Guys who expect more time for their one-hour donation

[Guest]

Hi all,

I have experienced men who book for an hour and then expect the time to go well over the hour.

This really bothers me, but i suppose i am to blame for it.
Sometimes, when i have nothing else planned, and i am with nice gentlemen clients who are gentle, polite, and very attentive to me, i extend the session because i am enjoying myself and i know they'll pleasure me.

However, as time goes on, and they visit regularly, they expect this time extension all the time, and i notice they feel rushed when i ask them to cum when the end of their hour is approaching.
They tend to think that because i've extended a session or two (or more) at no extra charge in the past, that i must REALLY REALLY like them. I have noticed they sort of feel like, "How dare you ask me to get ready to cum when the booked time is approaching it's end?"
I, recently, told a regular client that i really shouldn't be extending sessions without asking for extra money because it's kind of like ruining my own chances of getting more money for more service.

He told me, "Well, as long as we're both enjoying ourselves, why not?"
When he said that, it made me think. So, i tried to end the next session just before the session was up as i should do.
THAT is NOT rushing a client. That is just expecting him to be reasonable and to respect the session agreement. It's a certain donation for a certain amount of time. I don't do this "job" to do guys favors.

I've learned that when you do extra at no extra charge, because it feels nice, that some inconsiderate clients come to expect it as the normal session.

One man started to give me a mere measly $20.00 extra and expected as much time as he wanted.
Maybe he can spend an entire afternoon with me just to pass the time when it's free extra time, but when i have other things to do after his session, and i nicely tell him, "You better cum now, Sweety, because the time is almost up," and he gets offended by it, it's really annoying and it hurts my feelings.
Clients should be ready to hand over extra cash if they expect extra time, even if i was generous enough to allow previous sessions to run over time, a bit....be happy for the extra time you get.
A respectful client should appreciate the generosity instead of trying to make it a rule.

He stopped coming to see me because the last time, when his hour was up, i nicely asked him to get ready to cum. He got up and told me he has to leave, instead.
When i sent him an email about a week later, he responded to tell me to stop contacting him. Which i did. Who needs HIM and his cheapskate ways. Not i!


What says the members about men like that?

Babe,
xoxo

[ibeenshot]

Babe,
xoxo

Well Babe they certainly would be in the minority because pretty well close to 100% of the men get less time than they pay for. Would be nice if everyone respected the time paid for.

[Photo Mann]

A deal is a deal . . .

I believe that if something is agreed to, then that is what is honored. This is a two-way street. Unfortunately, too many guys get less time than they pay for, from a majority of escorts. This is a shame. This is not. however, a reason to expect extra time from the few gracious ones that provide it on occasion. Escorts who cash and dash, exist because they get enough business to survive and remain. They are prevalent because they get way too much business as a segment. Market allowance on one end, and failure to raise general standards, on the other.

If an hour is agreed to then an hour is what should take place. If it exceeds an hour, consider yourself lucky, be grateful, hope that God smiles on you again, and definitely do not come to expect it. If it is under an hour, feel free to raise the issue, or withhold funds until at least a discussion can occur (if you don't pay up front). An hour is an hour.

[xoxJanexox]

I believe that if something is agreed to, then that is what is honored. This is a two-way street. Unfortunately, too many guys get less time than they pay for, from a majority of escorts. This is a shame. This is not. however, a reason to expect extra time from the few gracious ones that provide it on occasion. Escorts who cash and dash, exist because they get enough business to survive and remain. They are prevalent because they get way too much business as a segment. Market allowance on one end, and failure to raise general standards, on the other.

If an hour is agreed to then an hour is what should take place. If it exceeds an hour, consider yourself lucky, be grateful, hope that God smiles on you again, and definitely do not come to expect it. If it is under an hour, feel free to raise the issue, or withhold funds until at least a discussion can occur (if you don't pay up front). An hour is an hour.

Just perfect!

