PnP ?!?! Seeing this a lot lately

[ladyluv]

I have recently been seeing some ads on CL that are open to PnP. I had to google what PnP means, and to be honest, what I've learned about it is quite disturbing and scary. Some of the people posting ads on CL, I have now just seen on Shemale Canada. I'm not so sure that I want to see any providers now. You never know who's fucking who. I'm a bit freaked out to be honest. Thoughts?

[justvisiting2016]

i stay away from escorts that looked for PNP on craigslist. I may be over cautious, but the pNP crowd can get pretty reckless with bareback sex with random strangers, so I like to keep my distance. if a backpages or SMC ad mentions that I would be highly likely to pass.

but really, even the best ads you still dont know what is going on in their private life. Just alleviate your concerns by wearing a condom right up to and including oral if you want to be as safe as possible, ask for the girls recent STI tests, and get yourself tested regularly (once a month I would suggest for peace of mind).

At the end of the day, there is always some risk when we leave the door of the house, smoke a cigarette, drink too much, etc. Pick your vices and run with them in a responsible way and you are likely to have a pretty good time.

[KelliBlueEyes]

I have recently been seeing some ads on CL that are open to PnP. I had to google what PnP means, and to be honest, what I've learned about it is quite disturbing and scary. Some of the people posting ads on CL, I have now just seen on Shemale Canada. I'm not so sure that I want to see any providers now. You never know who's fucking who. I'm a bit freaked out to be honest. Thoughts?

Yes indeed. Pays to do your research. Daddies love that I don't drink or use drugs.

[tao1kiku]

Definitely a big red flag. While party could mean something as simple as weed, it usually means Meth. Met one girl on CL who was all great and fun, wonderful and intelligent, but my next communication with her she was sketched out on Meth and wanted to know if I would join her. Big no thank you

[Rockheart]

I think you have to prepare for the worst no matter what if you are going to play in the escort world.
Especially if you want to play the field, like many here seem to do.

You can only do your best to choose, and then you must protect yourself.
Choose the best providers with the best reviews and your odds are slightly more in your favour.
You can never be sure what anyone was doing since their last test or at all for that matter.

Don't think it is just people on drugs that make bad decisions.
Alcohol seems more acceptable however is extremely common to have drinking at sessions.
Most anyone can get super drunk get picked up and end up in a risky situation.
Plus any girl can fall for some guy and often in relationships or "love", bareback sex ensues.
Plus you always think when you pick a girl up at a bar or somewhere that it is somehow safer than escorts.
That same girl could be and escort or a slut or a drug addict and you don't know it.

In reality HIV is not that easy to get unless you are receiving fluids or getting fucked absolutely raw.
Condoms are extremely effective against HIV, but not so much against other things.
HIV is not a death sentence anymore and becoming less of a concern than other STDs that are becoming antibiotic resistant.
Anal sex highly increases your odds of infection.

Besides that your risk is more related to how much you have sex and with different partners than anything.
HPV, untreatable Gonorrhea & Syphilis are probably the worst risks of anything now.
HPV & Gonorrhea can be transferred very easy.

[ladyluv]

I think you have to prepare for the worst no matter what if you are going to play in the escort world.
Especially if you want to play the field, like many here seem to do.

You can only do your best to choose, and then you must protect yourself.
Choose the best providers with the best reviews and your odds are slightly more in your favour.
You can never be sure what anyone was doing since their last test or at all for that matter.

Don't think it is just people on drugs that make bad decisions.
Alcohol seems more acceptable however is extremely common to have drinking at sessions.
Most anyone can get super drunk get picked up and end up in a risky situation.
Plus any girl can fall for some guy and often in relationships or "love", bareback sex ensues.
Plus you always think when you pick a girl up at a bar or somewhere that it is somehow safer than escorts.
That same girl could be and escort or a slut or a drug addict and you don't know it.

In reality HIV is not that easy to get unless you are receiving fluids or getting fucked absolutely raw.
Condoms are extremely effective against HIV, but not so much against other things.
HIV is not a death sentence anymore and becoming less of a concern than other STDs that are becoming antibiotic resistant.
Anal sex highly increases your odds of infection.

Besides that your risk is more related to how much you have sex and with different partners than anything.
HPV, untreatable Gonorrhea & Syphilis are probably the worst risks of anything now.
HPV & Gonorrhea can be transferred very easy.

You're right about the alcohol Crag, as I have done some dumb unsafe acts myself in the past while drunk, and have had issues with STI's myself as a result of my carelessness. Just seems that this PnP stuff is getting popular and it's freaking me out. I pretty much stick to the same provider nowadays anyway, but like you said, there's always the risk. All we can do is be as safe as we can.

[Bawb]

I have recently been seeing some ads on CL that are open to PnP. I had to google what PnP means, and to be honest, what I've learned about it is quite disturbing and scary. Some of the people posting ads on CL, I have now just seen on Shemale Canada. I'm not so sure that I want to see any providers now. You never know who's fucking who. I'm a bit freaked out to be honest. Thoughts?

I agree, PnP is a good way to find trouble

[justvisiting2016]

You're right about the alcohol Crag, as I have done some dumb unsafe acts myself in the past while drunk, and have had issues with STI's myself as a result of my carelessness. Just seems that this PnP stuff is getting popular and it's freaking me out. I pretty much stick to the same provider nowadays anyway, but like you said, there's always the risk. All we can do is be as safe as we can.

lucky for me, when i am so drunk that I would be prone to making stupid sexual decisions, I can't perform so I dont even bother. I prefer to sleep by that point

PNP is growing in the swingers community too, at least in my experience. One of my girlfriends and I are going on a journey of trying to do some things with couples, and fuck, the amount of them that are into PNP is way more than when I did some swinging stuff a few years ago. I found it surprising to say the least. I won't go near any PNPers.