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    Anyone had success on any other sites

    I have had some mild success on www.myladyboydate.com

    In Calgary and with my trip to Philippines ,

    It is nice to have a girl that actually wants to go to bed with you overnight, not for money,

    So I have a bit of success, anyone else out there

    tinder instagram or whatever , share experiences or web-sites

    thanks

    just my $0.02
    how can't you love a t-girl ?

  • #2
    Originally posted by dan_calgary View Post
    Anyone had success on any other sites

    I have had some mild success on www.myladyboydate.com

    In Calgary and with my trip to Philippines ,

    It is nice to have a girl that actually wants to go to bed with you overnight, not for money,

    So I have a bit of success, anyone else out there

    tinder instagram or whatever , share experiences or web-sites

    thanks

    just my $0.02
    Transgndr app, free ads. Met my present girl there <3

    main website: https://tgpersonals.com/

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Locomotion View Post
      Transgndr app, free ads. Met my present girl there <3

      main website: https://tgpersonals.com/
      I used to go to that site but it disappeared for a while.
      Never knew it came back.

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      • #4
        Originally posted by dan_calgary View Post
        Anyone had success on any other sites

        I have had some mild success on www.myladyboydate.com

        In Calgary and with my trip to Philippines ,

        It is nice to have a girl that actually wants to go to bed with you overnight, not for money,

        So I have a bit of success, anyone else out there

        tinder instagram or whatever , share experiences or web-sites

        thanks

        just my $0.02

        American girls interested in a relationship (and probably non-asian Canadians) will avoid sites with slurs like ladyboy or shemale in the title or address.
        Trans and other genders are available on mainstream sites like okcupid
        Craigslist varies by area, but there are non-escort girls on there if you can sort through all the cds and pros and flakes
        transgenderdate.com girls are pretty jaded because most of the guys are so flaky
        trans iphone app is all young guys looking for hookups and afraid to publicaly date a trans girl
        transsingle.com is new and not a lot of users yet

        IF you've had some experience dating trans women (and if you haven't I'd suggest a few appointments with a pro FIRST to get some experience), and you can be respectful, keep your pronouns straight, and avoid slurs, and you have a job, a car, and your own place, you'll probably have your pick of any real ts women looking for a relationship on any of the above sites.

        Complete your profile, post face and fully clothed body pics - no sun glasses, smile, keep your shirt and pants on. Do not under any circumstances say in your profile you are looking for someone "passable" or "full-time" (even if you are, you can figure that stuff out later without looking like a douche by saying it in your profile). Do not ask questions about genitals or sexual preferences until you know her better (most of the above sites have fields for pre/post/non op and top/bottom/verse anyway) NEVER, EVER user the words "tranny" "shemale" or in the case of non-asians "ladyboy". Do not create profiles with words like hung, hard, etc. in them. Do not make any reference to your genitals in your profile.

        READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE OF ANYONE YOU ARE INTERESTED IN BEFORE MESSAGING THEM!!! think carefully, if you are outside their geographic area, or for whatever reason otherwise not what she's looking for as indicated by her preferences if she's listed them in her profile, then do not waste your time or hers by contacting her.

        These suggestions assume you are willing to take her out in public on a date to see if you click, and will treat her the same as you'd treat any other female. This also assumes you are single and available. If you're just looking for "discreet" hookups, or you're married or otherwise attached then you should ONLY be seeing escorts and paying for the privilege.

        If you are the kind of loser who will send pics of your genitals to someone who has not first asked you to send one, or the kind of loser who wants to talk about sex with someone you have not yet met in person you will NEVER get any dates.

        It is helpful, but not mandatory, if you are over 5'8" tall and over 30 years old. (The taller the better)

        Most trans women are looking for a relationship with a guy who does not ever want her to top him. Total top guys have the best chance of finding a relationship with a trans woman. Very few girls are truely top or verse. About half won't let their partner touch their genitals at all. Bottom/verse guys get called faggots a lot. If anything you do, at any time, causes her to think or feel you care more about what's between her legs than what's between her ears you will be labelled a "chaser". She may even label you as a chaser on social media, which may prevent other girls from dating you.

        I've pretty much given away the keys to the kingdom to any guy interested in a relationship with a trans woman. If every SINGLE guy who is trans amorous would take this advice there would be many happy trans women in relationships. Sorry to all the guys who want to bottom, there's just not many non-pro top/verse trans women out there, exactly like there are not many cis women looking to top with a strap-on. Trans women are wired mentally like cis women (if they are really trans).

