have paid as little as $50 and felt ripped off and paid as much as $300 and had such a good time I would of paid more. If we had to do some of the stuff these girls get asked to do would we do them on the cheap or even do them at all. And be honest some of the stuff we ask these girls to do you would never want done to any member of your family and you know it. I really look forward to some of the intelligent responses to this and the inevitable few who will pick out a word or two or a phrase and just snipe some dumb comment back.

