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First of all congrats! Secondly I wouldn't share anything of happiness or progress in your life with an audience such as this. There are people who will express and share that happiness with you and congratulate you BUT there is ALWAYS going to be the ones who will try and drag you back down to whatever level they feel you should be at. It is really sad that people just cant move on and say nothing when they have absolutely nothing nice to say at all. The real funny thing is you will always notice it is the same people time and time again who have absolutely nothing nice to say at all. What is even more sad is the people that are directly part of the transgender community give people outside of our own community allowances to speak to us and treat us this way because this is how we treat our own members of our community. Lead by example ladies and gentleman there is no joy in kicking others while they are up or down. Besides the point who is to say that this is not the type of man she is into? Is it so unheard of that a 50+ year old man would be found sexually and mentally attractive to a woman? Dont project your own insecurities and jealousy on other people. Go out and find something that makes you happy instead of trying to take from others happiness...
Call me old school but I don't agree with it..:: if a guy is letting he's girl hook that means he's gettin some on the side.... And don't tell me it's j work.... Bitch please ur cheating....and I wasn't being rude to Alanna congratulations on ur engagement but once a hooker always a hooker lol xoxo
Dont project your own insecurities and jealousy on other people. Go out and find something that makes you happy instead of trying to take from others happiness...
She shared her story of meeting a client twice her age and it turns in to an engagement. As most of the men here have seen that world for a long time, we know what generally happens. If this lady is an exception, that is awesome. But there is nothing wrong or evil about us sharing our perspectives when it is shared on a discussion forum. Acceptance seems to only go one way with many people.
This is a discussion forum, and we are talking. Dismissing anyone who has a different view as "jealous or insecure" is a weak handed response. Our generation of today have gone to that line of thinking when they can't handle a different opinion or can't handle some criticism. "haters will be haters" . "oh you must be jealous"... is such an empty handed response to anything. It means nothing and is the easy way out to not use any brain cells to listen to other perspectives.
You know full well how these stories usually turn out so you might want to consider we are not pulling stuff out of our asses just to be idiots. The men here were talking. You can't expect someone to announce an engagement and have their escorting dates in the same post to be well received.
She shared her story of meeting a client twice her age and it turns in to an engagement. As most of the men here have seen that world for a long time, we know what generally happens. If this lady is an exception, that is awesome. But there is nothing wrong or evil about us sharing our perspectives when it is shared on a discussion forum. Acceptance seems to only go one way with many people.
This is a discussion forum, and we are talking. Dismissing anyone who has a different view as "jealous or insecure" is a weak handed response. Our generation of today have gone to that line of thinking when they can't handle a different opinion or can't handle some criticism. "haters will be haters" . "oh you must be jealous"... is such an empty handed response to anything. It means nothing and is the easy way out to not use any brain cells to listen to other perspectives.
You know full well how these stories usually turn out so you might want to consider we are not pulling stuff out of our asses just to be idiots. The men here were talking. You can't expect someone to announce an engagement and have their escorting dates in the same post to be well received.
Really your guys opinions have absolutely no merit as none of you know her on a personal level. Do not pass judgment on something you know absolutely nothing about it comes off as anything but what you are trying express. Everyone sounds so bitter in this thread. Your responses come off as a projection of your own insecurities seeing as the people making the judgments are 50+ and hookers. Why doesn't everyone take a break from being cooped up and go enjoy this nice weather. Feels nice to go out feel the wind in my hair and my tits jumping up and down and getting to breathe fresh air.
As well not to mention that someone would bring her race and where she is from is an absulutely disgusting thing to even say. It is called racism. It is racial profiling.
The only mistake made here, is posting your private information on an escort board. Candy is right when she said that. By posting that she was getting married, she more or less painted a target on her back. Is this fair? Maybe or maybe not, but if you don't want people talking about your private life, then don't tell people things about your private life. Freedom of speech is a right we have in this country.
Also, I know tons of escorts with boyfriends or husbands. Maybe this is not something many of you would accept in a partner, but people are all different. Looking into a situation as an outsider makes it easy to judge, but the reality is that none of us walk in their shoes. Love make you willing to make compromises that you would not normally make. Any one that has ever been in love with someone would know this.
The only mistake made here, is posting your private information on an escort board. Candy is right when she said that. By posting that she was getting married, she more or less painted a target on her back. Is this fair? Maybe or maybe not, but if you don't want people talking about your private life, then don't tell people things about your private life. Freedom of speech is a right we have in this country.
Also, I know tons of escorts with boyfriends or husbands. Maybe this is not something many of you would accept in a partner, but people are all different. Looking into a situation as an outsider makes it easy to judge, but the reality is that none of us walk in their shoes. Love make you willing to make compromises that you would not normally make. Any one that has ever been in love with someone would know this.
First of all I would like to say thank you for all the positive comments specially to Candyland and Shylawild.
I guess this thread should be close , I apologize for posting this thread and announced to everybody that I'm engaged, I'm just very happy that someone proposed to marry me and be with me for the rest of my life. I just thought that u guys would be happy for me . As what I said on my post that I'm going to retire after we get married to respect our marriage and to be faithful with my fianc? . And because we're not married yet I asked him if I can do escorting till end of February 2016 and he said its ok coz he understand that this is business. About the age , yes his older than me but FYI, "AGE IS JUST A NUMBER" "LOVE CAN BE AGELESS"
my fianc? is NOT rich . ....
You should not be scrutinized or made fun of for posting this in the first place. It's a free forum and you have the privilege to express whatever you want in your professional and private life. No one should even try and reason why you wold do this.
As for those who have laughed at and finger pointed at this whole scene they should be apologetic. If those who blasted such negativity about this should ever post something up that they are happy and passionate about then I wonder what would happen if others mocked them.
First of all I would like to say thank you for all the positive comments specially to Candyland and Shylawild.
I guess this thread should be close , I apologize for posting this thread and announced to everybody that I'm engaged, I'm just very happy that someone proposed to marry me and be with me for the rest of my life. I just thought that u guys would be happy for me . As what I said on my post that I'm going to retire after we get married to respect our marriage and to be faithful with my fianc? . And because we're not married yet I asked him if I can do escorting till end of February 2016 and he said its ok coz he understand that this is business. About the age , yes his older than me but FYI, "AGE IS JUST A NUMBER" "LOVE CAN BE AGELESS"
my fianc? is NOT rich . ....
That's it that's all...
You will make a terrific wife and will be beautiful bride....again all the best
"...Now everyone wanna take a stab and decorate me
with blood, graffiti and spit
Enemies and, adversaries...they try and tear me down
You want me baby I dare ya
Try and tear me down!"
(couldn't help it, seen the show)
She shared her story of meeting a client twice her age and it turns in to an engagement. As most of the men here have seen that world for a long time, we know what generally happens. If this lady is an exception, that is awesome. But there is nothing wrong or evil about us sharing our perspectives when it is shared on a discussion forum. Acceptance seems to only go one way with many people.
This is a discussion forum, and we are talking. Dismissing anyone who has a different view as "jealous or insecure" is a weak handed response. Our generation of today have gone to that line of thinking when they can't handle a different opinion or can't handle some criticism. "haters will be haters" . "oh you must be jealous"... is such an empty handed response to anything. It means nothing and is the easy way out to not use any brain cells to listen to other perspectives.
You know full well how these stories usually turn out so you might want to consider we are not pulling stuff out of our asses just to be idiots. The men here were talking. You can't expect someone to announce an engagement and have their escorting dates in the same post to be well received.
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