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    Hello everyone out there.

    I am a transsexual female in my mid-20's. Thats something I dont usually say as Im very very stealth . I just want to live my life as a normal female, so I do and not a single friend that didnt grow up with me knows that Im transsexual.

    So this brings me to why I would be in a forum such as this one. I would like to ask some advice. Ive been trying to save up for years for "the operation" and while Im no longer struggling to pay the bills my savings are pretty much non-existent. At this rate Ill be 50 before I can pay for it. Its what I want the most though in my life, even if it means breaking some morals.

    How can I make money as quick as possible to pay? Biggest thing that I will not do is allow myself to be photographed as I do not want any lasting reminders and I do try to be a professional as much as I can (so that rules out internet porn). I really dont want to have sex with random men as its too dangerous both for my safety and std-wise.

    I was thinking maybe some kind of strip club as long as they have a strict no photo rule but I do not know where to find one and found this site in my search. I live in the NYC area so Im sure there has to be one around somewhere. I would prefer if I can to go a little out of the way so on the really off chance anyone I know ever visits. Preferably to the east (LI) or to the North. If my best bet is one in NYC Ill suck it up though.

    So everyone, please help a girl out!

  • #2
    Originally posted by thegirlnextdoor View Post
    Hello everyone out there.

    I am a transsexual female in my mid-20's. Thats something I dont usually say as Im very very stealth . I just want to live my life as a normal female, so I do and not a single friend that didnt grow up with me knows that Im transsexual.

    So this brings me to why I would be in a forum such as this one. I would like to ask some advice. Ive been trying to save up for years for "the operation" and while Im no longer struggling to pay the bills my savings are pretty much non-existent. At this rate Ill be 50 before I can pay for it. Its what I want the most though in my life, even if it means breaking some morals.

    How can I make money as quick as possible to pay? Biggest thing that I will not do is allow myself to be photographed as I do not want any lasting reminders and I do try to be a professional as much as I can (so that rules out internet porn). I really dont want to have sex with random men as its too dangerous both for my safety and std-wise.

    I was thinking maybe some kind of strip club as long as they have a strict no photo rule but I do not know where to find one and found this site in my search. I live in the NYC area so Im sure there has to be one around somewhere. I would prefer if I can to go a little out of the way so on the really off chance anyone I know ever visits. Preferably to the east (LI) or to the North. If my best bet is one in NYC Ill suck it up though.

    So everyone, please help a girl out!
    bullshit nobody knows your a tranny
    lol ya ok smoke another one
    Be Excellent to One Another.
    :)

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    • #3
      There are a couple of Tgirls who host parties in NYC, unfortunately I haven't had the chance to attend any as my travels to NYC are pretty rare so can't comment on them. I don't think I can post links to other forums here, however if you Google "Allanah Starr Party" or "Sunny Dee-Lite Party" you'll soon track them down.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by tslisaparadise View Post
        bullshit nobody knows your a tranny
        lol ya ok smoke another one
        Yeah look Im not going to say Ive NEVER been "clocked" but its something that happens maybe once a year and Ill deny it every time.

        Im not here to get judged or "made fun of" as if I was in junior high all over again, Im here because I had a legit question i could use some help with.

        Thanks.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by nbdave View Post
          There are a couple of Tgirls who host parties in NYC, unfortunately I haven't had the chance to attend any as my travels to NYC are pretty rare so can't comment on them. I don't think I can post links to other forums here, however if you Google "Allanah Starr Party" or "Sunny Dee-Lite Party" you'll soon track them down.
          See thats what I meant. Thank you very much for your help nbdave.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by thegirlnextdoor View Post
            See thats what I meant. Thank you very much for your help nbdave.
            My pleasure, best of luck.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by thegirlnextdoor View Post
              Yeah look Im not going to say Ive NEVER been "clocked" but its something that happens maybe once a year and Ill deny it every time.

              Im not here to get judged or "made fun of" as if I was in junior high all over again, Im here because I had a legit question i could use some help with.

              Thanks.
              pretty tough to judge somebody without a pic now isnt it? your full of shit period unless you wanna prove it?once a year lol
              SEMI-RETIRED 519-209-3058

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              • #8
                You tell her Lisa..... LMFAO

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by iluvurass View Post
                  You tell her Lisa..... LMFAO
                  ya i got some land in florida he can buy also,must be kinda fun living in never never land all the time lol
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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by tslisaparadise View Post
                    ya i got some land in florida he can buy also,must be kinda fun living in never never land all the time lol
                    Besides the fact that my dating life is practically non-existent (like I said I dont tell ANYONE) actually it is pretty nice in never-land all the time. Why are trannie bitches always so miserable trying to drag others down with them? Just because Im happy with my life doesnt mean you have to act like a grade schooler and pick on me. I had enough of that when I actually was in grade school.

