Dumbass thread

[Tia Phoenixx]

That's sweet of you CA!
I am a person who is very lucky to be blessed and born with feminine body and soul and can be comfortable living as myself.

so why should i force myself to have huge fake boobs, silicone, hair transplant, lypo, permanent make up, surgeries, and hormones if i do not need any of those.
Well, lucy and lisa obviously need that stuff, but not me.

Who cares about label anyway.

So, is it their right to call me a man because i'm comfortable to be a natural tgirl without any those "enhancement"?

How about if i turn it the other way around?
How about if i call them : ex-ugly effeminate gay men who would be lonely without any of these "enhancement" thus deciding themselves to become more attractive by having surgeries, hormones, silicone injections, permanent make-up, lypo, hair transplant or extension, extra large boobs, etc..to create much more attention from men and get money by doing escorting?

No, it's not me. I will not call them "HE" or ex-ugly effiminate gay men.
I do appreciate everybody and respect every decision they have made in order to become feminine, beautiful and attractive.
And they should do the same thing to me!!

Now about my identity:

Yes, that's right and i've admitted several times that i used to be a popular boy escort catering mostly to bisexual and bicurious men.
But that time is over, now i am living more and more as Tia.

So robin has gradually transformed into a phoenix.

Now to Cherryass and other new members who are looking for their first experience:

Do not believe any negative advice or/and mean spirited comments.
If those who send you PMs are really willing to help with your decision.
They are not going to discredit me.
Those comments/advice must come from "tgirl mafia"

Toban, a very senior member of this forums, sent me a PM which is very wise and helpful as usual. Again it is very personal, but there is a sentence that is very right:

I can understand why you become upset when "The T-Girl Mafia" decides to attack your credibility, but I believe that you would appear in a much better light if you were able to ignore them, rather than going on a counter attack.

T girl mafia here is a loose term, describing somebody who most of the case is "unreal" and using a fake username(s) in order to promote one (or some) particular tgirl(s) and tends to discredit any of her/their competitor(s)

If somebody wants to give you a benefit input, they are not going to discredit me.
There is no need of doing that anyway.
You are the one who will make the choice not them right?

Take your time with your decision.
Anyway, we have plenty of good tgirl escorts here.
It does not have to be me or lucy.

Good luck!

LOL Well here's the thing... I was looking for advice. And I got it. I learned a lot. Remember, I haven't had the pleasure yet, right?

But on top of the legitimate advice, I got in the middle of a shitfest. I'm not really sure how that was supposed to help, and it appeared that all I did was open up a long festering can of worms. If nothing else, this helped to eliminate several possible "dates" in the future. (You were never on the "potential" list btw. Nothing personal, you're just not my type.)

As for comparing a "boy and a girl", well there you go again with the "labels". First off, if I understand your definitions, the only things that separate the one from the other are (a) bags of silicone and (2) how they choose to live day-to-day, and (c) long hair. To me, none of these things matter. If someone chooses to get a set of implants and lives as a "real girl" all day, every day, that's great. Similarly, if someone wants to spend part of their week like that and the rest as someone else, and chooses to not undergo surgery (or hasn't yet done it for some reason), that's OK with me too. I'm a pasty white, middle class WASP, but at least I am tolerent of these "variations". If your comments were about different racial groups, you would be branded a racist and rightfully so. Sorry dear, but lack of tolerence is the one thing I'm not tolerant of!

As I said way back when, I would have thought that "this" group would be much more understanding of another persons right to choose to live their lives the way they wish to. A few guys have made posts that demonstrate that they get that. A few have not. Most of the PMs I received were very helpful, and out of courtesy, I won't mention names.

[tslisaparadise]

ALL of you are fucking sad.
I am embarassed for all of you.
.........

ROFLMFAO,ya and this is coming from a midget lol

[TS_Roxy]

Sympathy for the .....

ALL of you are fucking sad.
I am embarassed for all of you.
.........

Well at least you "empathize" rather than "synthesize ....."
.........

[alyssa1]

Your Comment Was Insulting

That's sweet of you CA!
I am a person who is very lucky to be blessed and born with feminine body and soul and can be comfortable living as myself.

so why should i force myself to have huge fake boobs, silicone, hair transplant, lypo, permanent make up, surgeries, and hormones if i do not need any of those.
Well, lucy and lisa obviously need that stuff, but not me.

Who cares about label anyway.

So, is it their right to call me a man because i'm comfortable to be a natural tgirl without any those "enhancement"?

How about if i turn it the other way around?
How about if i call them : ex-ugly effeminate gay men who would be lonely without any of these "enhancement" thus deciding themselves to become more attractive by having surgeries, hormones, silicone injections, permanent make-up, lypo, hair transplant or extension, extra large boobs, etc..to create much more attention from men and get money by doing escorting?

No, it's not me. I will not call them "HE" or ex-ugly effiminate gay men.
I do appreciate everybody and respect every decision they have made in order to become feminine, beautiful and attractive.
And they should do the same thing to me!!

Now about my identity:

Yes, that's right and i've admitted several times that i used to be a popular boy escort catering mostly to bisexual and bicurious men.
But that time is over, now i am living more and more as Tia.

So robin has gradually transformed into a phoenix.

