insght on top vs bottom?

[tgirllover13]

most girls if they are versatile, then you can get both in the same visit. i think some girls have different rates for whether its one way or both, but the availability is there.

[smitty4001]

I've had a few experiences with tgirls, and I have no interest in being a bottom or doing oral on them. I personally like the fact that they know what turns a guy on, and how to please them. A good submissive tgirl is such a turn-on! In response to barbie's topic, does this make me a closet homo?

[Sweet]

Well, I am not one for leaving another unsatisfied. Why should we not please T-girls since they spend the time and effort to please us? Men who say that they'd rather be just the top are usually too head strong.....or in some cases afraid to try new things.

I love taking it. But since i started using a huge toy... all norm d*cks don't satisfy me. But still, i rather guys or T-girls to go in just so they too can feel pleasure and be satisfied. I get the satisfaction of satisfying others rather than myself. I can do that without help.

I used to be the same way, never letting anyone touch my rear, but once i tried it i never want to change.
I am not gay, I am a furry and i'm proud of it. ^=^

[tgirllover13]

its not exactly hard to get a tgirl off by means other than bending over for her

[shonuff1]

we go to a tgirl because there is that special spark/attraction that just drives us insane, but we are only top because our personality/desire is to be the dominant person or aggressor. think of it as if you were into
bdsm. some people like to be dominant, while some like to be submissive, and others are switches. not all of us want to be dominated by a tgirl, we want to dominate them, so to speak.

you have probably the best explained statement of this thread.
just like some girls prefer to be the top/dominant state, some girls prefer
the submissive bottom state ..and some guys prefer to be submissive and
other guys prefer to be the top/aggressive/active position.

as to topping female GGs vs tgirls: i think the same topping/pitcher guys like the thought of fucking a pretty tgirl with an " extension."

[Carl Spackler]

At first I only topped when visiting TGs. It was mostly a comfort thing. Once I did try it the first time it wasn't very comfortable. Word of warning, as attractive as 9" sounds it's not what you want t start unless you're good and ready.

Even though I was only topping, I wanted to bottom again but it really came down to trust with the girl. When I found the right one it was a great experience and now I usually look for someone who is versatile.

[the_conqueror]

I don't know what it is but there's something about being a bottom that gets me going. Maybe it has something to do with the t-girl being in charge and be the dominate one. It's hard to get that with a regular gg.

I mean I'm attracted to these girls because of their "extra feature" that they have. So why not put it to good use, lol. If I was one of those top only guys that didn't preform oral on her either why not just stick with a gg?

[Nice_Eye_Guy]

I think that if you are exposed to T-Girls enough and you really just start to think of them as women, and not just fetish objects then your outlook sort of changes.

Lots of guys won't go down on a GG when they are having sex, and lots of GG won't take anal. In the escort realm, you would usually have to pay extra for anal with a GG as well.

Lots of men also seem to have the attitude that since they are paying, they will focus entirely on doing what they want to get themselves off.

So if you're just a regular horny guy, seeing a T-Girl SP it all comes down to what you are in the mood for, and what your mind set is.

Lots of GG's are into ass play on a man... depending on my mood, I can be into it and really get off on it.... or, for whatever reason, it's "stay the f$%^ away from the backdoor!"

I'm mostly versatile... but someone that is mostly dominant or mostly submissive with their partners would have different tastes. I guess if you are mostly submissive, T-Girls have that obvious asset to reinforce the dominant role with!

[Carl Spackler]

I mean I'm attracted to these girls because of their "extra feature" that they have. So why not put it to good use, lol. If I was one of those top only guys that didn't preform oral on her either why not just stick with a gg?

Agreed

[capitus]

I'm pretty much a top only although I've tried bottom...not my thing.

I am really orally motivated though. I could just do oral (give'n'get) with nothing else and be quite content. So I give and receive oral and top. This is what feels good to me. As odd as this may sounds, bottoming seems less hetero to me and so doesn't get me going...not that there's anything wrong with that...

A hyper-feminine T-girl with a big toy drives me crazy. I'm OK with a well endowed gurl because I don't bottom, thus no pain.

Why don't I just see GG? I do and I love that to. But T-girls tend to be more feminine that GGs and more goal oriented sexually like guys. Oh, and I'm probably not a straight as I say I am....oh no, supress that feeling, supress that feeling, supress that feeling....

[shonuff1]

i don't get this .." But T-girls tend to be more feminine that GGs " ..bit
Where is this comin' from ? they arent as feminine as GGs, but they do
sometimes tend to ' TRY ' to be as overly feminine as GGs.
let's get real here.

[capitus]

I suppose "more feminine" is not exactly the right phrase....rather they are more overtly feminine because they work at it. To some this may appear as a facsimile of femininity and others it drives crazy.

[sadeh]

lol

Guys have an ass fascination
i know this because ive asked, and the guys simply say i love ass...

most wives or girlfriends, will not have anal penetration.

There is something out there that confuses me, I was hoping for some insight.

I enjoy being the bottom. In fact, I will only go the a tgirl escort if I have the opportunity to receive. I have a bum affinity and what is better than a girl with a toy? a girl with the real deal.(in my opinion)

I understand why some tgirls are only bottoms
I understand why some tgirls are both
I understand why men are sometimes both.
I even understand when in a relationship with a tgirl that she would be bottom only.

What I don't understand is why men choose to go to tgirl escorts and ONLY EVER top the escort (why men refuse to be the bottom)

Why not just to go to a female escort?
Is it the oral that attracts the "top only" men? If so, why don't they try out being a bottom they might like it.

I am usually pretty understanding of everyone's preference but this (not that I am against it) I just don't get it

Could someone share some insight for me.

[kristopin]

why

if we are to understand tgirls and anal sex with them then maybe we should also think about trying to be a bottom. if you research anal sex then you will find that the nerve endings in your anus is very similar to those in the head of your penis. the way i see it if i want to have a truly long term relationship with a tgirl then i should know how to please them sexually therefore i should also be willing to be a bottom at least once to understand how it feels. personally when i do finally have a bottom experience i want it to be slow and gentle so i can feel everything. i also do not want my ass ripped open so i need to know how to be gentle myself with a tgirl. as far as oral no problem there. the feel and texture of a penis is quite something else. if that is gay ok thats cool then. as men that have had sex only with women and have only seen tgirl sex in vids and on the net then we really have no way to know the reality of making love to a tgirl. for those of us here we know there is something very special about tgirls and how they make us feel.

[gudarian]

Top or bottom, I love them both.

First start seeing gg girls with strap-ons, then move on to t-girls. I love the feeling of being penitrated. My perfect sessions is one where I start off as a bottom then on to top for the 2nd release. TS-ana is great for this.

My point is that I just like ass! fucking, licking it all is good for me