Is my life normal?

[Dreck]

Just wondered if I’m the typical guy on here: mid forties, commitment phobia with women, work hard, visit ******* and shemale Canada sites about 5 times a week, and every 3-4 months visit a trans girl and never mentioned any of this to anyone. Am I normal?

[justvisiting2016]

Being normal generally means doing what societal conventions tell you what to do. So you would rather not be "normal"

In saying that, what you are doing is common for sure. And if it brings you happiness and peace you should celebrate it and continue your path. Life is shorter than we wish to admit and it is not good to waste years and years trying to do what does not make you happy.

I am 50 and love to date and so on (meeting new people is really rewarding) but unless it is some electrifying connection that I have never had before I won't commit my life to someone again. Its not too difficult to date trans women in my city although they are small in number, and endless amounts of CIS single women, but it is sure nice to have the option of seeing a trans escort when I want companionship and sex and some fun company without the dating routine. CIS women are so plentiful I don't think escorts are needed, but sometimes it is with trans as they are wonderful women that escort and great company. I want happiness and peace and that is where I am at.

So, we are normal? Some would call us freaks or degenerates. I think that is kind of charming

[Dreck]

Being normal generally means doing what societal conventions tell you what to do. So you would rather not be "normal"

In saying that, what you are doing is common for sure. And if it brings you happiness and peace you should celebrate it and continue your path. Life is shorter than we wish to admit and it is not good to waste years and years trying to do what does not make you happy.

I am 50 and love to date and so on (meeting new people is really rewarding) but unless it is some electrifying connection that I have never had before I won't commit my life to someone again. Its not too difficult to date trans women in my city although they are small in number, and endless amounts of CIS single women, but it is sure nice to have the option of seeing a trans escort when I want companionship and sex and some fun company without the dating routine. CIS women are so plentiful I don't think escorts are needed, but sometimes it is with trans as they are wonderful women that escort and great company. I want happiness and peace and that is where I am at.

So, we are normal? Some would call us freaks or degenerates. I think that is kind of charming

Thanks for the response. Great outlook. I do the a thrill and sense of adventure going to incalls and In am attracted to trans a lot. So I guess I will keep doing it!

[Curious_papi]

Be lucky enough to do you…enjoy it while you can!

[LOLA_]

Well said

Be lucky enough to do you…enjoy it while you can!

[ladyluv]

Just wondered if I’m the typical guy on here: mid forties, commitment phobia with women, work hard, visit ******* and shemale Canada sites about 5 times a week, and every 3-4 months visit a trans girl and never mentioned any of this to anyone. Am I normal?

You’re doing fine. No one needs to know who you visit for sex. Lots of people have commitment phobia, or just choose to stay single. You’re not hurting anyone or yourself. Carry on. Cheers.

[FalconHeavy]

You’re doing fine. No one needs to know who you visit for sex. Lots of people have commitment phobia, or just choose to stay single. You’re not hurting anyone or yourself. Carry on. Cheers.

Agreed. No one walks down the street with a sign on their shirt saying “I’m sleeping with XXXXXX….” (Except possibly some pimple-faced 15-year old that dreams he’s actually with a pornstar). 🤣

You do what makes you happy and don’t worry what other people think!
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