        If you're not willing to publicly date a trans woman, or you are married or otherwise attached, do yourself and us girls a big favor and stay off the dating sites altogether. Few girls are willing to do discreet hookups or be the "other woman". If you get caught out there, or you piss her off, she may out you. Divorce court judges don't look kindly on infidelity with trans women, so you could lose everything, IJS. Married or attached guys, or guys who are not willing to go out in public with their girl should stick to escorts. The difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money costs less. It is worth the money to avoid complications if you are really only looking for a fling.
        845-201-9316

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        • #5
          Most of the world doesn't consider ladyboy a slur.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by orangej View Post
            Most of the world doesn't consider ladyboy a slur.
            I guess it's not to asians, and pros will tolerate it along with other slurs.
            845-201-9316

            Snapchat Kelliblueeyesx

            http://kelliblue.escortbook.com/

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            • #7
              Originally posted by KelliBlueEyes View Post
              I guess it's not to asians, and pros will tolerate it along with other slurs.
              I truly think that it is mainly in the USA these things are considered offensive.

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              • #8
                Originally posted by KelliBlueEyes View Post
                NEVER, EVER user the words "tranny" "shemale" or in the case of non-asians "ladyboy".

                If you're just looking for "discreet" hookups, or you're married or otherwise attached then you should ONLY be seeing escorts and paying for the privilege.

                It is helpful, but not mandatory, if you are over 5'8" tall and over 30 years old. (The taller the better)

                Most trans women are looking for a relationship with a guy who does not ever want her to top him. Total top guys have the best chance of finding a relationship with a trans woman. Very few girls are truely top or verse. About half won't let their partner touch their genitals at all. Bottom/verse guys get called faggots a lot. If anything you do, at any time, causes her to think or feel you care more about what's between her legs than what's between her ears you will be labelled a "chaser"


                If you're not willing to publicly date a trans woman, or you are married or otherwise attached, do yourself and us girls a big favor and stay off the dating sites altogether..
                Exceptional advice and 100% true from my own experiences and the trans women I have met through "civilian" dating and having conversations about their dating life past and present and the men who want to date them. Most of the time it is a "chaser", someone who is only after her cause she has a dick yet thinks they can get a long term relationship out of it. Doesn't work that way. There are a lot of broken hearts out there when they trust a guy and clue in that he likes to eat in a lot and watch movies, or go out in the dark alot to places that are dark, and isn't too keen about SRS talk. Stick to escorts if you just want a hot girl with some dick to play with.

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                • #9
                  tsdates.com is a waste of time in my experience. It's just Adultfriendfinder in disguise. A lot of the postings in my area are men, women and couples. A few crossdressers bu none of them will even chat much or try to get to know you. Others will chat but won't even meet for coffee. Mostly just people that like to make stuff up and jack off at the computer.

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                  • #10
                    Honestly guys ,if you are looking to meet trans women who are not in the sex industry; regular dating sites are fine..... tinder, POF , OKCupid, etc...... trans women who live as women with regular jobs and lives and so forth are on there just like everyone else. They get a bazillion messages from chasers so there is a wall and it may be tough to get through, but you can. Some escorts use tinder for their personal time for hookups. Just heed the advice of WHY you want to date them and if it is for the dick, stick with professionals. You can not have an LTR that is authentic if you are with them because they are packing heat. Well, let me qualify that, you can but it is very rare. Most will not be too thrilled if that is why you are there.

                    These trans specific dating sites for the most part are escorts, spam, bots, etc. It is very rare to have success there.

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                    • #11
                      Thai Friendly is very good for Thailand.

                      https://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=574

                      theladyboyforums.com
                      asiants.com
                      tgirlasian.com

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                      • #12
                        Originally posted by dan_calgary View Post
                        Anyone had success on any other sites

                        I have had some mild success on www.myladyboydate.com

                        In Calgary and with my trip to Philippines ,

                        It is nice to have a girl that actually wants to go to bed with you overnight, not for money,

                        So I have a bit of success, anyone else out there

                        tinder instagram or whatever , share experiences or web-sites

                        thanks

                        just my $0.02
                        I got lucky once or twice on CL, but the everwhelming percentage of trans "girls" are a waste of time.

