Newbie experience

[funguy500]

hi There..
I'm new to the group and to the Tgirl scene. I am hopefully going to have my first experience soon when I make my way to Toronto on a business trip soon. Ive been reading the forums and reviews and one thing has really stuck out in my mind. Lots of guys in some of these reviews are doing things in these sessions that I consider very unsafe. Things like rimming and swallowing. Now, I must say, I totally fantasize about doing these things when I have my first time, but I know I wont just because its not very safe. So I guess my big time newbie question is.... why are so many men doing this? Am I just not a very trusting person? Should I just loosen up and take the chance that I might catch something? I guess id just like to figure out why all these guys are so brave when it comes to doing things like that with someone they just met.

I hope this question doesn't offend anymore. Again, im a newbie and someone that is very curious. I want to get all the info before have an experience. OMG.. and I cant wait for that first time. Its all I think about! lol

Will

[Ray]

Will, If you stick to the really popular well reviewed girls I wouldn't be overly concerned about catching something. Just go for it and have a great time but I warn you, it is addicting.

[funguy500]

addictive

yes, I bet it will be Ray! Thanks for the advice.

[vancouverman]

hi There..
I'm new to the group and to the Tgirl scene. I am hopefully going to have my first experience soon when I make my way to Toronto on a business trip soon. Ive been reading the forums and reviews and one thing has really stuck out in my mind. Lots of guys in some of these reviews are doing things in these sessions that I consider very unsafe. Things like rimming and swallowing. Now, I must say, I totally fantasize about doing these things when I have my first time, but I know I wont just because its not very safe. So I guess my big time newbie question is.... why are so many men doing this? Am I just not a very trusting person? Should I just loosen up and take the chance that I might catch something? I guess id just like to figure out why all these guys are so brave when it comes to doing things like that with someone they just met.

I hope this question doesn't offend anymore. Again, im a newbie and someone that is very curious. I want to get all the info before have an experience. OMG.. and I cant wait for that first time. Its all I think about! lol

Will

well, as Ray said, stick with girls who are reviewed here; they are exceptionally clean. If you go for someone cheap without a review, anonymous at a bar, etc your risk factor goes up; that is where you are going to catch things you don't want.

A lot of girls will use condoms for oral and will never bend on that rule, so if you are really concerned and it affects your comfort level, just go with one of them!

Honestly, the guys here keep seeing girls because we are coming out of our experiences feeling great and our health intact. We pick our partners wisely and it seems to keep things running well. I always have had one hard fast rule with sex in my past and present; if I am about to be someone whom I have any anxiety might have a disease, I do not have sex with her. Period.

You never know, and nothing is 100% except staying celibate. I think most people are willing to take some sort of risk, even if minimal, in the pursuit of sexuality.

[nomad]

Have any infected providers been outed on this message board?

[merelypink]

Always see if they have reviews

[VanessaBell]

My immediate answer would be "because they're stupid," but realistically you could mainline the bodily fluids of well-known, safe-sex escorts for the rest of your life and probably never catch anything. If it's going to give you anxiety though, simply don't do insertactivityhere, otherwise you'll just be paranoid and have a miserable session.

tl;dr go see tia or something

[vancouverman]

realistically you could mainline the bodily fluids of well-known, safe-sex escorts for the rest of your life and probably never catch anything.

I really love this quote. Just awesome and fun all at the same time!