[VanessaBell]

I have on occasion also stayed longer with clients that I have stuff in common with, just because I like talking to them, but the "aren't you enjoying yourself?" guys are basically satan, and I wholeheartedly encourage them all to collectively hurl themselves into a volcano.

[bluequad]

I agree with what the others have posted too. If I agree to and pay for an hour, I expect something close to that hour. I've had sessions that lasted way more than an hour and I never assume that the next time will be that way. I've had hour sessions that were 20 minutes also but the vast majority have been an hour or very close to it. I'd like the girls to provide their opinion on what constitutes an hour though. Does the clock start ticking the moment the door is opened? The reason I ask is I've had a couple of sessions where the girl came to my room, we did the normal exchange and she went to the bathroom to freshen up and spent 15 minutes in there and then another 10 minutes on the phone before any attention on our session started. I think that if I ask for a specific outfit and it takes that long to get ready then the clock should be running. Especially if it's something that she wouldn't wear through the lobby of the Hotel. I asked for it and should know she would need time to get ready. In that case, I would book 90 minutes at a minimum anyway but I mean the sessions where the girl is just freshening up, there hasn't been any request for specific apparel and she is in the bathroom for an extended period of time and then on the phone. Is the clock ticking or does it start when she is ready to engage in conversation with me and we begin doing what we agreed to when making the appointment? My opinion is that under those circumstances the hour should start after all of that. On the other hand, 3-5 minutes in the bathroom to freshen up on arrival while I'm getting comfortable, I've always felt is normal and the clock is running. What do you think girls and guys?

[TSFantasia]

Closing Time!

Best to keep it on a business level so not to confuse yourself or the client as to your intentions in the "relationship" (escort/client).
This may be why many girls put in their ads, "Not looking for new BF or FWBs" as many guys will try to play that card to weasel themselves into free sex sessions. If the person shows no sign of "finishing" or leaving at the end of their hour then best to say something like "Your time is done (almost done) did you want to pay for more time? (Hint! Hint!).

Not that I haven't done this myself spending an extra 15-20 mins with a client but it was just chatting and I was getting dressed and they were too. It was not an extension of the sex session.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGytDsqkQY8

[toban]

A couple of thoughts on this issue:


I have noticed that there are girls who advertise hourly rates and accept compensation for that hour but whose definition of an hour does not involve a clock! For some girls their “one hour session” ends at “that moment when the client orgasms”! Many reviewers here provide reference to this kind of action saying things suggesting that the girl began to wind down the session immediately after he was brought to orgasm. My own experiences have led me to believe that this practice is much more likely to occur with in-call services.

As a widower, and before discovering T-girls, for many years I used outcall escort (GG) services because other than bar hopping that's all there was! At that time discretion was paramount since I was kind of well known to too many in this relatively small community, and so I became quite used to the customary 60 minute hour visits. A few minutes before a session would end there was always a phone call to inform the girl (and me, her client) that her driver was waiting at the door! With these folks, an hour meant exactly 1 hour or 60 minutes!

Since I was accustomed to that outcall system and it's finite hour but also of course because I did not know my way around Toronto during my encounters in To. I very seldom arranged in-call sessions over the years, preferring instead to have the girls come to visit me. I didn’t keep any records but it is my feeling that I encountered considerably fewer of those “short” hours that way than I did during my infrequent in-call ventures.

I have to wonder if certain girls will offer in-calls as a way to maximize throughput and therefore revenue, without regard for their reputation. I suppose some might also consider travel time to be lost working time when another client or two might be squeezed in.

Perhaps another reason for this happening with in-calls is that when you are visiting in her space then she has more control over when it is time for her clients to leave whereas if the girl is visiting you she has somewhat less control over when the session ends.

Now a disclaimer: In general, I must say that I had many more good experiences so being shorted on time was never a big problem for me. Perhaps my positive experiences were because of my choice of girls but I must add too that I did also get some of those "bonus" times too as well!