Proper Protocol When Contacting An SP?

[Ana_Jolie]

I am just curious to know what you guys would consider to be appropriate and inappropriate when contacting an SP? I think a topic like this could really be a good source of education for anyone who may be looking to contact an SP?

[Ray]

I think it is important to be able to find out if the SP is willing to provide the services you are looking for. This may require the use of some explicit language. Some ads I have seen say no explicit language. Cmon girls, escorting is an adult business so this is sometimes necessary. I don't text so I prefer the initial contact to be via email. This allows me to tell the SP about myself and what I am looking for.

[toban]

That protocol would have helped me had it existed when I needed help learning!

I have to completely agree here with what Ana has suggested as I believe she's suggesting that we pooners (and especially first timers) should have some appropriate procedures to follow and when trying to make telephone contact with SP’s.

I do recall that I nervously flubbed my first few attempts at making telephone arrangements with an SP. Had there been some protocols for a trembling first-timer to follow I might have had more fun, and a lot more quickly too!

So who’s going to start compiling the list?

I’d like to see some of the girls suggestions added as well as tips from more experienced guys on what may have helped them get started.

[toban]

In the end, I believe some girls are simply asking us not to use crude or street-language in our telephone conversations with them for there are acceptable and non-controversial ways of expressing one’s thought/desires. I can not believe the girls are making this request to just put on a prudish front but assume the girls are doing this for their own legal protection. Whether such request is necessary or not in Canada is never clear-cut but still mired in Harper inspired mumbo-jumbo because once these same girls are with us and behind closed doors, the language usually used by either party is most often wide open..

[tek1234]

When I contact an SP by phone it's about setting up a time to meet them.Once behind closed doors we talk about what we will do and proceed to do it.

[Rockheart]

When I contact an SP by phone it's about setting up a time to meet them.Once behind closed doors we talk about what we will do and proceed to do it.

This just isn't enough unless they are OK with the client leaving once they find out they cannot get what they want.

The providers that will not discuss what to do before hand must then give clients the ability to back out.
From what I have seen this is not the case, most escorts expect you to go through with the session if you show up.

The fact is nobody is doing these types of stings on escorts in Canada. I have never heard of it as long as I have been in this business. Sometimes police in certain cities will bust escorts for not having business licenses, however this has no relation to talk of sexual specifics. Just be agreeing to conduct business illegally is all they need to know to fine or arrest you for not having a proper business license. Just advertising can cause this.

The only other stings they do is to call up providers and make fake appointments so they can talk you into changing your life. They will often have social workers and psychologists on hand to try and talk you out of the business.

Now the client being polite is another thing, they could ask if it is ok to talk details on the phone.
However the provider must not be calling these people "time wasters", as everyone has the right to choose another provider based on your responses to their questions.

Unfortunately it is pretty hard to come up with a list of rules for clients if the providers each have their own rules.
Personally i would prefer not to go to a provider that does CBJ. However if they won't discuss it on the phone, I would move on.

Then there is all the other questions, Top or bottom, cum or not cum, kissing or not, GFE or not etc. etc.
People don't buy the first thing they see unless supply is limited and time is of the essence.
You cannot expect someone to make a decision on no information.

Still, as I say, feeling out the provider and approaching them as they seem to want as best you can.
Often though, the people have never met and may never see each other again, so it is pretty hard to have hard and fast rules.

To me the provider should be leading as they are almost always the most experienced. Then making sure the client is as well informed as they need to be so they don't back out.

Any escort using fake picture, descriptions or statements should expect customers can back out.
Especially those using the fake cock pics. If you advertise 10 inches and whip out 6, the client should be able to change the situation because you lied.

Still first and foremost, you are still expected to use the manners you use in all other situations.
Be polite and don't start the conversation off with some ribald and explicit talk, work your way up to it.
Use abbreviations and generic descriptions where possible.

[tek1234]

I also read reviews and their profiles on Shemale Canada very carefully .Most of them state the services they are willing to provide so on arrival at their room we discuss the things we will do together. . Maybe I have been lucky but so far my experiences have been good.

[VanessaBell]

I like the people who follow the introduction -> requested timeframe -> what they want format. I don't care much about appropriate/inappropriate language so long as the client communicates their desires in clear English in a respectful manner. Not discussing services before meeting sounds like a terrible idea, and would probably lead to some awkward situations. Granted I use email booking, which may be a bit different in terms of logistics.

[Shyla Wild]

My Do's and Don't

Do
1- Introduce yourself
2- ask about times YOU are available to meet her
3- Ask for basic information about a session, aka "Do you top or Bottom?" "can you cum?" Etc.
4-ask if the rates on ********.com are acurate for the session.
5-book an appointment and also schedule a call or text 1hr before the call to touch base and confirm the appointment.

Don't
1- Ask for pics, I have spent thousands on my pics, selecting my pics, and choosing the ones I like. If those are not enough for the client, move along.
2- ask to hang out, be my bf, etc...move along
3- call with a blocked number....I don't even answer
4- haggle. There are girls at every price range. If you feel someone is overpriced, the market will correct that in time. haggling risks the girl lowers her service level along with the price.
5- use correct spelling if you text. It's amazing with autocorrect how people still make themselves look both uneducated and illiterate.
6-don't text a conversation. If you have a lot of questions use the phone.
7a- if you decide to email a girl, email a proper email. the amount of 1 line, 4am emails I get with "Hey baby how's it going" is absolutely stupid and goes straight to the trash.
7b- do not email a girl for a same day appointment. Email is now the slowest mode of communication after actually mailing something. Text is faster that email and phone is faster than text. Use common sense when you are calling for an appointment. There is a chance she doesn't see the email until it's too late.

[Philly88]

I try to only see girls who have great reviews. Therefore, I pretty much know what they are open to already. Because I am a fairly safe client, I tell them my restrictions via txt to make sure they are ok with them. Once I didn't with a GG escort and sure enough she didn't like my restrictions, although the visit was still ok, I was a bit let down. That was when I was first getting the hang of things, since then never had a problem.

Bottom line, if you have a question, ask it politely and with tact. Don't be rude or make things sounds crude. Use the acronym if you can, most know what you're talking about. If a provider gets mad at you asking a few questions if you're being polite and discreet about it, I would go see someone else. Also, please, thank you... all nice words that don't offend.

[Rockheart]

I also read reviews and their profiles on Shemale Canada very carefully .Most of them state the services they are willing to provide so on arrival at their room we discuss the things we will do together. . Maybe I have been lucky but so far my experiences have been good.

This is a great protocol to follow;
To read ads carefully and search out all the reviews you can.

If providers won't provide details online or on the phone then don't go.
Don't be pushed into anything you don't want, you are the customer.

Caveat Emptor