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    Hi everyone. This is my first post here and I have a question.
    I have never been with a trans woman before even though it has been a fantasy of mine for many years. I am worried that the reality won't live up to the expectation I have created in my head. I am not even sure that when I do get the opportunity that I will enjoy it.
    Was anyone else anxious/apprehensive before their first experience with a trans woman?

    I hope I am posting this in the right area.

    Cheers!

  • #2
    I also experienced anxiety before my first session, and still do if seeing someone new. But that's primarily in setting up an appointment and hoping to be on time. Once there, though, everything falls into place. Hopefully once you're done you'll feel satisfied and can't wait to do it again. Best of luck.

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    • #3
      I was the same , but my 1st time was very enjoyable, maybe I picked the right girl but the nervousness went away almost the 2nd I stepped inside the room , in saying that I would check reviews 1st as there are fakes and girls with bad reviews that would ruin your 1st time

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      • #4
        For me the fantasy was better than the reality. I have visited two very well reviewed and well respected providers. The first I did not enjoy because I thought maybe I wasn't relaxed enough. So, I tried again and had the same result. You have this fantasy image in your head that you get from online photos and videos. The reality for me was far from that image. I don't care who you see, the pictures you see on ads and online are not accurate. You arrive at the room and are greeted by a man in drag with tits. There are hints of the photos you saw online, but this is the unedited person standing in front of you. Deep manly voice that is trying to get covered up by a throaty rasp. The smell of cigarette smoke and whatever else on the breath. The smell of pungent room spray covering the tracks of the previous client. You think to yourself "I'm paying a lot of money... for this?".

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        • #5
          You obviously picked the wrong ladies as the ones I seen are accurate!! And feminine , only one smoker out of 5 , feminine voice , only one was a bit off but nothing serious , only thing was a few had really hard breast but rest the breaast were nice too
          Last edited by Jake163; 11-19-2017, 05:54 PM. Reason: Add info

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          • #6
            Its normal

            You wont ever know till you try. Youll wish youd done it sooner. I do

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            • #7
              Billy bats obviously picked the wrong SP?s. His expierience is not mine.

              The women I have seen have matched their pictures and were feminine. Amazing women like: Aliyah, Meg, Lola, Lucy, Samarah, Maldita, Sunshine, India Hilton,

              I was nervous my first time too. But just find a girl you like and let her know. look for SP in the 300+ per hour range, don?t negotiate their fee, show up on time at your appointment, don?t send them dick pics, don?t incessantly text them.

              It lived up to my fantasy and continues to as well. But what does it matter if it doesn?t? If you don?t take the plunge you won?t ever know anyway. No one can answer your question, everyone?s expections and realities are different.

              Go for it!

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              • #8
                I agree. Research is a must. There are fakes out there but proper research will reduce the chance of disapointment.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by Billybats View Post
                  For me the fantasy was better than the reality. I have visited two very well reviewed and well respected providers. The first I did not enjoy because I thought maybe I wasn't relaxed enough. So, I tried again and had the same result. You have this fantasy image in your head that you get from online photos and videos. The reality for me was far from that image. I don't care who you see, the pictures you see on ads and online are not accurate. You arrive at the room and are greeted by a man in drag with tits. There are hints of the photos you saw online, but this is the unedited person standing in front of you. Deep manly voice that is trying to get covered up by a throaty rasp. The smell of cigarette smoke and whatever else on the breath. The smell of pungent room spray covering the tracks of the previous client. You think to yourself "I'm paying a lot of money... for this?".
                  How do you go from this review https://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showt...-Seductive-Eve to that post.

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                  • #10
                    Originally posted by spankwireabb View Post
                    How do you go from this review https://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showt...-Seductive-Eve to that post.
                    Good detective work spanky. Definitely he's got some 'splaining to do.

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                    • #11
                      Beauties

                      Originally posted by TZM106 View Post
                      Billy bats obviously picked the wrong SP?s. His expierience is not mine.

                      The women I have seen have matched their pictures and were feminine. Amazing women like: Aliyah, Meg, Lola, Lucy, Samarah, Maldita, Sunshine, India Hilton,

                      I was nervous my first time too. But just find a girl you like and let her know. look for SP in the 300+ per hour range, don?t negotiate their fee, show up on time at your appointment, don?t send them dick pics, don?t incessantly text them.

                      It lived up to my fantasy and continues to as well. But what does it matter if it doesn?t? If you don?t take the plunge you won?t ever know anyway. No one can answer your question, everyone?s expections and realities are different.

                      Go for it!
                      I am curious if these ladies are placed in any particular order? If not can you please let me know who your top three are, keeping in mind I am in Toronto.
                      Cheers Digger

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by spankwireabb View Post
                        How do you go from this review https://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showt...-Seductive-Eve to that post.
                        My sentiments too, spankwire.

                        Seems billybats has a serious contradiction from his review of Eve and that cynical post.

                        Canuklehead, pick out a few SPs you are interested in seeing from their SC ads. Then go on this Forum and do your research reading reviews and the threads. From there you will decide who you want to see.

                        This is the process I used after getting on the Forum. I had a few disappointments and was ripped off once by false advertising before I got this membership.

                        Bottom line......do your research aka homework and you won?t be disappointed so long as you don't build up the exeperince too much in your head i.e. like a porn video. I have learned that the more sessions I have with an SP the more comfortable we get with each other and the better the sessions get. Been seeing a few of them for 3-4 years now on a regular basis.

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                        • #13
                          Originally posted by canucklehead View Post
                          Hi everyone. This is my first post here and I have a question.
                          I have never been with a trans woman before even though it has been a fantasy of mine for many years. I am worried that the reality won't live up to the expectation I have created in my head. I am not even sure that when I do get the opportunity that I will enjoy it.
                          Was anyone else anxious/apprehensive before their first experience with a trans woman?

                          I hope I am posting this in the right area.

                          Cheers!
                          You probably won't get a very balanced response here. Obviously, the people still posting on this forum probably went through with it, and had a good time. I had the same reservations as you, i think most people would feel the same way. My first time was great, better than I expected in almost every way. Maybe i was lucky that i saw Akira for my first time, but she was wonderful and made me feel comfortable with everything.

                          I doubt you'll get any advice that differs much from that, maybe billy bats was just trying to play devils advocate here and just give a differing point of view.

                          There was a thread that I can't find about a guy that had a bad first experience, it was locked. It was called First and last time with a tgirl, something like that. From what i remember, nothing really went wrong, the experience was just different than what he expected, and he didn't want to do it again. I think he said the girl took charge of the session, and he would've preferred someone more passive, but admitted that is something that could've been discussed and sorted out beforehand.

                          I think you need to just get it over with. Pick a good girl, one that fits your needs, and just go for it. It's really the only way to see if you'll enjoy yourself.

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by diggerdan View Post
                            I am curious if these ladies are placed in any particular order? If not can you please let me know who your top three are, keeping in mind I am in Toronto.
                            Cheers Digger
                            No particular order, I have had great times with all of them. Those were just the ones I had seen last month. LOL. I wish. I have seen them all multiple times. I guess top three for me would be Aliyah, Meg and Lola. But I have also seen those three the most and so we have developed more chemistry/relationship and for me I am kind of introverted so I have found our sessions get better and better each time as I communicate more effectively with them.

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                            • #15
                              Thanks for the feedback everyone. I guess I will never know until I try. The problem with being in Winterpeg is that you have to wait for a travelling SP to come through town and hope it doesn't conflict with my schedule.

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