Time Paid For and Escort Telephone Manners

[toban]

A recent thread in the Escort Reviews / Critique section relates a story about a local escort's reported telephone use during a client session. I have had other annoyances but I have not found myself in this particular situation though I can fully understand the client?s frustration with it as it was reported.

As most escort ads proclaim prominently, generally in a special ares, clients are paying for their time only and nothing more. That being the case, then the exact quantity of time purchased should be delivered wholly, and not in part.

As an example of this concept, let?s say I go to a merchant to purchase a gallon of a specially colored store mixed paint. The color is measured out, added to the can of paint, mixed and paid for, when without warning the merchant says ?My friend needs just a little dab of this same color so I?ll just take it out of yours now? and takes that little bit of paint out of my can and puts it away for his friend. That quantity may be minimal and likely I?d have even more than that left over after I?ve have finished painting anyway, but I doubt anybody would stand for that kind of action. That is an obvious theft of my just paid for property (paint).
Time can and is measured and paid for by quantity, and when purchased that way we expect to be able to use it fully for our own purpose e.g. parking meters.

In my own experience I remember one incall where the phone rang loudly almost continuously and even though it was never answered, it sure did not add to the ambience in the setting.

Another time, well after a session was over and the girl was about to begin getting dressed to leave, she looked at her phone, whose ringer had obviously been off, and asked me if I minded if she answered a call. At that point I certainly did not but I did very much appreciate her consideration in disabling her phone during my time!

As a remedy to this problem of time usage I would suggest that upon beginning a session all escort phones, or ringers at least, be turned off to avoid distraction and not be turned on again, except with the clients approval. If they do not do so then I'd suggest a reminder would be advised.

Comments from either side of the issue??

[Modulus]

all escort phones, or ringers at least, be turned of

1- Makes Sense
2- Last time I heard this I was taking an airplane
3- Next time Air Canada is hiring, seriously consider applying

[nacho]

A recent thread in the Escort Reviews / Critique section relates a story about a local escort's reported telephone use during a client session. I have had other annoyances but I have not found myself in this particular situation though I can fully understand the client?s frustration with it as it was reported.

As most escort ads proclaim prominently, generally in a special ares, clients are paying for their time only and nothing more. That being the case, then the exact quantity of time purchased should be delivered wholly, and not in part.

As an example of this concept, let?s say I go to a merchant to purchase a gallon of a specially colored store mixed paint. The color is measured out, added to the can of paint, mixed and paid for, when without warning the merchant says ?My friend needs just a little dab of this same color so I?ll just take it out of yours now? and takes that little bit of paint out of my can and puts it away for his friend. That quantity may be minimal and likely I?d have even more than that left over after I?ve have finished painting anyway, but I doubt anybody would stand for that kind of action. That is an obvious theft of my just paid for property (paint).
Time can and is measured and paid for by quantity, and when purchased that way we expect to be able to use it fully for our own purpose e.g. parking meters.

In my own experience I remember one incall where the phone rang loudly almost continuously and even though it was never answered, it sure did not add to the ambience in the setting.

Another time, well after a session was over and the girl was about to begin getting dressed to leave, she looked at her phone, whose ringer had obviously been off, and asked me if I minded if she answered a call. At that point I certainly did not but I did very much appreciate her consideration in disabling her phone during my time!

As a remedy to this problem of time usage I would suggest that upon beginning a session all escort phones, or ringers at least, be turned off to avoid distraction and not be turned on again, except with the clients approval. If they do not do so then I'd suggest a reminder would be advised.

Comments from either side of the issue??

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[lynn]

I never answer the phone when Im with someone..

But if were talking about other phone manners.. Dont call me asking a billion questions. Everything is in my ad.. No ask for pictures cause they are all online as it is.. Dont ask for phone sex cause the answer is no/...

