Finally worked up the courage

[nowhere.fast]

Hello everyone! i hope this isn't posted in the wrong section, if so i apologize.
I'm a 22 year old from toronto who has had fantasies about TS women for quite some time, I've had a few very memorable encounters, all of them good, thankfully, and i'm confident enough now to say that I am only attracted to that 'special' kind of girl. firstly, i suppose i'd like to know what my sexual preference is commonly known as, as i feel 'tranny chaser' is slightly degrading for both parties, haha. and secondly, I suppose I'm looking for advice on how to approach and relate to girls outside of a business relationship,
lord knows i have nothing bad to say about the working girls,
i'm just looking for something more intimate and personal,
but every woman i meet seems to think i'm just in it for a freebie.
this is most certainly not the case,
I'm looking for something much deeper, but can't seem to be seen outside the context of a customer.
I hope this doesn't offend any of the hard working professionals out there,
sincerely, I mean no disrespect,
I'm just wondering where the love is?

[Paris-Montreal]

awwwwwwwe

[BlueSki]

There are lots of girls out there "in the wild" in Toronto, you just have to make extra effort and be on the lookout. They all love to shop for clothes etc, and they obviously have to go grocery shopping as well. Need to be brave to say "hi". That's all.

[Tatyana La'Rose]

aww well i'm glad you finally know what you want... you can never go wrong with a ts... but on the other hand it is hard to find ts women that are not about business first

[nowhere.fast]

thanks for the support everyone
i've certainly been keeping my eyes open, and hopefully i'll luck out sooner or later.
if any of you oh-so-beautiful girls would be interested in getting to know a gentleman such as myself, feel free to message me

[Einstein]

I couldn't see a real relationship working with a TS.

[looking4ts]

I couldn't see a real relationship working with a TS.

why may I ask? imo whether it be man/woman/tg etc as long as two ppl share feelings for one another everything outside of those true feelings is irrelevant. Love can get two ppl through anything.

[nowhere.fast]

I couldn't see a real relationship working with a TS.

love doesn't concern itself with such petty trivialities as gender.
i'd think Einstein of all people could wrap his mind around that one

[Einstein]

love doesn't concern itself with such petty trivialities as gender.
i'd think Einstein of all people could wrap his mind around that one

I'm speaking mainly for myself....

I'm a realist and given that a VERY large percential of TG
are escorts the probability of finding a nice TG to have a
relationship with who isn't an escort is very low. It's hard
enough to find a nice woman and given my young age and
the fact i'm a single father it's just not in the cards 4 me.
Maybe when i'm old & fat with arthritic knees I can move to
thailand and become some sort of old pedo looking jackass
but I have a ways to go.

[junyer69]

I'm speaking mainly for myself....

I'm a realist and given that a VERY large percential of TG
are escorts the probability of finding a nice TG to have a
relationship with who isn't an escort is very low. It's hard
enough to find a nice woman and given my young age and
the fact i'm a single father it's just not in the cards 4 me.
Maybe when i'm old & fat with arthritic knees I can move to
thailand and become some sort of old pedo looking jackass
but I have a ways to go.

I agree with you 100%. Regardless if they are escorts or not.. when it comes down to it... (and I may be flamed for this) deep down they still think like men. So, if you can get over this fact and live together with the same mentality.. all the powa to ya.

[BlueSki]

LOL.

"deep down they still think like men" ... really junyer69?

"given that a VERY large percential of TG are escorts". Really Einsten? I'm sure this is just your opinion but, if you have some factual data to back that up, would be good to see it. In my experiences within North America, there are many many many TGs that are living "mainstream" lives. But maybe, Einstein, your only interactions with TGs are on this board, and so you somehow think this.

I have no problem with escorts and do have escort friends. If our society perpetuates "VERY large percential of TG are escorts", some TGs not yet in the profession may believe they have no choice.

[junyer69]

[QUOTE=BlueSki;251924]LOL.

"deep down they still think like men" ... really junyer69?

Really BlueSki. In the past couple years I have had a ton of experience with this wonderful side of life and can say this totally unbiased.

I'm not going to get into details publicly but as I see it, if a tgirl is a pre-op, she is still producing testosterone. This has a lot of control over the brain and vice versa.

I'll give you one example from first hand experience:

We wake up in the morning and she has morning wood.. she decides to jump on me and dry hump my ass. (I'm a top only) This is typical "horny morning" male behaviour.

Also, when a tgirl expresses "severe" emotions (sadness/anger) the male behaviour also becomes apparent.

These are things I've learned from having a LTR and "flings" over the past couple of years.

Post-op's may be different since the production of testosterone has stopped but I have only had a one nighter with one so I can't say for sure.

I still love my tgirls.. don't get me wrong.

[BlueSki]

I have guy friends that exhibit girl emotions and traits. I know GG girls that exhibit male behaviour. I'm a glass-is-half-full kinda guy. Therefore, I'll give benefit of doubt (when I can) if a TG girl exhibits male behaviour and, unlike you, I won't be so quick to label it.

Most TG girls I have met do not want to exhibit male behaviour, and they have been working their entire lives to reverse their incorrect biology. Let's give them a chance.

[nowhere.fast]

We wake up in the morning and she has morning wood.. she decides to jump on me and dry hump my ass.

yeah, that sounds pretty fucking awesome.

[Kimberly_Banxxx]

LOL.

"deep down they still think like men" ... really junyer69?

Really BlueSki. In the past couple years I have had a ton of experience with this wonderful side of life and can say this totally unbiased.

I'm not going to get into details publicly but as I see it, if a tgirl is a pre-op, she is still producing testosterone. This has a lot of control over the brain and vice versa.

I'll give you one example from first hand experience:

We wake up in the morning and she has morning wood.. she decides to jump on me and dry hump my ass. (I'm a top only) This is typical "horny morning" male behaviour.

Also, when a tgirl expresses "severe" emotions (sadness/anger) the male behaviour also becomes apparent.

These are things I've learned from having a LTR and "flings" over the past couple of years.

Post-op's may be different since the production of testosterone has stopped but I have only had a one nighter with one so I can't say for sure.

I still love my tgirls.. don't get me wrong.

Just b/c a tgirl doesn't have SRS, doesn't mean that she still have testorone(orchi, and/or antiandrogens)

Oh..I'm pre-op..but unless he wants it..i'd NEVER dry hump someone with my morning wood..esp if the guy is a top only...thats just one experience..lol...dnt think that all pre-ops do shit like that

remember
dont judge all girls from a few encounters that didn't go right..

if i did the same
i'd prbly be a lesbian
lol