Just wondering how many keep their lifestyle under the wraps or does your family and friends know about the fun in your life?
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I kept it a secret the first couple of years, but once I hit that 40/41 mark and finally realized I don't need to give a shit about what anyone else says or thinks, I don't keep any of it a secret. I have been in serious relationships with a trans woman a couple of times and honestly, I learned pretty quickly that the people I care about are awesome, and if they say in their head "Hm, maybe he is gay" because they don't understand, it doesn't matter. But then again, they both were really hot so that probably plays a part in peoples acceptance to tell the blunt truth. I think one of the difficult issues with trans acceptance is whether they are perceived to be good looking or not. If you show up at that party with your friends with someone who looks like Lola, you may get a different level of acceptance than if you came with someone early in transition with a flat chest, a wig, and a deeper voice. They are both women you are involved with and care about, but your social circle may accept them differently based on the looks. Still a ways to go for people to understand gender issues. Most still equate it with how the person looks physically (hot girl = passable and welcome; plain girl = crossdresser ew!).
Honestly, if your friends trash you for being with a trans girl ,they probably are not very good friends. If family disowns someone for sexual identity, well, they aren't very good family.
I also am open that I have seen escorts and will again.
But you know, it is all in context. If it will cost you a marriage you love, probably best to keep it a secret. I think everyone is different in what they need to do.
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If you have no close relationships with anyone, no secrets are necessary.
Everyone hating you has it's advantages....
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It’s so true
you can not leave peacefully when you always think about others
if you are single ; don’t give a fuck anyone it’s your life and follow your heart
if you are married it’s another Story as long as you are around people they don’t know you married just enjoy it
Originally posted by Crag Rockheart View PostIf you have no close relationships with anyone, no secrets are necessary.
Everyone hating you has it's advantages....
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Originally posted by Crag Rockheart View PostIf you have no close relationships with anyone, no secrets are necessary...
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Originally posted by lewis84 View PostJust wondering how many keep their lifestyle under the wraps or does your family and friends know about the fun in your life?
Same with my current gf, we go every where together and I think my friends & Family either don't know or care.
As JV stated, a transwoman who is passable has a much easier life, and her partner does tooSINcerely, Lora-Lana
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