[Dita Dior]

I answer my phone when I am in visiting city I am not going to lie.
But its always "Hello, sorry I'm not avaiable right now please call back in 15 minutes, thank you." or whenever.
If I don't answer it just doesnt stop.
I don tanswer during momental parts, but if its a time that I believe I am able to answer the phone I do, out of respect for the other person trying to get a hold of me since not everyone can see me when I am in a city, and also just because I find the constant beeping drives me.
Sorry if it bothers you, but I believe that you have to understand where the girl is coming frm also.

[MaxwellJ]

Unless it was very important, I wouldnt take calls during a session. Neither should an escort.

There may be times when a girl or a client needs to answer a call - if someone explained that this is an important call and they need to answer it, I wouldnt mind. However, when it is my special time with a girl, I want it to be just that, my special time with her.

I respect your comment Dita, but in my experience most escorts find ways to arrange their appointments on their own time.

[Dita Dior]

Unless it was very important, I wouldnt take calls during a session. Neither should an escort.

There may be times when a girl or a client needs to answer a call - if someone explained that this is an important call and they need to answer it, I wouldnt mind. However, when it is my special time with a girl, I want it to be just that, my special time with her.

I respect your comment Dita, but in my experience most escorts find ways to arrange their appointments on their own time.

Not trying to sound cocky, but my own time is 2 - 4 horus at night when I get to sleep. Which happens 3 times a week. So as for my own time it isnt there anymore from my demand.

I only answer the calls I know to answer, I don't answer family or any of those calls. But glad you understand where I am coming from. I just believe that if someone doesn't like me answering my phone during their session then they dont have to see me.

[chewk87]

I totally disagree with that. You get to pick your ours do you not dita? You say your busy which i understand that im sure your in pretty high demand. But at the same time you say you will answer the phone if you can. Lets say you answer the phone 3 times through out an hour session and its for say 10 mins. . I pay for the hour of time and your on the phone for 10 mins i would be mad and walk out the doory. If i pay for time i want the whole time im paying for. I could be wrong here but cant you always call ppl back when you do have spare time? Like i said earlier im sure your busy most of the time but cant you choose when you do work and at what times you want your next client? Im just asking cause maybe im wrong.

Thats my opinion.

[Shyla Wild]

Not trying to sound cocky, but my own time is 2 - 4 horus at night when I get to sleep. Which happens 3 times a week. So as for my own time it isnt there anymore from my demand.

I only answer the calls I know to answer, I don't answer family or any of those calls. But glad you understand where I am coming from. I just believe that if someone doesn't like me answering my phone during their session then they dont have to see me.

I've worked with you. I never remember you ever answering the phone, you were always super professional with me.

[Dita Dior]

I totally disagree with that. You get to pick your ours do you not dita? You say your busy which i understand that im sure your in pretty high demand. But at the same time you say you will answer the phone if you can. Lets say you answer the phone 3 times through out an hour session and its for say 10 mins. . I pay for the hour of time and your on the phone for 10 mins i would be mad and walk out the doory. If i pay for time i want the whole time im paying for. I could be wrong here but cant you always call ppl back when you do have spare time? Like i said earlier im sure your busy most of the time but cant you choose when you do work and at what times you want your next client? Im just asking cause maybe im wrong.

Thats my opinion.

You are over analizing what I am saying. Nevermind what I said but I do answer my phone occasionally.

I've worked with you. I never remember you ever answering the phone, you were always super professional with me.

Well thank you girl, and I say the exact same for you, but you are more professional and classy then me. But in Montreal I dont answer calls because tey dont come in from big flow in the GTA I do. Everywhere else I dont. Thats what I was trying to get at.

[toban]

There are better ways to handle this!

I answer my phone when I am in visiting city I am not going to lie.
But its always "Hello, sorry I'm not avaiable right now please call back in 15 minutes, thank you." or whenever.
If I don't answer it just doesnt stop.
I don tanswer during momental parts, but if its a time that I believe I am able to answer the phone I do, out of respect for the other person trying to get a hold of me since not everyone can see me when I am in a city, and also just because I find the constant beeping drives me.
Sorry if it bothers you, but I believe that you have to understand where the girl is coming frm also.

