looking for a tgirl for a relationship?....think again

[Sweet]

[quote=I am sure there are T gurls out there that are looking for a steady partner, have good jobs, and a good head on their shoulders.[/quote]


You rang? ^=^

No one should get too worked up over this. One's own perspective is only one path that has been lead astray.
Besides, not all of us make the same mistakes, everyone is different. Anger never solves anything, it just makes things worse.
But this is just one furry's opinion; no one should ever tell others what they should do or not do in a relationship, but rather tell us what is good rather than bad.

the only words needed are 'Commitment and Love'. ^=^

[Ana]

I would think meeting a T gurl on a forum like this would be like going to a strip bar to meet a wife.
Isn't this a forum mostly for working gurls?
I am sure there are T gurls out there that are looking for a steady partner, have good jobs, and a good head on their shoulders.

I wouldnt meet some guy from my work and date him. I dont think it is impossible though. It would bge like you saying you would never have any feelings for someone you might work with. Why is it that because we are working girls that we are not deserving of finding a partner? Why would having a stripper as a wife be so wrong either? Just interested to hear the thoughts behind your words.

[Ana]

Why should anyone listen to you?
You just come here and spread lies the last time you were here.
How many tgirls have you actually dated, as opposed to fucking?

+1

[tgirllover13]

I wouldnt meet some guy from my work and date him. I dont think it is impossible though. It would bge like you saying you would never have any feelings for someone you might work with. Why is it that because we are working girls that we are not deserving of finding a partner? Why would having a stripper as a wife be so wrong either? Just interested to hear the thoughts behind your words.

seeing as most of the guys that see the girls are cheating on someone in the process, its probably not the best group to choose from on your part anyways. but if you managed to find a great guy, it would ultimately fail anyways. in general, things that are vital to a successful relationship are things like trust, loyalty and honesty, and those things would be difficult to come by if you are in a relationship with an escort/dancer

[kristopin]

we have talked on this before

we have seen so many posts about dating tgirls both pro and con and from both sides. maybe what we need to remember is our human compassion. solidtank has made some remarks before that were off base but were being said by a person that was emotionally hurting and had no one to talk to about this. it would seem that he is sorry about previous generalities and just needed someone to talk to. his life will go on as will all of ours. the awkward thing about learning to love is that in order to know its full power perhaps we need a relationship to go wrong so that we can understand and appreciate the power of love. inside we are all the same, we all need someone to love us.

take it easy folks.

[Ana]

seeing as most of the guys that see the girls are cheating on someone in the process, its probably not the best group to choose from on your part anyways. but if you managed to find a great guy, it would ultimately fail anyways. in general, things that are vital to a successful relationship are things like trust, loyalty and honesty, and those things would be difficult to come by if you are in a relationship with an escort/dancer

Work is work... Yes it is not a job that most woman that are considered to be wife material would have but as I said it's work. I find it very easy for me to separate the two in my life. I find that allot of people do have a hard time separating the two. For instance clients calling your phone and I say "I am sorry I am not available today" client says "Well can you at least give me a description and rates?".... Now see right there they have a hard time grasping that just maybe we might be in a situation where it is inappropriate to answer such questions. People have a hard time looking at other people as just that people. Being human so to speak. Everyone deserves to be happy and everyone deserves to love and be loved. Don't shelter yourself or limit yourself because of one person's opinion or what you might have been told what is good and bad within reason of course.

[Ana]

we have seen so many posts about dating tgirls both pro and con and from both sides. maybe what we need to remember is our human compassion. solidtank has made some remarks before that were off base but were being said by a person that was emotionally hurting and had no one to talk to about this. it would seem that he is sorry about previous generalities and just needed someone to talk to. his life will go on as will all of ours. the awkward thing about learning to love is that in order to know its full power perhaps we need a relationship to go wrong so that we can understand and appreciate the power of love. inside we are all the same, we all need someone to love us.

take it easy folks.

Not meaning to shit on your post or anything but judging by a recent post of his he is not sorry and is still a bitter nancy looking to stir shit up. Read here http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...ewpost&t=78877

[kristopin]

thanks ana

Not meaning to shit on your post or anything but judging by a recent post of his he is not sorry and is still a bitter nancy looking to stir shit up. Read here http://tgirlforums.com/yabbse/showth...ewpost&t=78877

thanks Ana
i see solidtank still has someways to progress in his healing.
maybe Solid could get some professional help in dealing with his loss and understanding the grief process. i have been there myself and have had to seek help to make sure my thinking and feelings were real not just reactionary. there is nothing wrong with getting help if it makes you better. Solid tossing our comments like you did in the above post is not going to help you in anyway. apologies may be a better way to go.

