Shut down by Viva in Ottawa before even getting to the door!!!

[08ls2]

It doesn't happen often but when it does...

So I see she's in Ottawa and she is a cutie with great reviews so I knew I wanted to see her, I call her up and she's good to go in an hour she tells me. Now being the honest person that I am...maybe too honest I let her know that I'm in a wheelchair, I don't want any surprises when the door is opened. It's not the end of the world I don't have a communicable disease...I'm a guy who suffered a spinal cord injury from a car crash. I have a very muscular upper body and have been told that I'm very easy on the eyes.

Her response was..."I don't think I'm in a position to entertain someone in a wheelchair"...WTF?

I'm a pretty active hobbyist and to date she's the 3rd one to have this reaction when the truth be told. I've had many great experiences in the last 4 yrs upon discovering Tgirls and I know she is not the norm....still rubs me the wrong way though.

[xoxJanexox]

It doesn't happen often but when it does...

So I see she's in Ottawa and she is a cutie with great reviews so I knew I wanted to see her, I call her up and she's good to go in an hour she tells me. Now being the honest person that I am...maybe too honest I let her know that I'm in a wheelchair, I don't want any surprises when the door is opened. It's not the end of the world I don't have a communicable disease...I'm a guy who suffered a spinal cord injury from a car crash. I have a very muscular upper body and have been told that I'm very easy on the eyes.

Her response was..."I don't think I'm in a position to entertain someone in a wheelchair"...WTF?

I'm a pretty active hobbyist and to date she's the 3rd one to have this reaction when the truth be told. I've had many great experiences in the last 4 yrs upon discovering Tgirls and I know she is not the norm....still rubs me the wrong way though.

I really can't understand what is the issue here! She is simply being honest about not being able to handle a client with some form of physically disability. This is a quality, unless you are upset from the way she conveyed the message to you!

In the escorting world (both gg and tg) there are providers who welcome and decline clients for a variety of reasons.

[Alexis]

It's probably not right for you anyways..

It doesn't happen often but when it does...

So I see she's in Ottawa and she is a cutie with great reviews so I knew I wanted to see her, I call her up and she's good to go in an hour she tells me. Now being the honest person that I am...maybe too honest I let her know that I'm in a wheelchair, I don't want any surprises when the door is opened. It's not the end of the world I don't have a communicable disease...I'm a guy who suffered a spinal cord injury from a car crash. I have a very muscular upper body and have been told that I'm very easy on the eyes.

Her response was..."I don't think I'm in a position to entertain someone in a wheelchair"...WTF?

I'm a pretty active hobbyist and to date she's the 3rd one to have this reaction when the truth be told. I've had many great experiences in the last 4 yrs upon discovering Tgirls and I know she is not the norm....still rubs me the wrong way though.

Some SP's (service providers) have issues with disabled people..

This is totally normal and very acceptable..

The only place where I really draw the line is someone who is drunk, high or unhealthy..

This would be someone that is sick and I also don't cater to those that are excessively, morbidly obese..

That doesn't mean I won't see you if you're chubby or even really heavy.. just like excessively..

My equipment and my bed have a 350lb limit.. (this is not a firm rule tho)

I have a number of clients that have disabilities, I have even seen some that have care giver's present when I arrive..

Paraplegic, quadriplegic, burn victims, amputees and more..

Other than their disabilities they are all healthy and great people..

Often people such as yourself have trouble getting a conventional girl or even an escort.. this is normal..

Lots of people are stuck up, cannot see beyond the superficial or perhaps just can't deal with it..

Myself.. I'm not judgmental.. I see the person.. not the disability..

My advice would be to stick with the SP's that you know will show you a genuine good time..

[hottiemchottie]

please forgive me

It doesn't happen often but when it does...

So I see she's in Ottawa and she is a cutie with great reviews so I knew I wanted to see her, I call her up and she's good to go in an hour she tells me. Now being the honest person that I am...maybe too honest I let her know that I'm in a wheelchair, I don't want any surprises when the door is opened. It's not the end of the world I don't have a communicable disease...I'm a guy who suffered a spinal cord injury from a car crash. I have a very muscular upper body and have been told that I'm very easy on the eyes.