But Dita you must remember that by accepting a clients payment you have sold a block of your time to someone. The purchaser has a right to expect full and complete access to that time. For you to take back some of that time, time that now belongs to the client, by answering/talking-on or even by allowing the phone to ring is just not good business, just as taking a bit of paint as I stated in my example earlier was, in reality a theft.

You complain that the constant beeping of your phone would bother you. Shut the damn thing off! You must accept that any activity of your phone also destroys not only the mood, but therefore the clients satisfaction as well!

You say that you are concerned about the unknown callers (many of whom will possibly not book anyway) trying to reach you while you are in a session, but in you should realize that by doing so, you will have also alienated your present, and a potential repeat client!! Why can you not use the ever present voice-mail that is available to you?

If you answer a call only to say you can't talk right now, what difference is there between that and a voice-mail saying the very same thing?

Many girls make use of a carefully crafted voice-mail message to aid in handling this issue. The message stating that they can not answer at the moment (some explaining that they are either out or "busy" and even with another client) but if you care to leave a message, number and a time to call, they will return your call asap.

[Dita Dior]

But Dita you must remember that by accepting a clients payment you have sold a block of your time to someone. The purchaser has a right to expect full and complete access to that time. For you to take back some of that time, time that now belongs to the client, by answering/talking-on or even by allowing the phone to ring is just not good business, just as taking a bit of paint as I stated in my example earlier was, in reality a theft.

You complain that the constant beeping of your phone would bother you. Shut the damn thing off! You must accept that any activity of your phone also destroys not only the mood, but therefore the clients satisfaction as well!

You say that you are concerned about the unknown callers (many of whom will possibly not book anyway) trying to reach you while you are in a session, but in you should realize that by doing so, you will have also alienated your present, and a potential repeat client!! Why can you not use the ever present voice-mail that is available to you?

If you answer a call only to say you can't talk right now, what difference is there between that and a voice-mail saying the very same thing?

Many girls make use of a carefully crafted voice-mail message to aid in handling this issue. The message stating that they can not answer at the moment (some explaining that they are either out or "busy" and even with another client) but if you care to leave a message, number and a time to call, they will return your call asap.

Can someone delete my posts, we all know I use my phone. But Im sick of people trying to give me advice and try to run my buisness. As I said if you dont want to see me then dont see me, I havent had a complaint yet from how I do my service and I don't think it will hapen soon if you have a proble mwith my service let me know in the private message or a simple call. Not trying to be my boss when I am my own boss and running my service, I need a nap. Seems like im getting irritated, time to get away from the computer. xoxo

Shyla has the right because she has worked with me before and other girls, but your iust a customer, from my knowledge it seems like you have been hiding in a girls closet while she was working and you learned this information.. because your pretty smart on this topic. Anyway, keep on with the thread forget I even posted in it. I thought honesty was a virtue and would make people understand better but nope people like trying to be smart asses again ,and try to make me look like the villian when im ust doing my job, and by answering my phone making more people happy each and everyday.

[Ray]

Mr. Toban, as usual, is right on with his comments. Once I was with Lucy and it seemed like the phone wouldn't stop ringing. To her credit she did not answer it but it sure was annoying. Like Mr. Toban said, turn off the ringer and let voice mail do its job.

[toban]

Sorry

1- Makes Sense
2- Last time I heard this I was taking an airplane
3- Next time Air Canada is hiring, seriously consider applying

Shyla, but no can do as I'm under exclusive contract with Air Inuit. If you'd flown with us instead of AirCanada you'd have heard my Pre-Flight announcement about cellphone use in Inuktitut.

[Modulus]

What ray said.
Answering the phone during a session is a big nono. It's a turnoff and is likely to have an effect on your return visitors. I think most of us can assertain that if you do not answer you are busy.