Has anyone attended Spa Excess or Steamworks in Toronto?

[Wreathen]

Yep, I know this site is dedicated to discussion of Trans Women, but we also have a large community of experienced members here as well. I usually go to Oasis on Monday evenings but often I find it slow then and M4 is usually couples or women with their preselected group of guys (which isn’t my vibe anyway). Yes, I have been to T-Girl Tuesday at M4. Mainly CDs there to dress and dance…very little play. Plus, I know middle aged white men are at the bottom of the food chain / hierarchy 🙂 and a $100 entry fee doesn’t help.

Why look at Mens Clubs? I’m just attending the other clubs for the amenities now anyway but these Mens clubs have gyms, hot tubs, saunas, bars, rooftop patios, billiard rooms at a fraction of the cost. Plus, I describe myself as “heteroflexible”, with the right “fem boi” (because we are all attracted to femininity) so why not take a look?

Appreciate any insight to either Spa Excess or Steamworks.

[cholla]

I have never attended these clubs, but I am thinking about it. You are an experienced person and I am wondering is the action takes place in the club only or people can get together somewhere else after getting to know each other? I wish I could have provided you with some info regarding your question...

[Discrete84]

I’ve gone to excess in 2017. It’s not a place to find fem boys lol…. It’s more of a retirement home with nude overweight seniors roaming around

[Wreathen]

Ya, that was kinda the information I was getting as well. I think Steamworks attracts a younger crowd.

Patrick Marano has reviewed both clubs on YouTube and did say Spa Excess skewed “more mature” haha. He also did comment it could almost function just as a Men’s Social Club because of all the amenities. I may still check it out. I figure worst case I have a beer and play some billards. Best case I connect with that 1 guest who isn’t an overweight senior. Lol.

[Cowboy905]

I’ve been to steamworks. It’s younger but there’s middle aged and older guys there too. I haven’t seen any fem bois though but up until recently it was only for men. Now they have a gender fluid Night for mtf and FtM. I’m not sure you can get to know people there as I haven’t experienced that.

because I’m into femme, I just went to the gloryholes where I can’t see the recipient, just the cock and I just sat in my room with my ass up blindfolded to get fucked

[cholla]

I’ve been to steamworks. It’s younger but there’s middle aged and older guys there too. I haven’t seen any fem bois though but up until recently it was only for men. Now they have a gender fluid Night for mtf and FtM. I’m not sure you can get to know people there as I haven’t experienced that.

because I’m into femme, I just went to the gloryholes where I can’t see the recipient, just the cock and I just sat in my room with my ass up blindfolded to get fucked

I've never heard of it! Can you give more details, please?

[Cowboy905]

I don’t think there’s any more info to give. It’s a men’s spa on church st in Toronto. There’s one in Vancouver as well. There’s a cover charge for either a locker or a room. I got a room.

the place is loaded with fucking. It’s pretty respectful too if someone tries and you’re not interested. They now have a TS night.

all the info is on their website

[cholla]

Thank you! Actually, I meant different things rather than rules. I was wondering about glory holes, blindfolding and being fucked while blindfolding. But that's OK, I can look up and find out about it. I've never been to men spas, but continue thinking about it. Thanks again for your info!

[Cowboy905]

Oh. Yea they have a bunch of gloryholes there in a section. They’re pretty busy there too. They also have a dark room, a sauna, a hot tub. I’ve never used those things. They have a weight room which I didn’t use.

they have a sling but it’s always occupied. They have rooms to rent which is what I do. Blindfolding was my choice as I didn’t want to know who was fucking me. I just keep my door open and keep my ass up and people know it’s an open invitation to come In. Sometimes they’ll close the door behind them and other times the door is left open for more people to join.

once you’re and sore and had enough, you can just close your door and relax, or you can leave, or you can wander around.

[cholla]

Thanks again! I've sent you a PM.

[Wreathen]

Cowboy905 thanks for your input. I wasn’t sure how much traction this post would get.

You understand what I was getting at. Obviously we are attracted to femme. But we also enjoy cock (giving and/or receiving). Your comments on the glory holes and blindfolding is bang on.

I am definitely getting a room. For an extra couple dollars you have privacy or it’s just a secure oasis to go to if you need a break.

I’m really going to take in the environment. If I meet someone I connect with great. I’m a top but there are many shades of grey. Maybe its just mutual handjobs or bj’s. Either we are both taken care of…all good.

cholla if I do attend I’ll update this thread. Conversely, if you attend let me know how your experience was.

Take care and stay safe, my friends.

[Wreathen]

Quick update for anyone following this thread

Steamworks has:

“Genderfuck” event, first Monday of the month. It is intended for all genders.

“MTF4M” event the last Monday of each month. It is for trans women (MTF).

If I attend either, I’ll report back 🙂

[free1ancer]

Really glad this topic was brought up, I've always been curious about places like these. Though I might not act like a "femme boy", I certainly do look the part lol
Is there a reason why places like these don't attract femme boys? I assume it would be a goldmine of a place to get topped. Would someone like me be welcomed in there, and would anyone take interest?

A lot like Wreathen I would also consider myself “heteroflexible”. I prefer to top gg, but enjoy be topped with anyone with good stamina, though I do have a preference towards trans women, but have been open to men so to speak. I generally get approached by more men then woman, sometimes I don't know how to take it lol

Anymore feedback about the place would be greatly appreciated

[Wreathen]

free1ancer I expect the bathhouses attract all sorts of people. Some men prefer more masculine men…others prefer more femme men. I always say “you may not be everyones cup of tea, but you are definitely someone’s cup of tea”.

[free1ancer]

free1ancer I expect the bathhouses attract all sorts of people. Some men prefer more masculine men…others prefer more femme men. I always say “you may not be everyones cup of tea, but you are definitely someone’s cup of tea”.

Thank you for the insight