Vancouver girls

[VanCityTSLuvr]

Hey there everyone, how's it going. I've been a long time admirer and even been lucky enough as to fall into a few rare but extremely fun encounters. I'm looking to meet one of the many fine ladies that reside here in Vancouver but have something that's been on my mind that had made me think twice or change my mind before i called. I'm a bit on the huskier side and i guess there's a part of me that is afraid that the ladies around town won't be cool with that. So my question to you is this, does this matter? I've only ever seen one ad where the lady in question had mentioned that she only met with hwp males. Now, for me, I'm ok with that because she stated it right in her ad. Everyone likes what they like and I don't blame anyone for having preferences. If you aren't ok with it, that's you're perogative but so many girls around town don't mention whether or not this is acceptable to them or not. Maybe I'm being silly about the whole thing, maybe I'm not. So please don't take this as me calling you out on your preferences ladies, like i said before, i don't blame people if they aren't into it. I'm just looking for someone that would be cool with it is all.

[Alexis]

Maybe mention it..

Hi..

My suggestion would be that you mention it if you think it could be an issue..

Generally it's not a problem for me as long as you're healthy and have good hygiene.. Sometimes guys that probably should mention it don't.. this could lead to an awkward situation.. I find that it really limits the things that one can do when one is morbidly obese.. Personally if one's weight gets too out of control it tips the scale to the no longer healthy category really..

It's not that many girls are shallow or such.. tho some certainly are.. while for many it may be an issue of trying to feel sexy with someone you find very not sexy.. it can be difficult at times to say the least..

For guys that are 55+ or more than 25% overweight I highly recommend that you mention it or you could find that your mileage will vary dramatically from good to extremely bad..

[VanCityTSLuvr]

Hey there Alexis, thanks for your honest response. I'm not 55 i'm only 36 and i'm not obese either, just a little chunky, lol. I guess i was just afraid of the awkwardness you were speaking of. Just wanted to know if i should be concerned about it or not. I guess its not as big of a deal as i thought. Maybe i'll give you a call sometime.......

[vancouverman]

Hey there everyone, how's it going. I've been a long time admirer and even been lucky enough as to fall into a few rare but extremely fun encounters. I'm looking to meet one of the many fine ladies that reside here in Vancouver but have something that's been on my mind that had made me think twice or change my mind before i called. I'm a bit on the huskier side and i guess there's a part of me that is afraid that the ladies around town won't be cool with that. So my question to you is this, does this matter? I've only ever seen one ad where the lady in question had mentioned that she only met with hwp males. Now, for me, I'm ok with that because she stated it right in her ad. Everyone likes what they like and I don't blame anyone for having preferences. If you aren't ok with it, that's you're perogative but so many girls around town don't mention whether or not this is acceptable to them or not. Maybe I'm being silly about the whole thing, maybe I'm not. So please don't take this as me calling you out on your preferences ladies, like i said before, i don't blame people if they aren't into it. I'm just looking for someone that would be cool with it is all.

Just tell them up front, I always do and have said how much I weighed at the time. Like you I am not obese or anything, but having to drop 30 pounds does matter. It will be rare to be turned down by one of the ladies who have been positively reviewed here. I was in good shape when I started all this, but put on a bunch of pounds in in late 2013 until a couple of months ago. It has made me insecure about my body (as you can relate), but once the session starts I forget about that and it turns in to a great time. It has not been an issue with any of my encounters over the last 15 months, and I have repeated with some girls and they were happy to see me. I am working out and getting back in shape and have lost quite a bit of weight, but I think it is always a safe bet to let them know. They are human after all. There are plenty that will love to spend time with you if you are a clean man, a gentleman, and treat them with respect and dignity. If you do get a no, move a long...... and you will be a winner. Unless you are in the area of being 100+ pounds over your ideal weight, you shouldn't be too worried about it.

I have seen a fair amount of the Vancouver based, as well as many that travel through here a couple of times a year. You are welcome to PM me and ask me about a particular lady to get my opinion.

Cheers