Her response was..."I don't think I'm in a position to entertain someone in a wheelchair"...WTF?

I'm a pretty active hobbyist and to date she's the 3rd one to have this reaction when the truth be told. I've had many great experiences in the last 4 yrs upon discovering Tgirls and I know she is not the norm....still rubs me the wrong way though.

im really really sorry! i was actually flustered the time u called. traveling is so stressful cause of so many texters and discounters and bullshitters that assault my phone. if u would like to give me another chance, i would luv to meet u :P hm?

i know i am an ass at times FYI

[xoxJanexox]

Tips for clients with disabilities!

Some SP's (service providers) have issues with disabled people..

This is totally normal and very acceptable..

The only place where I really draw the line is someone who is drunk, high or unhealthy..

This would be someone that is sick and I also don't cater to those that are excessively, morbidly obese..

That doesn't mean I won't see you if you're chubby or even really heavy.. just like excessively..

My equipment and my bed have a 350lb limit.. (this is not a firm rule tho)

I have a number of clients that have disabilities, I have even seen some that have care giver's present when I arrive..

Paraplegic, quadriplegic, burn victims, amputees and more..

Other than their disabilities they are all healthy and great people..

Often people such as yourself have trouble getting a conventional girl or even an escort.. this is normal..

Lots of people are stuck up, cannot see beyond the superficial or perhaps just can't deal with it..

Myself.. I'm not judgmental.. I see the person.. not the disability..

My advice would be to stick with the SP's that you know will show you a genuine good time..

I think your overall input is reasonable, but I want to clarify something for fairness of tg(s) and gg(s) who decline to see clients with disabilities.

I. myself, see them all the time and have seen clients with serious disabilities, but I also tend to understand where some providers are coming from. I think a lot of those providers who decline to see clients with disabilities are actually concerned with their ability to handle the situation and in effect provide a quality encounter. I don't think its a judgement issue as most providers are willing to see any client as long as they are respectful.

In the gg(s) escorting world for example, you will find escorts with nursing background are the ones in the front line of providing this service. To the contrary a very young escort might be overwhelmed by the situation.

Here are some tips to clients with disabilities that are definitely helpful:

1- Be honest:

Be honest about your situation when you contact a provider. There is nothing worst from meeting a provider to find a stare on her face. A lot of providers will welcome you and some will decline, but at least you know it from the start.

2- Contact the provider ahead of time by email/phone etc and explain that you are serious about meeting:

This will show that provider that you are sincere about meeting.

3- In-call vs out-call:

Make this decision ahead of time. Some providers stay or live in places that are not accessible to clients with disabilities.

4- Book a longer session:

Yes, a session of at least 90 min is necessary.

5- Do the protocols like any other client and make an impression:

Yes, arrive to the session showered and well groomed! And make an impression!

[PeterthePainter]

Gracious response from Viva in #4. Reflects very well on her IMO.

[Rockheart]

You cannot blame someone for having issue with people who are different.

Sex is a very personal thing and getting turned off by something may ruin a session.

Handicaps are handled different by people depending on their exposure to those in wheelchairs or handicapped.
Myself I grew up around the handicapped as my Mom was a nurse and a chronic volunteer to the elderly.

While handicapped and other disabled people became more normal to me, I certainly would still think twice about sleeping with someone with a handicap. If something just doesn't turn me on, that is life. No law or rule or could change my attractions.

That being said I have found myself incredibly attracted to some girls in wheelchairs and turned off by others.
But this is how i see all women.
Plus if you hear wheel chair you don't know what shape the person is in, do they have limbs, sexual organs, etc.
The anxiety could be huge.

As a professional service provider i should have some choice who I see.
I would want to avoid an awkward situation where I was not turned on and could not perform.

Some providers will not see certain obese or overly smelly customers.
Some won't see guys that are too big or too hung.

You have to let people have some preferences, it isn't a menial service job.