                        Fetlife has a personals section that has a high ts population.
                        SINcerely, Lora-Lana

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                        • #13
                          This is the truth

                          Originally posted by KelliBlueEyes View Post
                          American girls interested in a relationship (and probably non-asian Canadians) will avoid sites with slurs like ladyboy or shemale in the title or address.
                          Trans and other genders are available on mainstream sites like okcupid
                          Craigslist varies by area, but there are non-escort girls on there if you can sort through all the cds and pros and flakes
                          transgenderdate.com girls are pretty jaded because most of the guys are so flaky
                          trans iphone app is all young guys looking for hookups and afraid to publicaly date a trans girl
                          transsingle.com is new and not a lot of users yet

                          IF you've had some experience dating trans women (and if you haven't I'd suggest a few appointments with a pro FIRST to get some experience), and you can be respectful, keep your pronouns straight, and avoid slurs, and you have a job, a car, and your own place, you'll probably have your pick of any real ts women looking for a relationship on any of the above sites.

                          Complete your profile, post face and fully clothed body pics - no sun glasses, smile, keep your shirt and pants on. Do not under any circumstances say in your profile you are looking for someone "passable" or "full-time" (even if you are, you can figure that stuff out later without looking like a douche by saying it in your profile). Do not ask questions about genitals or sexual preferences until you know her better (most of the above sites have fields for pre/post/non op and top/bottom/verse anyway) NEVER, EVER user the words "tranny" "shemale" or in the case of non-asians "ladyboy". Do not create profiles with words like hung, hard, etc. in them. Do not make any reference to your genitals in your profile.

                          READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE OF ANYONE YOU ARE INTERESTED IN BEFORE MESSAGING THEM!!! think carefully, if you are outside their geographic area, or for whatever reason otherwise not what she's looking for as indicated by her preferences if she's listed them in her profile, then do not waste your time or hers by contacting her.

                          These suggestions assume you are willing to take her out in public on a date to see if you click, and will treat her the same as you'd treat any other female. This also assumes you are single and available. If you're just looking for "discreet" hookups, or you're married or otherwise attached then you should ONLY be seeing escorts and paying for the privilege.

                          If you are the kind of loser who will send pics of your genitals to someone who has not first asked you to send one, or the kind of loser who wants to talk about sex with someone you have not yet met in person you will NEVER get any dates.

                          It is helpful, but not mandatory, if you are over 5'8" tall and over 30 years old. (The taller the better)

                          Most trans women are looking for a relationship with a guy who does not ever want her to top him. Total top guys have the best chance of finding a relationship with a trans woman. Very few girls are truely top or verse. About half won't let their partner touch their genitals at all. Bottom/verse guys get called faggots a lot. If anything you do, at any time, causes her to think or feel you care more about what's between her legs than what's between her ears you will be labelled a "chaser". She may even label you as a chaser on social media, which may prevent other girls from dating you.

                          I've pretty much given away the keys to the kingdom to any guy interested in a relationship with a trans woman. If every SINGLE guy who is trans amorous would take this advice there would be many happy trans women in relationships. Sorry to all the guys who want to bottom, there's just not many non-pro top/verse trans women out there, exactly like there are not many cis women looking to top with a strap-on. Trans women are wired mentally like cis women (if they are really trans).

                          If you're not willing to publicly date a trans woman, or you are married or otherwise attached, do yourself and us girls a big favor and stay off the dating sites altogether. Few girls are willing to do discreet hookups or be the "other woman". If you get caught out there, or you piss her off, she may out you. Divorce court judges don't look kindly on infidelity with trans women, so you could lose everything, IJS. Married or attached guys, or guys who are not willing to go out in public with their girl should stick to escorts. The difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money costs less. It is worth the money to avoid complications if you are really only looking for a fling.
                          Someone should cut and paste this and use it as a basic primer for dating Trans Women. You covered every angle here Suga!

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                          • #14
                            Originally posted by Crag Rockheart View Post
                            Thai Friendly is very good for Thailand.