                    Of course your the queen of your castle here because you have nothing better to do. If I knew for a fact that my pic would only be seen by this forum and deleted when I wanted it to be Id love to show a pic to prove you wrong. As you can read in my first posting however thats a big no can happen. Ive been on hormones since I was 17 years old and living full time since about 19 and Im 26 now so that definitely helps a bit. Plus Im not putting on an act every time I leave the house, Im just myself. Ive had this argument face to face before with other tgirls before (although its been years) that its ok to just want to be female and not some (and I say this using societies words, not my own) freak of nature. That life just isnt for me.

                    Guess what though. It doesnt matter what you think. Once Im done with why I came here and checked this enough times for responses Ill be gone forever and back to my neverland while your still in apparently a life that you are miserable with as shown by your treatment to others. I came here simply for some help not to get crap.

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                    • #11
                      Originally posted by thegirlnextdoor View Post
                      Besides the fact that my dating life is practically non-existent (like I said I dont tell ANYONE) actually it is pretty nice in never-land all the time. Why are trannie bitches always so miserable trying to drag others down with them? Just because Im happy with my life doesnt mean you have to act like a grade schooler and pick on me. I had enough of that when I actually was in grade school.

                      Of course your the queen of your castle here because you have nothing better to do. If I knew for a fact that my pic would only be seen by this forum and deleted when I wanted it to be Id love to show a pic to prove you wrong. As you can read in my first posting however thats a big no can happen. Ive been on hormones since I was 17 years old and living full time since about 19 and Im 26 now so that definitely helps a bit. Plus Im not putting on an act every time I leave the house, Im just myself. Ive had this argument face to face before with other tgirls before (although its been years) that its ok to just want to be female and not some (and I say this using societies words, not my own) freak of nature. That life just isnt for me.

                      Guess what though. It doesnt matter what you think. Once Im done with why I came here and checked this enough times for responses Ill be gone forever and back to my neverland while your still in apparently a life that you are miserable with as shown by your treatment to others. I came here simply for some help not to get crap.
                      be nice Lisa

                      Welcome on board the girlnextdoor!

                      Well, I agree with nbdave that you can work in a stripclubs, so you don't need your pictures taken.

                      Other solution is working with a reputable agency that caters to tgirl providers as well. Some of the girls who work there only show their body pics and blur their face...and that's ok, since people believe the agency, and if the agency says that you are good looking, then they will believe you
                      You have to be interviewed first though.

                      Alternatively, You can work as an independent escort by posting your full body pics and wearing a mask/ blur face and/or a wig. that will do as well.

                      Some girls have done it.

                      Last but not least, you can be a partner of a popular girl who offers 3-some.
                      So this girl will offer you to a client as a partner.
                      Since the girl is popular and has a good reputation, the client will be likely to accept you as well (like the agency).
                      This may work well.

                      Good luck, and don't hesitate to contact me while I'm in NY



                      Tia

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                      • #12
                        here is a reputable agency that caters to tgirl as well:

                        http://www.swedishharmony.com

                        It's an international agency, so you can work in the U.S or Europe.

                        I, myself, have agreed and joined with two high end agencies in NYC, since they offer me a fee of 1500-2500 per client per hour, which is much higher than what i charge as an independent.

                        unfortunately, the name of these two agencies cannot be disclosed since it is very high end.

                        But, let me tell you that you live in the best city in the world (besides London) for upscale escorts
                        Try to get the piece of the fortune my friend

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by thegirlnextdoor View Post
                          Besides the fact that my dating life is practically non-existent (like I said I dont tell ANYONE) actually it is pretty nice in never-land all the time. Why are trannie bitches always so miserable trying to drag others down with them? Just because Im happy with my life doesnt mean you have to act like a grade schooler and pick on me. I had enough of that when I actually was in grade school.

                          Of course your the queen of your castle here because you have nothing better to do. If I knew for a fact that my pic would only be seen by this forum and deleted when I wanted it to be Id love to show a pic to prove you wrong. As you can read in my first posting however thats a big no can happen. Ive been on hormones since I was 17 years old and living full time since about 19 and Im 26 now so that definitely helps a bit. Plus Im not putting on an act every time I leave the house, Im just myself. Ive had this argument face to face before with other tgirls before (although its been years) that its ok to just want to be female and not some (and I say this using societies words, not my own) freak of nature. That life just isnt for me.

                          Guess what though. It doesnt matter what you think. Once Im done with why I came here and checked this enough times for responses Ill be gone forever and back to my neverland while your still in apparently a life that you are miserable with as shown by your treatment to others. I came here simply for some help not to get crap.
                          head back to never neverland retard
                          SEMI-RETIRED 519-209-3058

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by tslisaparadise View Post
                            head back to never neverland retard
                            She came on to ask a reasonable question, got reasonable responses with your being the only exception, so what is it about her post that triggers you ?

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by Fudgepacker View Post
                              She came on to ask a reasonable question, got reasonable responses with your being the only exception, so what is it about her post that triggers you ?

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