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    Someone just emailed Shemale Canada saying they discovered a Shemale Escort on the site was also advertising as a Male escort on another site, and felt they should be removed from the listings.
    They are said to be a scammer because of this.

    First Shemale Canada is not in the business of determining who is a "Real Shemale" and who is not.
    There is really no such thing as a "Real Shemale" in the purist sense.
    The best I can figure is that if you say you are one then you are.

    The same with being Transsexual.
    If you say you are, then I have to believe you.
    In fact Transsexualism is purely a mental disorder, so there is no way I could "SEE" you are a true shemale or transsexual.
    All the surgeries in the world cannot change that a Shemale or TS started in a mans body.

    I cannot say for sure, but I would bet a large majority of the providers on Shemale Canada spend some portion of their lives as a man. Whether it is to see their family, go to church, school, work or whatever.
    The fact is they lived some portion of their lives as males and often have to revert to male status to go back or fit in.

    To say someone is a fraud because of this, is not right.
    It is not in the spirit of transsexualism.

    No transsexual started out with hormone shots or implants or surgeries.
    They all started out as part time crossdressers, every single one flat as a board mostly.
    So the shemales that judge other shemales based on their transition status are hypocrites.

    There is shemales out there that have only had implants and transitioned purely to make money.
    The purists would call these "Real Shemales" but in truth they are frauds in some respect.
    How are they better than the crossdresser that is a true transsexual, that is just starting out.

    Also attractiveness or passibility does not factor at all into this issue.
    Just because you look awesome and seamlessly integrate as a girl into society doesn't make you more of a shemale than the non-passable and unattractive ones. However this seems to be the feeling out there among many.
    Looks make you more marketable as a provider, that is it.

    Anyway, as far as Shemale Canada is concerned if you say you are a Shemale present a female personae, that is the best we can do. We are not there to judge your true status or hire detectives that make sure you are a shemale 365 days a year.
    A true scammer is one that uses fake pictures or has multiple deceiving profiles.

    The rest is up to the clients.
    Do your research.
    If you feel the provider does not fit into your vision of what a "Real Shemale" is, then don't go see them.
    Or don't go see them again.

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  • #2
    Good call Crag

    The two-way identity is probably more common than people realize. A few years ago I photographed a very sexy well-known shemale. She then asked for some pix with her "boy" identity. I didn't blink and squeezed the shutter )

    I am with Crag -- whatever gets you through the night.

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    • #3
      But if someone is a crossdresser like Dita, and not a true transsexual, I think it can mislead people in the ads on SheMaleCanada

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      • #4
        Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
        But if someone is a crossdresser like Dita, and not a true transsexual, I think it can mislead people in the ads on SheMaleCanada
        Okay, this is getting old. I'm kinda sick of people with zero qualifications calling another person a crossdresser. This is the "N" word in the transsexual community. The funny thing or the sad thing is that it is never the educated that use this term but people with below University education. Seriously...Are you a doctor or a Psych? Because I do believe that in Canada those would be the only two people qualified to make that call. Knowing how empathetic both these people are, I find it impossible that a doctor would ever call someone a crossdresser. Could you see a doctor using the "N" word? And if you are a doctor or psych, then you must exam Dita before making an assessment. If you have examined her, then you are breaking doctor-patient confidentiality.

        You don't like Dita. We get it. Do you know what trolling is? Because you are presently guilty of it. I hate pulling the rule book out but since no one on this board has any idea why you have a personal vendetta against Dita except the two of you...

        THE RULES:

        http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showthread.php?23126-First-time-users-click-here-before-posting-RULES

        2.Please do not use this forum for personal attacks on others. A review should consit of a review do not degrade another human being because you are angry please simply state you were unhappy with your experience and leave it at that. Acting like a child/cry baby will quickly get you banned.

        I
        f you would like to write a review about what happened...that is your choice and right. Otherwise, trying to troll her into a fight with comments about her credibility or calling her a crossdresser is not right.
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        • #5
          Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
          But if someone is a crossdresser like Dita, and not a true transsexual, I think it can mislead people in the ads on SheMaleCanada
          Looking at her pix, I would not call her a "crossdresser." She looks iike a very sexy person. She is what she feels like and obviously she feels like a tgirl.

          Your post seems to deal with some personal issues best left off the public boards.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
            But if someone is a crossdresser like Dita, and not a true transsexual, I think it can mislead people in the ads on SheMaleCanada
            Admin, this guy is begging to be banned. Get rid of him please, he's creeping me out.

