can there be peace amongst ourselves

[kristopin]

Ladies and gents the threads that i have seen recently i find very disturbing. i know i am very new to you all and i have only met a very few personally. the rhetoric i have seen indicates some past grievances between some of you. as a new person here i know i have very little to say in these matters, however it does make me wonder what sort of community i have wandered into. it almost makes me want to shy away but i know there are some excellant folks here. i can only wonder what can make people dislike each other so much. i know there is a much bigger community out there that would just love to see the tgirl world implode and that these arguments are their 'proof' of the wrongness of the tgirl world. so many enemies just waiting. as in any minority group i think you have to stick together and help each other because really nobody else will. im an old peacenik hippy and i like to believe we can all get along. idealistic yes. realitic possible.
ladies i know mean things have been said, feelings deeply hurt. we dont have to like each other but we could try to be civil.

i would please ask you to a truce, end the hurting.

these are just my thoughts and feelings, not meant to judge or take sides or infer anyones anger.

[the_conqueror]

I like this thread.

Group hug everyone

[tslisaparadise]

Well most of this has been started by a select few that refuse to cease and desist. Mostly they aren't doing it to fight but to make the other girls look bad so it is better for their business. To me they would look better if they were just nice and mind their own business.

Part of it is one person telling another that they are not a real TS.
No one can tell another they are not a true TS, that is something you cannot see on the outside. Silicone and other operations do not make you a true transsexual and they all know it. TS are more motivated to get these surgeries but many TS never have any.

I think we are hopefully coming out of the troubled waters as many are starting to see that I am not an evil escort taking revenge on them.
I am trying to treat everyone fair like a person.
I don't care what happened in the past here, this is a new day.

Live and let live is the motto here.
I love you all my children.

the whole month of december has been a nightmare in here,i came back from holidays turned on the forum only to see lucy getting smacked by virtually everyone and tasha going after tia something like 100 pages, lucy and lola making death threats it was a crazzzzy month for sure.i hope some lessons have been learned,you cant win a fight in an open forum plain and simple no matter how much one defends themselfs your still gonna look bad.to be fair very few of us know whats going on behind the fighting im assuming it all has to do with making money and if thats the case then you girls need to look in the mirrer and re-avaluate your morals and be better people.money isnt the root of all evel however when money makes you evil its time for a carreer change.

[DR-Z]

Well Kris you raise some good points... idealistic for sure, possible I doubt it.

Ultimately the decision is ours. I won't see a girl that bitches... period. I don't care what the situation is. It turns me off big time.

It is only a select few that are the problem and they tend to be the most frequent posters. Its up to the admin to ban them if they become too anoying. Hey it's his right.

There are lots of high quality girls that use this forum to promote themselves successfully and never get involved with the "drama".

Peace

[tslisaparadise]

There are lots of high quality girls that use this forum to promote themselves successfully and never get involved with the "drama".

Peace

Really who?

[kristopin]

dr. who

Well Kris you raise some good points... idealistic for sure, possible I doubt it.

Ultimately the decision is ours. I won't see a girl that bitches... period. I don't care what the situation is. It turns me off big time.

It is only a select few that are the problem and they tend to be the most frequent posters. Its up to the admin to ban them if they become too anoying. Hey it's his right.

There are lots of high quality girls that use this forum to promote themselves successfully and never get involved with the "drama".

Peace

i agree dr.Z i think it will be bad for their business. any newbie to this forum may just be scared off. negativity creates more negativity.

[Ana]

I think that alot of these girls have been so hurt and violated in their lives outside of this community that they carry this cut throat attitude with girls such as themselves. When you hear people call you things you tend to carry that bs around for as long as you allow yourself too. Others see you as a strong person and courageous when in actuality you yourself are a victimizer. Belittling and making someone feel low and beneath doesn't make you a strong person it makes you a bully and an asshole. Everyone has been a bully or tried to make someone feel beneath them at one point. It's seeing your mistakes that makes you realise youre wrong and you would think posting it on a forum or someone calling you out for it in writing would be an eye opener.... but sadly no. It seems much of these girls are a product of their surroundsings which is why I dont really directly involve myself in most of their personal lives. Plain and simple it's just not worth the headache. All this shit is school yard bs. I never made those fake reviews but it's my ip address. That wasnt my voice threatening her even though anybody that has ever met or heard my voice knows it's me. Time to drop the clueless act people because there is a distinct smell of bs lingering around here.

[snoodle]

Fuck Peace..... until I get a piece............... of ass............LOL

[kristopin]

four months

well folks i know that i have been or have been trying to be part of this community for just four months, and i may be just a bit of a romantic. but i found all of the 'harsh' threads just a bit too much. i know i dont know most of you except for this forum, a situation i hope to resolve, and i know that my four months does not give me much right to say very much at all, and i would certainly not try to be judgemental of anyone, but the more these threads went on i felt i just had to say something. i dont pretend to understand any of the past histories amongst you or really what is going on but i hope that we can all enjoy 2009 in peace and prosperity. we have only to look at cnn right now to find people with problems that might make ours somewhat insignificant in our priveledge country.

cheers all take easy. the stress will only try to take you out. i should know.

[Wiseone26]

Fuck Peace..... until I get a piece............... of ass............LOL

snoodle, you always bring light to the situation.

[cooldude]

There is never going to be peace in the Middle East or in this Forum. So keep dreaming.

[Tia Phoenixx]

snoodle, you always bring light to the situation.

U r right. He is funny, isn't he..??
Where have u been Snoodle..?

BTW, we need more tgirl like u here Paula.

Give us more comments in order to let us know u better.

Happy new year!

[Wiseone26]

U r right. He is funny, isn't he..??
Where have u been Snoodle..?

BTW, we need more tgirl like u here Paula.

Give us more comments in order to let us know u better.

Happy new year!

Aww, can't I lurk and be the almost 40 year old tranny...??

Offer my whimsical advice now and again...

[snoodle]

snoodle, you always bring light to the situation.

I'm still around. Thanks

You know we have to laugh a bit in life and not take things so serious.

Life is a blessing. ENJOY !!!

[Tia Phoenixx]

Aww, can't I lurk and be the almost 40 year old tranny...??

Offer my whimsical advice now and again...

No need to lurk..and nothing wrong being almost 40.
We definitely want to hear your whimsical advice here and there.
We want to know opinion from tgirl like you who does not escort.

And last but not least..life begins at 40 .... that what people say....