My idea first time....am I weird?

[bsmitt11]

So after fantasizing for years I'm planning to take the next step and finally indulge my tgirl desires. But for my first time I want something softcore and mild. Weird?

What I'm thinking is an extended time with a girl, chatting, (possibly) kissing, massage,
undressing, some fun exploratory touching....and that's about it.

Strangely mild for a first time? A fantasy I could find someone to fulfill?

[Lou King]

Just be open with whomever you choose

The girls here are great

But don't be surprised if you end up with a cock in your moth and a smile on your face

Good luck

[Rockheart]

Just tell them what you want and don't let them do anything to you you don't want.
The biggest mistake new and old clients make is not telling the provider exactly what they want or don't want.

Personally your request is not unusual.
I have some experience with shemales but I prefer mutual oral to any anal activities.
I have never been exceptionally thrilled with anal either way.

[bsmitt11]

Thanks guys. I appreciate the advice. First it's a soft introduction that I'm sure will lead to slightly more hardcore fun.

Now onto find the perfect girl.

[toban]

No you're not weird, but expect the mild to soon be too tame for you!

So after fantasizing for years I'm planning to take the next step and finally indulge my tgirl desires. But for my first time I want something softcore and mild. Weird?

What I'm thinking is an extended time with a girl, chatting, (possibly) kissing, massage,
undressing, some fun exploratory touching....and that's about it.

Strangely mild for a first time? A fantasy I could find someone to fulfill?

Since this is a new experience for you, you will very probably be quite nervous but very early on in the meeting with any girl it will be up to you to let her know precisely what you hope to accomplish, just as the two previous posters have suggested. If you don't explain your desires many girls will ask you how you want to proceed but it's best that you set the limits at the very beginning but don't be surprised if, as you get involved in the session, you find your previously stated desires have changed and you end up trying some more adventurous things than you ever envisioned doing.

So, yes you can receive exactly what you wish but it is up to you to let the girl know what you expect of her before the session gets underway. Just keep in mind that it is you who has paid for some specific service and it is you who can control the events that are going to take place.

[daisuki888]

No your not weird be yourself and good luck

[merelypink]

not weird you juts want to take it slow

[bsmitt11]

Consensus is that I'm not weird...yes! Time to start the fun haha.

Yes I agree, things could very quickly escalate past what I planned so thanks for the heads up. I appreciate all the input.