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            • #7
              Originally posted by Shyla Wild View Post
              Okay, this is getting old. I'm kinda sick of people with zero qualifications calling another person a crossdresser. This is the "N" word in the transsexual community. The funny thing or the sad thing is that it is never the educated that use this term but people with below University education. Seriously...Are you a doctor or a Psych? Because I do believe that in Canada those would be the only two people qualified to make that call. Knowing how empathetic both these people are, I find it impossible that a doctor would ever call someone a crossdresser. Could you see a doctor using the "N" word? And if you are a doctor or psych, then you must exam Dita before making an assessment. If you have examined her, then you are breaking doctor-patient confidentiality.

              You don't like Dita. We get it. Do you know what trolling is? Because you are presently guilty of it. I hate pulling the rule book out but since no one on this board has any idea why you have a personal vendetta against Dita except the two of you...

              THE RULES:

              http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showthread.php?23126-First-time-users-click-here-before-posting-RULES

              2.Please do not use this forum for personal attacks on others. A review should consit of a review do not degrade another human being because you are angry please simply state you were unhappy with your experience and leave it at that. Acting like a child/cry baby will quickly get you banned.

              I
              f you would like to write a review about what happened...that is your choice and right. Otherwise, trying to troll her into a fight with comments about her credibility or calling her a crossdresser is not right.
              A bit heavy handed....

              Anyways, my perception of Dita is not a true transsexual. That is my opinion and I won't bring it up again on the board as this opinion has people circling the wagons. Fair enough.

              Why do I say she lies? Well, I believe you posted some chart about male dick sizes. And the percent of guys who are 10 inches plus is minimal. Even, 8 inches plus is a small number. Yet, we have to hear this person go on and on every day about getting fucked by a 10 inch dick . I smell BS there because you can't possibly find that many 10 inch dicks if it is only a couple percent of the population. Plus, how is this attractive to a potential client who in most cases will be average (6 - 7) ? IT just doens't make a whole lot of sense and smells like BS>

              OTHER POSTERS have called Dita a liar; I am certainly not the first one. Why do I get a ban thread for it?

              Oh yeah, she also lies about her tours... bad business if you ask me.

              That will be all

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              • #8
                Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
                A bit heavy handed....

                Anyways, my perception of Dita is not a true transsexual. That is my opinion and I won't bring it up again on the board as this opinion has people circling the wagons. Fair enough.

                Why do I say she lies? Well, I believe you posted some chart about male dick sizes. And the percent of guys who are 10 inches plus is minimal. Even, 8 inches plus is a small number. Yet, we have to hear this person go on and on every day about getting fucked by a 10 inch dick . I smell BS there because you can't possibly find that many 10 inch dicks if it is only a couple percent of the population. Plus, how is this attractive to a potential client who in most cases will be average (6 - 7) ? IT just doens't make a whole lot of sense and smells like BS> jU

                OTHER POSTERS have called Dita a liar; I am certainly not the first one. Why do I get a ban thread for it?

                Oh yeah, she also lies about her tours... bad business if you ask me.

                That will be all
                No worries about the banning. I do not have nor do I want that power. I was being a bitch with rules, just like you were acting like a little bitch with your crying...

                But now you stated pretty valid reasons for her credability. Fair enough.

                BUT once again, it's not cool or right to pass judgement and to call anyone a CD.
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                • #9
                  Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
                  But if someone is a crossdresser like Dita, and not a true transsexual, I think it can mislead people in the ads on SheMaleCanada
                  So you are saying you didn't even read more than the title of my post before commenting.
                  Please read it before continuing to comment.

                  Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
                  A bit heavy handed....

                  Anyways, my perception of Dita is not a true transsexual. That is my opinion and I won't bring it up again on the board as this opinion has people circling the wagons. Fair enough.

                  Why do I say she lies? Well, I believe you posted some chart about male dick sizes. And the percent of guys who are 10 inches plus is minimal. Even, 8 inches plus is a small number. Yet, we have to hear this person go on and on every day about getting fucked by a 10 inch dick . I smell BS there because you can't possibly find that many 10 inch dicks if it is only a couple percent of the population. Plus, how is this attractive to a potential client who in most cases will be average (6 - 7) ? IT just doens't make a whole lot of sense and smells like BS>

                  OTHER POSTERS have called Dita a liar; I am certainly not the first one. Why do I get a ban thread for it?

                  Oh yeah, she also lies about her tours... bad business if you ask me.

                  That will be all
                  Your opinion is that she is not your cup of tea, you have no idea if she is a real Transsexual.
                  I don't even think you know what a transsexual really is.

                  Just going around saying someone is a liar without backing it up is just harassment.
                  You should be commenting on her threads, calling her out there, not haranguing her with no explanation, that is creepy dude.
                  Forums are about discussion, not blind attacks.
                  This is why people are calling for u to be reprimanded.

                  Good to see you have come out of the weeds and said your piece.
                  Everyone has an opinion, that is what the forum is for.

