looking for a tgirl for a relationship?....think again

[solidtank]

Well ladies and gents just wanted to talk about guys wanting a tgirl to date/gf.my old id was bigunit69 but i was banned....anyways now that you know who i am lets get down to business....i geuss since the young age of maybe 17 or 18 i had an attraction to tgirls...was'nt until i was 23 i was with my first tgirl(angee)and was a good first experience.....so i thought to myself hmm wat would it be like to date a tgirl?....i thought it if i found the right person it could be interesting...now before i go any further lets me just say that i am a good looking guy and consider myself a good person and very trustworthy....and i look for the same in my partner...anyways i started dating this one tgirl and things were good...it was new to me....but at the begin was alot of fun....but heres were things go wrong...i geuss cause some of these "Tgirls" look very passable you think to yourself thats shes a real girl....that she would act like a real girl.....but thats were you have to smack yourself in the face and say wake up...Cause in all reality they have a guys mentality...now i have been around long enough now to know how this community works.....if you want to have a tgirl as your gf heres a list of things you will have to deal with

1) she is gonna cheat on you(remeber she has a guys mentality...i am not sayin girls don't cheat but guys will be guys)
2)be prepared that her so called "tranny friends" are gonna try to get with you cause we all know its one big competition to them
3) Drama Drama and more Drama

i suggest if you still really wanna date a tgirl....try to find one out of the scene and with a "real" job. But honestly anyone lookin to really date a tgirl i suggest don't waste you time...find a real girl....and i am sorry to any tgirl out there that feels differently about this but i am sorry i have seen it all....if you want to be treated like a real girl...i suggest you act like one..you know i always thought guys that pay theses esorts are crazy...but thats was my mistake...they are just sex objects and nothing more...next time if i ever want a tgirl i will be sure to make my donation get my fix and be gone..well thats all i have to say....don't waste your time guys..

[solidtank]

Why should anyone listen to you?
You just come here and spread lies the last time you were here.
How many tgirls have you actually dated, as opposed to fucking?

i am not telling anyone to listen to me...i am just expressing my feelings and experiences thats all....everyone can make their own decision

[Barbie_Swallows]

Well ladies and gents just wanted to talk about guys wanting a tgirl to date/gf.my old id was bigunit69 but i was banned....anyways now that you know who i am lets get down to business....i geuss since the young age of maybe 17 or 18 i had an attraction to tgirls...was'nt until i was 23 i was with my first tgirl(angee)and was a good first experience.....so i thought to myself hmm wat would it be like to date a tgirl?....i thought it if i found the right person it could be interesting...now before i go any further lets me just say that i am a good looking guy and consider myself a good person and very trustworthy....and i look for the same in my partner...anyways i started dating this one tgirl and things were good...it was new to me....but at the begin was alot of fun....but heres were things go wrong...i geuss cause some of these "Tgirls" look very passable you think to yourself thats shes a real girl....that she would act like a real girl.....but thats were you have to smack yourself in the face and say wake up...Cause in all reality they have a guys mentality...now i have been around long enough now to know how this community works.....if you want to have a tgirl as your gf heres a list of things you will have to deal with

1) she is gonna cheat on you(remeber she has a guys mentality...i am not sayin girls don't cheat but guys will be guys)
2)be prepared that her so called "tranny friends" are gonna try to get with you cause we all know its one big competition to them
3) Drama Drama and more Drama

i suggest if you still really wanna date a tgirl....try to find one out of the scene and with a "real" job. But honestly anyone lookin to really date a tgirl i suggest don't waste you time...find a real girl....and i am sorry to any tgirl out there that feels differently about this but i am sorry i have seen it all....if you want to be treated like a real girl...i suggest you act like one..you know i always thought guys that pay theses esorts are crazy...but thats was my mistake...they are just sex objects and nothing more...next time if i ever want a tgirl i will be sure to make my donation get my fix and be gone..well thats all i have to say....don't waste your time guys..

SolidTank... u sound like a big fucking pussy! A big loser too! Why don't u do us a favour, and stay in the closet u fag!


B@rbie Swallows

[solidtank]

SolidTank... u sound like a big fucking pussy! A big loser too! Why don't u do us a favour, and stay in the closet u fag!


B@rbie Swallows

anyways i am done with all the bs

[Dani]

fag!

A.k.a Guys who fantasize about getting fucked, and sucking cocks.

[Ana]

SolidTank... u sound like a big fucking pussy! A big loser too! Why don't u do us a favour, and stay in the closet u fag!


B@rbie Swallows

For once I can agree with Barbie!!!!!! lol

[Dani]

1) she is gonna cheat on you(remeber she has a guys mentality...i am not sayin girls don't cheat but guys will be guys)

The only reason people cheat in a relationship is when something is missing. You were obviously lacking as a boyfriend.

2)be prepared that her so called "tranny friends" are gonna try to get with you cause we all know its one big competition to them

Can't argue that, but if you're really trustworthy it wouldn't be a problem now would it?

