Is it gay to like a transgendered girl???

[supreme]

hey im 18 from ny and idk y but i just like trans girls. i read that 50 things a bout guys who like trans chicks and i think its bull. id love to go on a date with a trans girl or a cd the thing is im not gay. id just want to like make out not be banged. i think im asking this in the wrong place thou cuz from looking @ the threads there seems to be a lot of creeps but any ways yea ive contemplated going out to the pride parade or the center to like meet a transgendered girl but havent done it yet cuz i think its kinda gay to go to those places. can a actual transgendered chick help me wit this

[Franklinzed]

I'm a straight dude a couple years older than u, and I remember asking myself a lot of those questions when I first stumbled across tgirls
I like feminine tgirls and am totally not attracted to guys or non passables. For me, that alone tells me I'm not 'gay' in the sense society tends to classify sexuality. Attraction is not really a conscious choice/decision we make, so if you really like tgirls - you'll find a way to be ok with it as u grow older.
As to where to find trans/cds, without getting into the gay scene (which is where a lotta of 'em feature), I still haven't figured that out. I know NY's got some great tgirl escorts tho

[drdrdr]

If you like shemales and women it means you are bi-sexual. If you just like cock, yes you are gay.

[Odd William]

I'm a straight dude a couple years older than u, and I remember asking myself a lot of those questions when I first stumbled across tgirls
I like feminine tgirls and am totally not attracted to guys or non passables. For me, that alone tells me I'm not 'gay' in the sense society tends to classify sexuality. Attraction is not really a conscious choice/decision we make, so if you really like tgirls - you'll find a way to be ok with it as u grow older.
As to where to find trans/cds, without getting into the gay scene (which is where a lotta of 'em feature), I still haven't figured that out. I know NY's got some great tgirl escorts tho

[daisuki888]

I must agree with that

[aguyoutthere1]

hey im 18 from ny and idk y but i just like trans girls. i read that 50 things a bout guys who like trans chicks and i think its bull. id love to go on a date with a trans girl or a cd the thing is im not gay. id just want to like make out not be banged. i think im asking this in the wrong place thou cuz from looking @ the threads there seems to be a lot of creeps but any ways yea ive contemplated going out to the pride parade or the center to like meet a transgendered girl but havent done it yet cuz i think its kinda gay to go to those places. can a actual transgendered chick help me wit this

I rarely like to quote Howard Stern but I think he got this one right. You either suck cock, or you don't suck cock.

It took some time but I stopped sweating the small stuff in life. If I'm attracted to you, and your attracted to me (or I'm paying) then lets have a great time. Enough with labels. I've never been attracted to a "man" but I have to admit that if I was in a threesome and a hot Tgirl told me to suck his cock, I'd probably suck his cock, and even enjoy it.

I even know one Tgirl that wants to do this one with me and hopefully we will soon. (Seems to be a turn on of hers.) I guess like watching two lesbians for a man.

Damn, I'm so gay. LOL



KC

[kokinme]

Gay or Not - Who Cares

KC I cannot agree with you more. My cock interest is Tgirl interest and this is everyday. Another man's cock would be to satisfy another's fetish or for her amusement. It is not because I want to go steady. I also know that I would do it to the best of my abilities because there is no sense in doing a job poorly, Afterall I probably would like to be invited back!!

I rarely like to quote Howard Stern but I think he got this one right. You either suck cock, or you don't suck cock.

It took some time but I stopped sweating the small stuff in life. If I'm attracted to you, and your attracted to me (or I'm paying) then lets have a great time. Enough with labels. I've never been attracted to a "man" but I have to admit that if I was in a threesome and a hot Tgirl told me to suck his cock, I'd probably suck his cock, and even enjoy it.

I even know one Tgirl that wants to do this one with me and hopefully we will soon. (Seems to be a turn on of hers.) I guess like watching two lesbians for a man.

Damn, I'm so gay. LOL



KC

[Renee77008]