                  Anyway if you can find any providers whose tour dates don't change, i would be suprised.
                  Dita just happens to be vocal about it.
                  So what if her stories aren't all real, it's no skin off my ass.

                  However I do not see how she is misleading.
                  The pictures on her ad show exactly what she looks like, exactly dude.
                  I am not sure what more you want.
                  It's not misleading if you can see exactly what she looks like.
                  Naked, with clothes etc., it's all there.
                  You make no sense on that part.

                  Is there some type of shemale test I can give to prove they qualify?
                  Bloodwork? Urine? what?

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
                    But if someone is a crossdresser like Dita, and not a true transsexual, I think it can mislead people in the ads on SheMaleCanada
                    Originally posted by bigmacattack View Post
                    But if someone is a crossdresser like Dita, and not a true transsexual, I think it can mislead people in the ads on SheMaleCanada
                    I want to say first before anything. Thank-you Shyla and Crag for supporting the facts and the issue to the mannor. I'm not shocked by you posting this bigmacattack. I know why this thread was posted and no it was not towards personal attacks Crag didn't post this thread with names or whoever to make it as a personal attack.

                    In that review I said ew because I don't believe crossdressers should be pretending to work as a escort. Are they aloud, yes. Should they in my eyes, no. It's my opinon and I'm intitled to my word. Same as bigmacattack you are intitled to your word as calling me a crossdresser whether i'm cd or not because your intiteled to your opinon. But you need to educate yourself before blasting out a red neck opinon.

                    Me a year ago would have no problem cutting you in pieces with words like I do best and make a idiot out of myself, but it's not going to make anything better but worse.

                    You don't know who I am nor need to. Same as I don't need to know much about you. I'm a service provider thats all, I'm not your best friend, I can be but that's the role I would have to choose to play. What my personal life intails is up to me not your buisness.

                    Lastly just because your in Vancouver and I have cancelled my tour dates out there doesn't mean you have to throw a hissy about not being able to see me, and also where did Dita is a cross dresser come from this.

                    When you private messaged me you went about saying that I was a liar on the shoutout box so I asked why and then you told me it was because I like big big dicks and then the clients I see with average and small dicks I'm lying to them.

                    Baby, I'm not lying to anyone. I like any dick I'm a cock whore. Please do research before you call someone a crossdresser it would do you alot of good.

                    Just because I couldn't help you get your cock wet doesn't mean you have to have a frown on your face. Go on with your life and live

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                    • #11
                      LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO!
                      I was bored I was looking through the archives on the forum and I seen this.


                      Crossdresser hahahaha.
                      account deleted.

                      if I quit porn and escorting why am I still on these boards and doing cam and phone.


                      so its all come to a end

                      thank-you all for your compliments and support over the years XO

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                      • #12
                        From what you have shared here, I think you have demonstrated a lot of growth since those crazy days.

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                        • #13
                          A transgender girl/woman is a trans girl/woman no matter what stage they are at. Depending on circumstances and family/community support or lack of it determines how early and how fast a trans girl/woman can transition to full time and get the necessary name & ID changes to live full time in their gender, get on HRT and having $$$s is always the determining factor as to what they can afford for feminizing treatments & procedures ie laser hair removal, breast implants, facial feminization, etc.

                          Clients may want and expect a "shemale/t-girl" escort to be at a certain stage to warrant the 250-300/hr charge to be with them so up to them to ask the appropriate questions "Do you have your own breasts or implants or are you using breastforms? Have you had laser hair removal done?" As for the "Do you live full time as a woman?" is kind of an irrelevant question as long as they look how you want them to look during the hour you are with them what difference does it make how they look the rest of the time or at work? And if a girl is at the stage where they can pull off an attractive shemale escort identity and a hot guy escort identity all the power to them as long as they look the way the client at the time wants them to look for their paid sexual encounter.

                          Crossdressers are something totally different generally a guy who identifies as male and just gets sexually aroused by dressing and engaging in sexual activities while dressed as a woman. They generally have no plans to transition to live full time as a woman or in any way surgically alter their bodies to conform to their inner female identity. But if they look hot & sexy when done up and can attract clients again all the power to them.
                          *F*A*N*T*A*SA*

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by vancouverman View Post
                            From what you have shared here, I think you have demonstrated a lot of growth since those crazy days.
                            well thank you.
                            i started out at a early transition and i was 18 and now im 21 of course there is going to be alot of development and growth.
                            account deleted.

                            if I quit porn and escorting why am I still on these boards and doing cam and phone.


                            so its all come to a end

                            thank-you all for your compliments and support over the years XO

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by eastcoastprincess View Post
                              well thank you.
                              i started out at a early transition and i was 18 and now im 21 of course there is going to be alot of development and growth.
                              You have always been a sweetheart to me xoxox

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