3) Drama Drama and more Drama

Oh please! That is one of the spices of life. You complain about it because you are lacking, and evidently haven't got the wisdom, nor maturity to take it. Grow up little boy.

i suggest if you still really wanna date a tgirl....try to find one out of the scene and with a "real" job.

DUH! Unfortunately, you're such an idiot to realize that majority of TS are unable to do so because of the many issues they face, and have little help but to resort to such demeaning things to rise out of their overwhelming problems. Ugh! Once again.. you are lacking of understanding for their issues because of your selfish disdain. If anything.. the TS community should avoid you. Sick fuck! They have enough problems to deal with.

But honestly anyone lookin to really date a tgirl i suggest don't waste you time...find a real girl....and i am sorry to any tgirl out there that feels differently about this but i am sorry i have seen it all....if you want to be treated like a real girl...i suggest you act like one..you know i always thought guys that pay theses esorts are crazy...but thats was my mistake...they are just sex objects and nothing more...next time if i ever want a tgirl i will be sure to make my donation get my fix and be gone..well thats all i have to say....don't waste your time guys..

Bitter, Bitter, Bitter! You seem to be full of drama yourself. No wonder she left you.


As for your handle solidbody, and your delusion of being attractive - Get some meat, Skeletor!

[Toronto's finest]

dating a shemale would be very hard to do in my eyes cuz shemales want to date straight guys they dont like fags and when straight guys are attracted to a shemale its becuase they look female, but hows that straight guy supposed to bring his girlfriend to christmas dinner without being looked at like a fag

[cameraman]

I would think meeting a T gurl on a forum like this would be like going to a strip bar to meet a wife.
Isn't this a forum mostly for working gurls?
I am sure there are T gurls out there that are looking for a steady partner, have good jobs, and a good head on their shoulders.

[Dani]

hows that straight guy supposed to bring his girlfriend to christmas dinner without being looked at like a fag

By dating someone who is passable in all aspect. Also, by not thinking, and looking at them like a TS yourself.

[tslisaparadise]

By dating someone who is passable in all aspect. Also, by not thinking, and looking at them like a TS yourself.

you should just stick to your boyfriends dani

[kristopin]

solidtank =solidguy?

hey solidtank im sorry your relationship went sour on you but that us life. it can also happen in a heterosexual married that has survived 30 yrs. i know. life can be one very tough experience, but lets face some realities here. we are talking about our emotional and sexual relations our world has not come to and end. a door has closed and another will open. real problems are the type in the mideast. bombs dropping on your homes killing your children. these are real problems. we are so damn lucky to be where we are.

i know you are hurting but it will pass and you will be ok. just dont get jaded by your experience. life is a marvelous experienc if we can see it in all its glories.

as far as dating a tgirl, i really dont think they are to be viewed as just sex objects. i like to see the person behind the face. i can only think that the difficulties of transitioning are far more than we can imagine or appreciate. i think the girls are extremely brave to take the steps they do to become themselves. i hace said this before in toher posts but will repeat it here. i would not be ashamed of the person i was dating. i see the person not the skin color, sexual orientation, or any other thing. this is the person i am with. this is the person that is making me happy. this is the person that is fullfiling my existence. why should i have any awkward feelings, those that would object just cant SEE the love between two people.


well thats it cheers all. Chris.

[Dani]

you should just stick to your boyfriends dani

I'm sorry, did you say something? I don't understand retards.

[solidtank]

hey solidtank im sorry your relationship went sour on you but that us life. it can also happen in a heterosexual married that has survived 30 yrs. i know. life can be one very tough experience, but lets face some realities here. we are talking about our emotional and sexual relations our world has not come to and end. a door has closed and another will open. real problems are the type in the mideast. bombs dropping on your homes killing your children. these are real problems. we are so damn lucky to be where we are.

i know you are hurting but it will pass and you will be ok. just dont get jaded by your experience. life is a marvelous experienc if we can see it in all its glories.

as far as dating a tgirl, i really dont think they are to be viewed as just sex objects. i like to see the person behind the face. i can only think that the difficulties of transitioning are far more than we can imagine or appreciate. i think the girls are extremely brave to take the steps they do to become themselves. i hace said this before in toher posts but will repeat it here. i would not be ashamed of the person i was dating. i see the person not the skin color, sexual orientation, or any other thing. this is the person i am with. this is the person that is making me happy. this is the person that is fullfiling my existence. why should i have any awkward feelings, those that would object just cant SEE the love between two people.


well thats it cheers all. Chris.

hey i really appreciate what you have to say here....really helps me ou...life will go on...and there are much worse problems i could have....its nice to see someone that has a worth while response.....

[kristopin]

cool

hey i really appreciate what you have to say here....really helps me ou...life will go on...and there are much worse problems i could have....its nice to see someone that has a worth while response.....

thanks solid, i'm probably quite a bit older than most in here and so i have a life times worth of living to go back on.

so just dont let yourself get jaded, i understand your hurt but i would ask that perhaps it is best not to judge all the girls from your bad experience. there are folks in all walks of life and all races, gendes and so on that can hurt you but there are also so many folks out there for you to meet.

take this maybe as one door opening and one closing. go enjoy life. smell the coffee as they say.