[Shyla Wild]

im really really sorry! i was actually flustered the time u called. traveling is so stressful cause of so many texters and discounters and bullshitters that assault my phone. if u would like to give me another chance, i would luv to meet u :P hm?

i know i am an ass at times FYI

Very Classy and Professional response. I do not believe anyone could expect a better reaction than this.

[Barbie_Swallows]

I have many strict rules. I will not see black guys. I will not see indian guys. I will not see drug addicts even though my former sugar daddy dave is one lol. I will never meet a guy that is texting me non stop rather then to call me. I wont see bottoms. I wont see beggers asking for discounts. I wont see losers who appear nervous or scared cause im not a fucking therapist to help them with there mental problems. I will not see women or shemales or animals or under age childrens. I will not waste my time on these undercover faggots that cancel last minute. U screw up the first time i automatically will block ur number. I will not see guys asking for free sex. Love me or hate me these are my fucking rules!

[Rockheart]

I have many strict rules. I will not see black guys. I will not see indian guys. I will not see drug addicts even though my former sugar daddy dave is one lol. I will never meet a guy that is texting me non stop rather then to call me. I wont see bottoms. I wont see beggers asking for discounts. I wont see losers who appear nervous or scared cause im not a fucking therapist to help them with there mental problems. I will not see women or shemales or animals or under age childrens. I will not waste my time on these undercover faggots that cancel last minute. U screw up the first time i automatically willeeblock ur number. I will not see guys asking for free sex. Love me or hate me these are my fucking rules!

Why don't you say you only see straight white top men with lots of money and no emotional or substance issues.
It is much less typing and less intolerant!

Actually there is nothing wrong with feeling this way, it is just not politically correct to say it.

[jake69]

I have many strict rules. I will not see black guys. I will not see indian guys. I will not see drug addicts even though my former sugar daddy dave is one lol. I will never meet a guy that is texting me non stop rather then to call me. I wont see bottoms. I wont see beggers asking for discounts. I wont see losers who appear nervous or scared cause im not a fucking therapist to help them with there mental problems. I will not see women or shemales or animals or under age childrens. I will not waste my time on these undercover faggots that cancel last minute. U screw up the first time i automatically will block ur number. I will not see guys asking for free sex. Love me or hate me these are my fucking rules!

Those are your "fucking rules" Do you have sucking rules? kissing rules?

[Ana_Jolie]

Why don't you say you only see straight white top men with lots of money and no emotional or substance issues.
It is much less typing and less intolerant!

Actually there is nothing wrong with feeling this way, it is just not politically correct to say it.

Thats just the point Crag with her never ending task of avoiding drama she somehow always likes to put the shock in shock rock... Oh wait that was Marilyn Manson. In all honesty everyone sees through Barbie. I think she is the most transparent person on here and has always been. She likes to stir the pot but play the innocent victim card. Responding to anything she says just kills brain cells.

[Alexis]

im really really sorry! i was actually flustered the time u called. traveling is so stressful cause of so many texters and discounters and bullshitters that assault my phone. if u would like to give me another chance, i would luv to meet u :P hm?

i know i am an ass at times FYI

Oh ya.. nothing like 8 guys texting you at once.. lol

I know I've had to say no before too..

Not all the places I stay are accessible and or appropriate..

My new place in Vancouver is accessible..

I do out calls too but those require a credit card deposit for new clients..

It's harder to do when you're travelling too for sure..

[Raging Bob]

Thats just the point Crag with her never ending task of avoiding drama she somehow always likes to put the shock in shock rock... Oh wait that was Marilyn Manson. In all honesty everyone sees through Barbie. I think she is the most transparent person on here and has always been. She likes to stir the pot but play the innocent victim card. Responding to anything she says just kills brain cells.

She also won't date drug addicts....unless they give her money.....Whatever I'm not getting sucked into the "Barbie Vortex".

[Locomotion]

im really really sorry! i was actually flustered the time u called. traveling is so stressful cause of so many texters and discounters and bullshitters that assault my phone. if u would like to give me another chance, i would luv to meet u :P hm?

i know i am an ass at times FYI

What an awesome, classy response from a very sweet girl. 08ls2 I do hope you give her another try, dude!

Then write a detailed review for us pervs