you are the only one that wil be able to answer this, if not now sometime soon

yea i went thru a phase of questioning myself, late 20's and discovered an attratcion to TS and eventually acted upon it and then became my preference in women.. i fist had conflict of wondering does this make me gay, i later learend thru being a little to explorative that i was definitly not gay, so i relaized i was bisexual,, but later learned thru experience and understanding things with more clarity that i was not bisexualu, i was straight as ever had been if not more, no mater the actions that take place in the course of sex, those are tow seperate things. im not bi becssuer bi would ean im attratced to females and males.. i am not. therefore im straight. i am attratced to females in the form of femininity. cock por not, as is said,, parts is parts, has not to do with attraction. this is my case and wish i knew from the onset but its just going to have to take its course, i can tell u over and over, but the way uve been brought up and socialized is much more influential, and u will have to realize hopeuflly with more clarity now, where u stand.
if you do like ts girls just for the cock is possibly a question to ask, but then again we'd all be lying if we didnt like the ts girls becasue of that which they have between their legs, any guy that says different hasnt come to terms with it yet. its an alluring taboo, the last bastion of taboo there is, since internet porn has normalized much of what was once a kink or perversion in sex is now nothing new to even the naivest of teens... if you are attracted to men, you know it, you look at the cock as not a source of sexual wonder but as a symbol of the masculinity ur attracted too.. if you can look at a naked and be turned on well then u have some questions to answer, if you see another man naked muscled all gq with abs etc and all u see is just another dude that is blocking ur view of the chick behind him,, ur straight.
ask urself.. u have 2 ts girls and 1 guy you go into a room with a glory hole, one of the three sticks a conck through, does it matter to you if its the dude, would you still go forward under this scenario.. if so its the cock u like and maybe ur are gay, and using the convienince of TS also having a cock as a way of not being man enough to confront what u really are, and confront the peers that control you apparently. not saying this is the questioner just in general what alot og adults men do..This is common amongst many of the "str8" guys that pursue TS women, some even get into relationships with ts and live happily ever after, most just fuck around as much as possible and watch gay porn when alone and eventually screw over the TS who has it hard enough trying to find a relationship with someone that is for real and not just a chaser in disguise or a curious charmer or a gay man figuring things out and splitting when he does. just from what ive seen. not every girl has these issues. . And any of the guys that constantly feel the need to remind everyone that they are str8, even though they like ts are prime suspects. You know the ones, they start the conversation with a caveat of, "Well im totally str8, and/but/so.......yada yada yada... cock, cum, versatile, swallow, very open minded..." (yada yada yada) guys are easy reads... every ts knows it when they see it, but they just expect it and dont call u out on it, but see it immediately. Noneed to mention ur str8 its assumed, and it makes u look uniformed unexperienced, most dont care if ur str8 or what ur curoiousity is, or yada yada,, TS women typically are only atteacted and only go with str8 guys, and gay guys dont typically go with ts, so ur constant reminding to her or everyone of her friends or urself that ur str8 is making u look suspect. but u are alos possibly more str8 than uy thought, the ts attraction leads you to a new way of looking at things and u find that you can see clearly the seperation of sex and sexual attration and u graduated to the master calss and have taunted urself and passed ur brushed aside ur typical boundaries and didnt succomb to some hiddned gay urge inside, becasue if it aint there it aint there.

[Renee77008]

wow,, am i a 3rd grader

Ladies and Gentleman, please take with a bit of compassion the judgemnet you may be pondering or already concluded, and first take into consideration..... that last post of mine was written while i was a bit under the influence of harshly toxic substances, and upon reviewing it (after clicking submit of course) i was going to take it down in order to save some form of dignity, but its also kind of humorous that i came off as someone whom english is not their first language, im not genius, nor an editor for the Post, but wow, i am embarrassed and hope i can relish being humbled. I think it'd be ok to keep it up and share or else id be the only one to know and also because i damn spent like an hour writing that... while i was.... hi everyone...

By the way, if how you described your feelings towards TS women is accurate, You my friend.. are not gay, you are not bi (assuming ur not attracted to men at all) you are indeed Straight.. just as much as Big John the Lumberjack (well maybe not that much), so dont worry about it any longer or what others dont understand,, its not ur job to educate them, foolw what ur heart says but keep reading learning about urself and relaize that things do and will change as you get further along into your journey through the years ahead. The dating sites are useful at times to meet girls as they too have trouble meeting men of good intention and heart. but just dont go with a ts girl just becasue she is a ts and willing, make sure shes a girl that you like and feel a connection, or that you reall want to get naked with.

Renee..... Ren D strikes again
(Oh and of course in true Renee fashion, this is the first impression i present as i just joined the site on this very day, and my first post no less.. fun fun!!)

[Bjm]

To the OP. I don't think is is gay at all, but many in society who like to classify sexual behavior in 2 little boxes might.
You are attracted to genetic women, and you are also attracted to individuals who identify themselves as women, appear as women but just happen to have a penis. That is very different than being a man attracted to another man. I know there will be those that say that "straight" guys who are attracted to tgirls are just finding a way that they can still view themselves as "hetero" while satisfying their closeted gay urges. But I don't buy that at all. And I don't think most gay dudes think that way either - they like other dudes who act and look like men!
As for myself, I'm a guy who definitely identifies himself as straight. I love the look, feel and touch of women. I've never honestly looked at a guy and said to myself- "self, that man is hot, I think I should ask him out, or if he wants to fuck etc....." however I'm not one of those straight guys that wants to pretend that homosexuality isn't normal, nor am I a guy who gets all offended, and threatens to beat up te gay guy who hits on me at a bar (in fact I take it as a compliment that another person finds me attractive).
Which brings me to my casual interest in tgirls. I'm attracted to beautiful, sexy, feminine and "passable" (tho I hate that word) tgirls. I just see it as a variation of my heterosexuality. A little adventure into the taboo (I've also dabbled in light Bondage, exhibitionism/voyeurism, hetero anal sex etc for te same reason- the taboo nature is a turn on). But I know I'm hetero, and just because I occasionally suck a hot tgirl penis, that doesn't change anything, any more than having anal with a hot ggirl makes me gay (cuz some people do actually think that doing the same sex acts that some gay guys do-'makes you gay).
You know who you are, and what your sexual identity is. You don't need the outside world to tell you. As I've heard many times here, sexual identity is in the brain not between the legs.

