I guess it is really that hard

[kristopin]

similar to phases.

i think if you look at the my second thread in the 'phases' post i think you will see i eluded to this question of where to meet and why. i must admit that i had not thought about what a tgirl might be looking for in a man. i would think that this anwser is as varied as we all are.

cheers all.

[Tia Phoenixx]

Tia if this is coming out of you then I salute you.

The best reply from you

Respect!!!

Respect!!!

Few sentences..but you reveal general opinion toward escorting

As an escort, i can't be 100% honest, but i don't like to lie if i do not have too.

So yes, that is really coming from my heart sweetie.

See..i'm not as dominant as you think. I can be submissive too, especially for cute, exotic boy like you..

[youngboy4ts]

Few sentences..but you reveal general opinion toward escorting

As an escort, i can't be 100% honest, but i don't like to lie if i do not have too.

So yes, that is really coming from my heart sweetie.

See..i'm not as dominant as you think. I can be submissive too, especially for cute, exotic boy like you..

Tia thanks for the sweet words.
You are right I guess you fit in Switch category
Respect!!!

[kristopin]

isnt it always so

i have to agree with sensual_lover20 on this and also Alysaa. It is going to be very difficult to meet and have a few dates so that we can get to reallt know each other and then let that develop into a long term relationship. reality in my case is against me i think. pm me your thoughts. i am curious how you all feel about this.

[sensual_lover20]

i have to agree with sensual_lover20 on this and also Alysaa. It is going to be very difficult to meet and have a few dates so that we can get to reallt know each other and then let that develop into a long term relationship. reality in my case is against me i think. pm me your thoughts. i am curious how you all feel about this.

I really wanted to a relationship with a specific t-girl recently. She declined my offer It is heartbreaking when you don't get something you want or the feelings don't go both ways, but there are plenty more mermaids in the sea I guess. Not a big sea though. Anyways, meeting more mermaids is very difficult and having a few dates with those mermaids can be an even more daunting task because of communication (i.e. internet), social (i.e. clubs) and work (i.e. escorts) barriers. Nothing is against you personally, it is against all of us.

[dan_calgary]

It is very hard to find a partner when i have such a hectic lifestyle webcams,escorting,music production,dj and my dogwalker business i rarely have time to sit down. I do get a little lonely at times

I have dogs that need walking, hope my neighborhood isn't too far away, lol

my life too is so hectic at times, no time to breathe it seems, we all get a bit lonely at times girl, lol

[Salvador]

The key here is: equality.

Equality ? As in costumers served ?

I wouldn't have known who you were Tia, without you being in the business you're in.

But at the same time, I can completely understand how most regular guys who are seriously seeking a relationship, feel reluctant to try initiating anything with a woman who spends her time doing as many guys as she can fit into her day.

For the most part, I sense a certain level of jaded animosity towards men from most tgirl escorts.

I've begun to question the capacity most tgirl escort's even have to love someone in the first place. Or maintain a loving relationship for that matter.

And when they say their in love, I question the validity or veracity of their proclamations.

The whole thing looks extremely crazy from the perspective of a guy who isn't looking for a tgirl escort for hire.

So for the most part, all your going to run into as a tgirl, are nut bar guys fooling themselves, and hound dogs who'll pay for an hours worth.

[Tia Phoenixx]

OMG this is extremely good post of you Salvador.

I try NOT to post anything for few days, but your single post triggers me to do so.

You r sensitive and your comment makes sense, and u r right about your fear of having a tgirl escort as a girlfriend.

I cannot answer your question for every tgirl, but here is my recipe for staying positive:

1. I take vacation at least 2 months in a year, just to refresh my body and (especially) my soul.

2. I read, take some days off and do some hobbies (camping, sight seeing, going to Regional park, go to a nice restaurant, playing with my dogs, etc...) in order NOT to be jaded.

3. I talk a lot with my clients (especially for those who like good conversation). I've learned things by communicating with them.

4. I've learned how to be sensitive and intuitive. I met my ex boyfriend while i was escorting in Europe.
He liked me a lot at that time and offered me to become his life time partner just after few days dating.
He's not my type, but i like his brain and his personality and most of all, i trusted him (my instinct and intuation told me that). So i said YES, and we had a great relationship for 5 years.

However, the older i am, the more careful i am with regards to choosing my partner (i guess it happens to everybody?)

I have at least 3-4 men showing interest in having me as their girlfriend every month. But most of them have something in common: want to have a free ride

So that's the reason i'm still single right now.

So back to you post, both tgirl escorts and their prospective clients have the same problem: doubt and hesitation.

That's too bad, because not every tgirl escort is bad and not every boyfriend of her is a fool.

How to solve this problem?

For me, just work for few more years and stop doing it after i have enough investment to retire comfortably.
Then i will have a normal life and hopefully will find a nice boyfriend at that point.

[martio5680]

The problem is that most of us good hearted, honest, non-judge-mental, caring, Loving guys that Most T-girls claim to want, are not so good looking. We all have our little problems here and there, and We already get Attitude from girl-girls because of it. And It's really hard on us when we get the same kind of Shallowness from T-girls who by all rights should be much more understanding of feelings then the NORMAL girl.
The best guys, only come in great bodies in the movies.
So what do T-girls want? Shallowness, or Depth?

[solidtank]

The problem is that most of us good hearted, honest, non-judge-mental, caring, Loving guys that Most T-girls claim to want, are not so good looking. We all have our little problems here and there, and We already get Attitude from girl-girls because of it. And It's really hard on us when we get the same kind of Shallowness from T-girls who by all rights should be much more understanding of feelings then the NORMAL girl.
The best guys, only come in great bodies in the movies.
So what do T-girls want? Shallowness, or Depth?

what do most tgirls want?...yes a hot guy to get fucked by...thats it...why do u think most tgirls share the guys...they just get passed around....to come to think of it...i think i came into this community for that fact its so easy to get sex with a tgirl...you don't need to take them to the movies or dinner...just show them your cock and your in....no hassle....guys will be guys...just as tgirls will be guys too..

[Tia Phoenixx]

So what do T-girls want? Shallowness, or Depth?

After sucking KFC million times.. for me definitely Depth.

[Paco]

what do most tgirls want?...yes a hot guy to get fucked by...thats it...why do u think most tgirls share the guys...they just get passed around....to come to think of it...i think i came into this community for that fact its so easy to get sex with a tgirl...you don't need to take them to the movies or dinner...just show them your cock and your in....no hassle....guys will be guys...just as tgirls will be guys too..

I agree.......i'm tried of all this nonsense about women's mind trapped in a mans body is crap, at least when it comes to sexual attraction.

They are primarily visual creatures like st8t and gay males.

Real females are finicky as fuck and are motivated by social dominance and confidence first, looks and then money - the last two may reverse in order depending on the women.