[Ana]

thanks Ana
i see solidtank still has someways to progress in his healing.
maybe Solid could get some professional help in dealing with his loss and understanding the grief process. i have been there myself and have had to seek help to make sure my thinking and feelings were real not just reactionary. there is nothing wrong with getting help if it makes you better. Solid tossing our comments like you did in the above post is not going to help you in anyway. apologies may be a better way to go.

well said

[O'C]

So if you date a blonde Tank and it does not work out? Does that mean you can never date a blonde again? It cracks me up, how some people still stereotype TS women. I thing you need to stop being so closed minded.

In any relationship your going to face challanges, that's called life. I do not care if your bi-sexual, gay or straight all relationships are going to have there high and low moments. By saying a TS women, who works as a dancer or escort? Can never have a relationship, is just plain stupid and dumb statement.

What you do as job, does not define who you are as a person. It's just a small part of who you are. I work in law enforcement we have a hate rate of divirce, suicide and alcohol abuse. But that does not mean every cop is going to be divorced or become a drunk or shoot himself. You have a better arguement Tank against Cops and Doctor's, then you have against TS escorts being a bad in relationships.



O'C

[solidtank]

So if you date a blonde Tank and it does not work out? Does that mean you can never date a blonde again? It cracks me up, how some people still stereotype TS women. I thing you need to stop being so closed minded.

In any relationship your going to face challanges, that's called life. I do not care if your bi-sexual, gay or straight all relationships are going to have there high and low moments. By saying a TS women, who works as a dancer or escort? Can never have a relationship, is just plain stupid and dumb statement.

What you do as job, does not define who you are as a person. It's just a small part of who you are. I work in law enforcement we have a hate rate of divirce, suicide and alcohol abuse. But that does not mean every cop is going to be divorced or become a drunk or shoot himself. You have a better arguement Tank against Cops and Doctor's, then you have against TS escorts being a bad in relationships.



O'C

they way i look at it now is your pretty much dating a gay guy....and you don't see very many gay relationships working out...not saying it never happens but its just my opinion....gosh i even know a tgirl that only transitioned to be a tgirl for the fact he did'nt get any as a guy so he thought being a girl would get him sex....now thats just seems very silly and pretty fucked up.....

[O'C]

Tank:

What's wrong with dating a GAY guy? who cares as long as your both happy, this is all that matters at the end of the day.

As far as you calling T-girls fucked up & silly? [you might want to look in the mirrror buddy]




O'C

[Paco]

So if you date a blonde Tank and it does not work out? Does that mean you can never date a blonde again? It cracks me up, how some people still stereotype TS women. I thing you need to stop being so closed minded.

In any relationship your going to face challanges, that's called life. I do not care if your bi-sexual, gay or straight all relationships are going to have there high and low moments. By saying a TS women, who works as a dancer or escort? Can never have a relationship, is just plain stupid and dumb statement.

What you do as job, does not define who you are as a person. It's just a small part of who you are.
O'C

The above is just stupid. Many times stereotyping is based on general trends. The blond analogy is horrible. If it was shown hypothetically that blonds have much higher rates of having relationship difficulties then it may be prudent to avoid having relationships with blonds.

Of course, if someone says all TS relationships don't work, they'd probably be wrong (never seen numbers) in all likely hood, but stating a generality like Tank did is made from personal observations, the first step in establishing a hypothesis.

The very fact that it is a common stereotype is probably because there is some truth to it.

What i don't understand about this forum is the constant anti-intellectual stance it takes when someone posts homosexually incorrect views that go against the homo-orthodoxy.

You know, a lot of people are just really interested in the truth, and do not have an axe to grind.

[Dani]

3 words for you Tank:

David Kelley Services.

[Ana]

So if you date a blonde Tank and it does not work out? Does that mean you can never date a blonde again? It cracks me up, how some people still stereotype TS women. I thing you need to stop being so closed minded.

In any relationship your going to face challanges, that's called life. I do not care if your bi-sexual, gay or straight all relationships are going to have there high and low moments. By saying a TS women, who works as a dancer or escort? Can never have a relationship, is just plain stupid and dumb statement.

What you do as job, does not define who you are as a person. It's just a small part of who you are. I work in law enforcement we have a hate rate of divirce, suicide and alcohol abuse. But that does not mean every cop is going to be divorced or become a drunk or shoot himself. You have a better arguement Tank against Cops and Doctor's, then you have against TS escorts being a bad in relationships.



O'C

Someone sounds like they have a good head on their shoulders