[Raging Bob]

Man this question gets asked a lot!

A. You're not gay or you'd ONLY be attracted to males....because of their "manliness" ( e.g. hair, muscles the whole 9 yards)

B. You're not 100% Bi because you don't find men and women "equally" attractive. You would probably find a t-girl or regular girl more attractive than a man. (judging by what you've written)

C. You're obviously not 100% straight because the thought of dealing with a penis turns you on. (what you do with it is kind of irrelevant)

So on the sliding scale of human sexuality, you fall between B & C.

Now ask yourself one question.....who else but you should care? You're still pretty young so I guarantee that there are sides to your sexuality that you aren't even aware of yet.....so have fun, strap yourself in ( or on!!!) and enjoy the ride!

[Rockheart]

After so many years of this question it is just easy to answer:

HELL YA!





Why be straight?
Gays have more rights,
more freedom,
and hot girls will want to hang out with you because they think you are "safe"

I am running out of good reasons to identify as straight.
Why not take advantage of all the rights of being Gay.

Nothing is stopping you from still fucking pussy.

You don't even have to have sex with men to say you are Gay.
Just say it.

Being Gay is becoming Trendy.
Someone new comes out of the closet daily.
Join the wave.

[toban]

I don't see that being with TG girls is in any way gay.

Regardless of what others may think, I believe and consider myself to be straight. Males have no appeal to me in any way. Females however do have great appeal but after “discovering” shemales a few years ago I found them equally appealing and to be honest, maybe even more appealing than genetic girls.

S0 Supreme I suggest that you don't spend too much time worrying about what the rest of society says or thinks, just do what your inner self tells you it needs you to do about this and get out there and do it.

I should let you know that in my many (about 60) years of sexual interaction with genetic girls before meeting my first transgendered girl, I was probably more interested in cunnilingis than in the actual intercourse and so I always spent a lot of attention to the clitoris, revelling at it’s engorgement as I sucked and tongued it until ogasm. Looking back, I must say that I preferred a girl with a large clitoris rather than one that had to be searched for. (Tgirls have really large clits don't they, and they're so easy to find too!)

With females a good part of my enjoyment came just from being able to ensure my partner got off and then from there on, any and all other sexual activities could take place. Interaction with shemales then would follow the same pattern for me. Unfortunately, as the birthdays have accumulated over and over, and despite the advent of all those nifty new medications like Viagra etc. almost all of those other fun activities remain just pleasant memories.

As for sucking cock: In my books then I argue that for me at least, sucking cock is nothing more than sucking a larger than normal clit!!

[sunshine]

From my perspective

hey im 18 from ny and idk y but i just like trans girls. i read that 50 things a bout guys who like trans chicks and i think its bull. id love to go on a date with a trans girl or a cd the thing is im not gay. id just want to like make out not be banged. i think im asking this in the wrong place thou cuz from looking @ the threads there seems to be a lot of creeps but any ways yea ive contemplated going out to the pride parade or the center to like meet a transgendered girl but havent done it yet cuz i think its kinda gay to go to those places. can a actual transgendered chick help me wit this

I've added an article to the blog which touches on this topic. Here is the link:
http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/entry....our-First-Time

I hope this helps you make some sense of things.


Sunshine

[toban]

Great advice for those contemplating their first TGirl encounter!

I've added an article to the blog which touches on this topic. Here is the link:
http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/entry....our-First-Time

I hope this helps you make some sense of things.


Sunshine

Sunshine, that is a great article and I think it should be added as a sticky somewhere in this forum.

You've answered so many of the questions that are commonly asked here by those who are considering their first visit with a TGirl.

I know that I would have appreciated your advice myself after I had made the decision to fly to Toronto to visit my first TGirl. As I knocked on her door I wouldn't have been surprised if her neighbours across the hall had heard my heart pounding so loudly in my chest! Fortunately, as I had prepared for that initial visit I had done pretty much as you suggest in the article that first-timers do. As a result then, I was professionally and carefully taken care of by the young lady and as it turned out, that first visit was much easier to get done than I had expected.