                            https://www.thaifriendly.com/?ai=574

                            Tgirls also?
                            SINcerely, Lora-Lana

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                            • #15
                              Originally posted by KelliBlueEyes View Post
                              American girls interested in a relationship (and probably non-asian Canadians) will avoid sites with slurs like ladyboy or shemale in the title or address.
                              Trans and other genders are available on mainstream sites like okcupid
                              Craigslist varies by area, but there are non-escort girls on there if you can sort through all the cds and pros and flakes
                              transgenderdate.com girls are pretty jaded because most of the guys are so flaky
                              trans iphone app is all young guys looking for hookups and afraid to publicaly date a trans girl
                              transsingle.com is new and not a lot of users yet

                              IF you've had some experience dating trans women (and if you haven't I'd suggest a few appointments with a pro FIRST to get some experience), and you can be respectful, keep your pronouns straight, and avoid slurs, and you have a job, a car, and your own place, you'll probably have your pick of any real ts women looking for a relationship on any of the above sites.

                              Complete your profile, post face and fully clothed body pics - no sun glasses, smile, keep your shirt and pants on. Do not under any circumstances say in your profile you are looking for someone "passable" or "full-time" (even if you are, you can figure that stuff out later without looking like a douche by saying it in your profile). Do not ask questions about genitals or sexual preferences until you know her better (most of the above sites have fields for pre/post/non op and top/bottom/verse anyway) NEVER, EVER user the words "tranny" "shemale" or in the case of non-asians "ladyboy". Do not create profiles with words like hung, hard, etc. in them. Do not make any reference to your genitals in your profile.

                              READ THE ENTIRE PROFILE OF ANYONE YOU ARE INTERESTED IN BEFORE MESSAGING THEM!!! think carefully, if you are outside their geographic area, or for whatever reason otherwise not what she's looking for as indicated by her preferences if she's listed them in her profile, then do not waste your time or hers by contacting her.

                              These suggestions assume you are willing to take her out in public on a date to see if you click, and will treat her the same as you'd treat any other female. This also assumes you are single and available. If you're just looking for "discreet" hookups, or you're married or otherwise attached then you should ONLY be seeing escorts and paying for the privilege.

                              If you are the kind of loser who will send pics of your genitals to someone who has not first asked you to send one, or the kind of loser who wants to talk about sex with someone you have not yet met in person you will NEVER get any dates.

                              It is helpful, but not mandatory, if you are over 5'8" tall and over 30 years old. (The taller the better)

                              Most trans women are looking for a relationship with a guy who does not ever want her to top him. Total top guys have the best chance of finding a relationship with a trans woman. Very few girls are truely top or verse. About half won't let their partner touch their genitals at all. Bottom/verse guys get called faggots a lot. If anything you do, at any time, causes her to think or feel you care more about what's between her legs than what's between her ears you will be labelled a "chaser". She may even label you as a chaser on social media, which may prevent other girls from dating you.

                              I've pretty much given away the keys to the kingdom to any guy interested in a relationship with a trans woman. If every SINGLE guy who is trans amorous would take this advice there would be many happy trans women in relationships. Sorry to all the guys who want to bottom, there's just not many non-pro top/verse trans women out there, exactly like there are not many cis women looking to top with a strap-on. Trans women are wired mentally like cis women (if they are really trans).

                              If you're not willing to publicly date a trans woman, or you are married or otherwise attached, do yourself and us girls a big favor and stay off the dating sites altogether. Few girls are willing to do discreet hookups or be the "other woman". If you get caught out there, or you piss her off, she may out you. Divorce court judges don't look kindly on infidelity with trans women, so you could lose everything, IJS. Married or attached guys, or guys who are not willing to go out in public with their girl should stick to escorts. The difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money costs less. It is worth the money to avoid complications if you are really only looking for a fling.
                              First off, thanks for an excellent breakdown and advice. I always knew I'm doing so much wrong but that just leaves room for improvement. ☺️

                              I have learned to watch using derogatory terms like shemale and all but definitely needed to hear about not advertising I like to bottom (vs) and give oral.

                              That said, I knew it might lessen my field of prospects but I figured it at least go right into what we're both looking for. Your explanation made total sense though.

                              I also find it odd and if I took to insults more sensitivity than I do, that the same who want me to watch my words will blast me, labeling me a faggot and chaser or whatever. That's just the world though, I get it. Kinda ironic for me because I do sleep with woman more than anything (more available here and easier) but when I'm with a beautiful transgender woman like to flip that script. Ive also never hooked up with a man who wasn't decked out as a lovely lady. Not saying I would or wouldn't. I just take things as they come and the moment hasn't hit me and it's not something im going for. I'm a bit of a strange brew though I suppose.

                              Just some of my perspective from the other side. Thanks again.

                              Cheers.

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