Question For The Ladies

[linym01]

I was asked this by the very first TS that I had an experience with, and by 4 others since that ran the gamut from 'dates' to a for-real relationship to a drunken TS in a bar:

"Could you date a TS in real life?"

Do ladies ask out of simple curiosity, or do they sometimes really want to know

[Alexis]

Well..

Lots of us find it difficult to have a regular relationship with the average guy..

It's not easy to find someone that understands that you like working as an escort. Not just for the money either but for the random sex aspect as well as a way to be sexually involved with, in a sort of relationship with regular clients. Generally the observation at hand would be that as a TS escort we mainly get used as fucktoys and not to many men would consider an open relationship..

Hi mom.. meet Sindy.. she's my transsexual girlfriend..

I'm fortunate, I've been with the same female partner for 3 years now. We have a good open relationship and we both do the same sort of things. We also work together and still have our own sex pretty much every day, sometimes more than once. I don't think I'm looking for a man to have in bed with me every night at this point..

You see, as transsexuals we're pretty open about things. We need a partner that can understand what we do, why we do it and to be ok with it. Not someone who is going to try and change us to conform to society and hide us away from friends and family. My partner does that for me and our friends and family are all good with everything, although we spare them some details..

So anyhow.. if these girls are asking you this..

I'm thinking you might have some nice quality about you..

"So could you date a TS in real life?"

What was your answer?

[Dita Dior]

Honestly I don't ask because usually if a guy is in a outside setting with me I usually believe that he would date me if he openly know that I am transexual in a public surrounding.

But I can understand where your coming from. As of some guys it's more them asking me if I would date instead of just working. So as for your answer. I don't ask men that question, they ask me that question. And as I tell them.

If I have a feeling inside that is mutual with you, and I like your personality, you have a good head on your shoulders, not a small penis, and have the inner and outter of what I like then I have no problem with dating that person.

You can never say no to what you fall for correct?

[linym01]

re:

My answer at that time was always that I could not guarantee that I would be open about being in a serious relationship with someone who was TS.

The serious relationship had me thinking much differently. We had never had a date where I compensated her for her time.
What was it you said Dita?
Can't say no to who you fall for.

[Dita Dior]

My answer at that time was always that I could not guarantee that I would be open about being in a serious relationship with someone who was TS.

The serious relationship had me thinking much differently. We had never had a date where I compensated her for her time.
What was it you said Dita?
Can't say no to who you fall for.

Well if you paid her then I wouldn't expect serious dating. If someone pays me It's in my furthest interest to date them because I would never forget about that. I've only date two of my customers in the past. One didn't end up well because he was obsessed with me, the other I still talk to its just distance that let us fall apart.

No you can't say no to who you fall for.