Being topped...the first time....

[just4you]

A few times I have read stories on this board about guys getting topped for the first time ...
Did you guys get prepared for this in advance with a dildo...cucumber...
Is it possible to take it all in if you never ever had anything up there before?
My next step with a shemale is to get topped....so I need advice on what to do to prepare myself...

Thanks and I would also like the advice of a shemale that tops
Lisa my sweet Paradise, do you think you could top me just like that

[animuszaphodius]

Re: Being topped...the first time....

I was topped once and it hurt like hell. Depending on your anus, you might have to use some small toys at first and gradually work up to a larger size, like what female pornstars do before they take on the big dicks.

[Trev999]

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I've just had my first time.

A few weeks ago i bought myself a toy about 5" and a bit and got comfortable with that first. It didnt take long.

I made sure I chose a lady that was not too large and told her that she was going to be my first. After a little bit of initial discomfort it was quite straightforward and she was able to move pretty freely into me.

If you get that initial pain try to relax and it will come good.

[animuszaphodius]

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You might want to switch to a high-fiber diet too.

[toots]

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yes... make sure you clean the canal

toots

You might want to switch to a high-fiber diet too.

[shyguy305]

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id say get a dildo first and get comfortable with that than move up to bigger and better things

[bottomguy]

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1) Loosen up with a dildo, try and use a 7 or 8 inch dildo. This will be the the same size or a little bigger than what most girls pack and will
get you nice and loose to receive cock.
2) Clean, Clean and then Clean some more. Get your self an anal douche and use it.
3) Don't eat at least 4 or 5 hours before.
4) Shave your balls and around your anus and then clean your ass again.
5) Practice the art of giving BJ's. Use your dildo and become an expert. There are regular girls I see who comment how they look forward to my oral skills. This will get your girl aroused and nice and hard.
6) Relax. At the moment of penetration, pause for a moment while your ass gets used to the size.
7) Be an active partner , If your partners allow DFK , do it. play with her tits and fondle her balls if you can.. (Most girls love nipple play)
Try different positions. (I love to get fucked and finish in doggie because your totalling submitting and this is where you get fucked the hardest but some of my favorites are also cowboy which is good for DFK and lets you control the motion and also side by side.
Encourage your partner, tel her how good her cock feels in your ass and how much you love to get fucked by her.

8) Most important , ENJOY IT.. The first few times you get topped your head will be filled of thoughts of "Am I gay", but get over it.
Enjoy the sensation because there is nothing like your first time. After that you'll be like the rest of the bottoms out there and always
searching for that elusive monster cock that you won't be able to get enough of.

[kimara]

Re: Being topped...the first time....

the good things it s to get licked before i lick my bf asse then i give him a lots of preliminaries after u do when ur ready slowly after time u learn what is ur best position he he

[bottomguy]

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Doh - forgot one very important thing - make sure whatever you stick in your ass is covered.

Damn Kimara is hot

[kimara]

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i know but i have a bf so no need it that the joy of life to have sex with ur love

[just4you]

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Thanks everybody for your tips...and for Kimara, I think the licking would do it...
Too bad we didn't get to meet when I was living in Montreal...I would of sweaped you off the ground...
You're such a swetie, your b/f is a privilige man....

French kisses to you ma tres jolie kimara, peut-etre un jour nos chemins se croiseront....

[kimara]

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olala u write good in french es tu francais ou canadien he he

[curious]

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so lovely Curious

[iloveanal]

being topped the first time

My first time was awesome . Her name was veronica and she was beautiful. She picked me up at the bar i was at we park by my friends house, i went down on her and she took my pants off, bent me over spit in my hole and went slow for a few minutes. I started to scream harder and faster. She made my ass clap so loud and i orgasmed about 5 times it was the best sex i ever had

[iloveanal]

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