Now to Cherryass and other new members who are looking for their first experience:

Do not believe any negative advice or/and mean spirited comments.
If those who send you PMs are really willing to help with your decision.
They are not going to discredit me.
Those comments/advice must come from "tgirl mafia"

Toban, a very senior member of this forums, sent me a PM which is very wise and helpful as usual. Again it is very personal, but there is a sentence that is very right:

I can understand why you become upset when "The T-Girl Mafia" decides to attack your credibility, but I believe that you would appear in a much better light if you were able to ignore them, rather than going on a counter attack.

T girl mafia here is a loose term, describing somebody who most of the case is "unreal" and using a fake username(s) in order to promote one (or some) particular tgirl(s) and tends to discredit any of her/their competitor(s)

If somebody wants to give you a benefit input, they are not going to discredit me.
There is no need of doing that anyway.
You are the one who will make the choice not them right?

Take your time with your decision.
Anyway, we have plenty of good tgirl escorts here.
It does not have to be me or lucy.

Good luck!

so why should i force myself to have huge fake boobs, silicone, hair transplant, lypo, permanent make up, surgeries, and hormones if i do not need any of those.
Well, lucy and lisa obviously need that stuff----------------I NORMALLY DONT GET INVOLVED IN THE FIGHTS ON THIS FORUM> BUT THAT STATEMENT TIA I FIND EXTREMELY OFFENSIVE.DO YOU EVEN THINK BEFORE YOU CONSTRUCT A SENTENCE OR A THOUGHT?WE AND I MEAN US GIRLS THAT ARE A FULL TIME MIGHT BE OFFENDED BY A COMMENT LIKE THAT.WE DO NOT GET SURGERIE AND HORMONES TO BE BETTER THAN YOU AND THAT IS THE PART YOU WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND.IT IS A NECESSETY WITHIN OURSELVES TO RELIEVE OUR GENDER DYSPHORIA AND BE HAPPY WITH OUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS. DO SOME EDUCATED RESEARCH ON WHY TRANSEXUALS MODIFY THEIR BODIES AND THEN MAYBE YOU CAN REPHRASE YOUR WORDS.THAT IS WHAT MAKES US UNIQUE.IM SPEAKING ON BEHALF OF MYSELF AND ANYONE WHO WAS OFFENDED BY WHAT YOU SAID.FOR THE RECORD I AM NOT PARTOF A TGIRL MAFIA OR WANTING TO ATTACK ANYBODY FOR BEING WHO THEY ARE.BUT YOUR COMMENTS WERE INSULTING AND UNCALLED FOR TIA!!SO BECAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY! PHEW I HAD TO GET THAT OFF MY CHEST.

[Tia Phoenixx]

thx Alyssa,

See... my example is working well. I'm just changing the scenario here..in other for US tgirls can also see the other side of the coin.

So now you understand completely my feeling and others who are called "fags" , homos, "He", "CD" all the time.

The fact is we are all the same spiritually. we are all equal. None is superior compared to others

Our body might be a little different due to our preference and in some degree due to family influence (like myself), money matters (like most tgirls in asia, africa, mexico, middle east, and south america), belief/religion.
In very few cases, It's simply we are pretty happy the way we look naturally (me again)

I do not intend by all means to offend anybody.
(just some food for thought..especially for those who think that they are very superior with all this fake stuff in their body and face).

By the way Alyssa, just to let you know that i'm NOT against surgery or implant.
I may do it in the future just for my own happiness.
I just have to take my parents into consideration for my decision.
They are pretty old and rather weak right now.
I want to make them happy before it's too late.
Besides, i'm ok with my body, face, and appearance.
They are not perfect yet, but it's tolerable let say this way

so why should i force myself to have huge fake boobs, silicone, hair transplant, lypo, permanent make up, surgeries, and hormones if i do not need any of those.
Well, lucy and lisa obviously need that stuff----------------I NORMALLY DONT GET INVOLVED IN THE FIGHTS ON THIS FORUM> BUT THAT STATEMENT TIA I FIND EXTREMELY OFFENSIVE.DO YOU EVEN THINK BEFORE YOU CONSTRUCT A SENTENCE OR A THOUGHT?WE AND I MEAN US GIRLS THAT ARE A FULL TIME MIGHT BE OFFENDED BY A COMMENT LIKE THAT.WE DO NOT GET SURGERIE AND HORMONES TO BE BETTER THAN YOU AND THAT IS THE PART YOU WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND.IT IS A NECESSETY WITHIN OURSELVES TO RELIEVE OUR GENDER DYSPHORIA AND BE HAPPY WITH OUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS. DO SOME EDUCATED RESEARCH ON WHY TRANSEXUALS MODIFY THEIR BODIES AND THEN MAYBE YOU CAN REPHRASE YOUR WORDS.THAT IS WHAT MAKES US UNIQUE.IM SPEAKING ON BEHALF OF MYSELF AND ANYONE WHO WAS OFFENDED BY WHAT YOU SAID.FOR THE RECORD I AM NOT PARTOF A TGIRL MAFIA OR WANTING TO ATTACK ANYBODY FOR BEING WHO THEY ARE.BUT YOUR COMMENTS WERE INSULTING AND UNCALLED FOR TIA!!SO BECAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY! PHEW I HAD TO GET THAT OFF MY CHEST.