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  • Dating a T-girl

    I have been into T-girls for a long time and recently decided that i am going to try and date and see how things go.

    I signed up on myladyboydate, paid for a month and have legit spoken to 1 person, who went cold couple days ago too - it's almost like noone ever responds. I dont consider myself ugly or anything but can anyone suggest some other decent site? or a bar/hangout place for the ladies? I am located in Calgary. I am 30 btw.

    thanks,
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  • #2
    I'd probably recommend just searching for trans people on a regular dating site like okcupid or something. Those specialized sites are pretty sketchy, and I suspect that one called myladyboydate.com isn't exactly going to attract normal, relationship-material kind of people. So overall, the best thing you can do for yourself is just do a bit of research and use common sense.

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    • #3
      That site looks like it could be a little phoney.
      The domain was first registered 2012, so the site is fairly new.
      They could have a large amount of dummy profiles or something.

      Even though you live in Calgary you have chosen a site dedicated mainly to Thailand ladyboys?
      If you want that, probably the best personals site around is Thai Friendly
      However most of the ladyboys on this site are those you could meet out at the bars in Thailand, basically working girls.
      So before you even think of sending money to a ladyboy in Thailand without even meeting her, give your head a shake.
      Instead, take that money and just go to Thailand.

      Since you sound new to the scene I would recommend reading up on this forum about dating tgirls and joining the Ladyboy forums also.
      http://theladyboyforums.com/asiaboard/forum.php
      Especially on this site read up on the ups and downs of dating ladyboys.

      As far as your local situation, in Calgary you don't have much options.
      You may meet a TS or CD at one of the local gay clubs like the Twisted element or such, but chances are you will just find sex.
      Also you have to understand you are going to run into a large number of working girls in your pursuit of dating LBs.
      Don't be suprised to pick up a tgirl just to be hit up later for cash, the bars are a lucrative place to work.
      Same in Thailand, as sweet as they can seem the ulterior motive is cash and/or security.

      Probably the best personals site in Canada is adultfriendfinder, where you will find far more real and local ladyboys than that site you joined.
      Other local options are, of course, escorts. Most guys always think that they are above escorts or whatever but in your case they are an easy way to try out the scene and see it if is something you want to pursue. It is far different to fantacize about something than to actually do it. You could chase the elusive date for years and when you finally get it, discover your not that into it. Most guys are thinking of a relationship with a tgirl before they have even tried sex with any.

      Also since a high number of ladyboys are working girls, hiring them is another way to meet them or their friends. Once you start hanging out in the circles you see who is who and may meet someone that way. There is more great ladyboys in Thailand looking for relationships than anywhere, however all relationships with them will start out as a paid one. If you are willing to take them away from all that and pay their way, they can eventually love you. At your age you have a good advantage as the average age of a LB chaser is probably closer to 40.

      Anyway explore the scene and read up, don't be too upset if you don't find love now or ever, it isn't easy.
      If you truly want this and stick with it, something will happen eventually.

      Like I say the fast track to this type of relationship is going to Thailand.
      You have to be willing to go there for the most part, because it is very hard for them to come here.
      If you were willing to move there, you would have a relationship in seconds flat.

      Anyway as i say if you ever think of sending a girl overseas some money, sight unseen, slap yourself.
      Either go there or find someone else.

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      • #4
        You can try transgenderdate.com. It is free, seems to have a verification process (if you want to do it, tis optional) for photos. While there are the usual flakes and game players, there are real people there too. I met my TG wife there, we've been involved for 4 years and have been married now for one year.

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