Being safe

[Hockeydude89]

What do you suggest to a Married couple that wants to experiment safely? I don't 100% trust Craigslist...any suggestions? We live in Philadelphia USA

[KelliBlueEyes]

I'd say hire an escort with good reviews, however, it appears there is a dearth of providers in Philadelphia.

You could try OkCupid, as they have trans as a gender now. I'd say you could try some of the Trans specific dating sites, except that when it comes to dating I've had better luck with craigslist.

Probably if you meet first in public, and get a room, as opposed to bringing someone to your house, you'll have a safer time if you use craigslist.

[merelypink]

always use condoms

[peacecountry]

"Don't tug on Superman's cape, Don't spit into the wind, Don't pull the mask off the ole Lone Ranger and you don't mess around with Jim." lol. I couldn't resist. Sorry.

In all seriousness though, I think taking the time to check out well established and reviewed escorts is probably the safest thing there is, these days. I don't know what it's like where you live but I would think there are some reputable boards like this one that can help. CL is just to iffy, imo. One board that I recommend for discussion is Sexforums. Very well moderated and open to discussion of sexuality without judgement. Not sure about meet-ups from it as I am seemingly the only regular poster on there from my area but I would bet there are more from larger areas like where you are. Good luck in your search.