To all the girls who list their email

[capitus]

I also don't like getting calls at 4am from some creep jerking off on the other end of the line.

in some ways we are very different people.

What about an email with some details followed by a phone call? Or how about a phone call followed by emails to seal the deal?

[Ray]

I will personally attest to what Nikki said. When I first considered seeing Nikki, I sent her a very nice and tactfully written email telling her what I was looking for. She responded quickly in kind. I recently sent an email to Terah telling her what I was looking for. After a second email she finally did reply, telling me everything was ok except that she doesn't kiss. Because kissing is very important to me I will not be seeing the otherwise extremely desireable Terah. I really don't get it. They will suck your cock, you can such their's, you can fuck them and they will fuck you, but heaven forbid, kissing. Oh no, no kissing. I would think having someone's cock in your mouth is a lot more intimate than someone's tongue. But then again, that's just MHO.

[Haley]

I will personally attest to what Nikki said. When I first considered seeing Nikki, I sent her a very nice and tactfully written email telling her what I was looking for. She responded quickly in kind. I recently sent an email to Terah telling her what I was looking for. After a second email she finally did reply, telling me everything was ok except that she doesn't kiss. Because kissing is very important to me I will not be seeing the otherwise extremely desireable Terah. I really don't get it. They will suck your cock, you can such their's, you can fuck them and they will fuck you, but heaven forbid, kissing. Oh no, no kissing. I would think having someone's cock in your mouth is a lot more intimate than someone's tongue. But then again, that's just MHO.

I don't kiss either. I used to but found to many guys have bad oral hygiene and there are all kinds of infections and disgusting things to be found in the mouth. You can put a condom on a dick, but you can't put one on a mouth. Plus, most guys are lousy kissers. Actually, I've found guys kiss like they should be giving head, and give head like they should be kissing.

There is also the intimacy thing. If we give everything of ourselves to just any guy off the street, then what's left for our boyfriends?

[Ray]

Haley, In your ad you ask, "Are you looking for a memorable girlfriend experience?". Well I sure wouldn't want a girlfriend who didn't kiss. IMHO, kissing is the biggest difference between simply sex and a GFE. I agree, bad breath is a real turnoff. Possibly you could offer those who offend, some mouth wash or breath mints. Might make them be a little more carful the next time, or maybe not.

[Sam 501]

I agree with Ray. No kissing, no fun. And I was looking forward to meeting Haley on my next Van trip. She's so hot.
Sam

[Haley]

Sorry guys.

I do make exceptions though but on rare occasions. If I'm really into the guy I'll do it and to tell you the truth, it really helps me to get in the mood. But seriously, would you stick your tongue in someone you just met? You have no idea what that person could have just be sucking on, or what kind of oral hygiene they have. It goes way beyond bad breath. Mainly though, it's like I said, most guys just don't know how to kiss and I like to leave kissing for my boyfriend.

[maddplotter]

So Haley, you like a lot of tongue or not? I myself prefer a small amount of tongue. The lips are a very soft and sensitive area, so just around the lips is fine for me. I actually don't like having someone try to lick the back of my tonsils with their tongue. Nice soft wet kisses, nothing too hard or rough.

[Foxy Basket]

in some ways we are very different people.

What about an email with some details followed by a phone call? Or how about a phone call followed by emails to seal the deal?

I should have clarified things - once the details have been arranged (day, time, hotel room, etc) I always follow-up with my phone number, and I make sure there's at least one call before the actual appointment.

Usually, if someone is visiting me, I ask that they call just as they're leaving (to make sure they're actually coming) and again when they get off the highway (which gives me about five minutes notice to make sure I'm ready for them). I also include a detailed Google Map with very specific directions, and I can think of only one person who ever got lost along the way.

I would think having someone's cock in your mouth is a lot more intimate than someone's tongue. But then again, that's just MHO.

It's different for everyone, but I can't get turned on at all without deep french kissing. As Haley correctly pointed out, many guys don't know how to kiss; so, I take it upon myself to teach them how.

Of course, some guys like Ray don't need to be taught - they're quite good already, which turns me on more than any part of a man's physical appearence. I'm far more tactile than visual, anyways - even if you're pleasing to the eyes, it won't do much unless you can also please the rest of me.

[jimwa]

I have always had a reply to my emails.
As someone away from a major center most are to check if the girl I wish to see is available when I travel. This works both ways as schedules change and I always make a point of sending a follow up email to advise if my plans have changed.
It has a lot to do with attitude and if you keep your initial message polite you will get a reply, details can be resolved once your appointment has been made.

[Ray]

Thanks, Nikki!!!

[youngboy4ts]

This is to all the girls out there that provide an email address in their ads on SMC, Eros or wherever, and do not reply to emails when sent to them. I have sent emails to a number of TO TGirls and with few exceptions, I never get a reply. Why list an email address if you don't want to be courteous or mature enough to reply? One girl even provided an email address and then noted, no emails. It doesn't take a whole lot of time or effort to say no, or not interested or get lost. Am I missing something here

May be there mail box is full Lol That?s why they never reply back
Just my thought

By the way I prefer both email and phone.

Respect!!!

[Iugula]

No, that's not what I'm saying.

If you are looking for basic information, things like availability, rates, and maybe measurements, then an e-mail is appropriate. If you're looking for specific information as to what services are provided, like bbbj, msog, top or bottom, or things like "what is a session like", then don't expect an answer via e-mail.

Try to keep in mind, as escorts, we are harrassed by tons on knobs who know how to use the computer. Also, it's not uncommon to receive hate mail and threats. So when you add it all up, we do get sick of answering e-mails.

Then remove your email address or don't list it period. This is basic common sense which, with apologies to Mark Twain, obviously is not so common

[Iugula]

I have always had a reply to my emails.
As someone away from a major center most are to check if the girl I wish to see is available when I travel. This works both ways as schedules change and I always make a point of sending a follow up email to advise if my plans have changed.
It has a lot to do with attitude and if you keep your initial message polite you will get a reply, details can be resolved once your appointment has been made.

My emails are always courteous and I always notify if circumstances change. But I do not always get a reply (maybe 60% reply). But considering that this is a business & they have listed their address this number should be far closer to 100%.

[Ray]

I think you hit the nail on the head. They are in business and those in business need to act professionally and this means answer emails or return phone calls.

[Haley]

Did you not read what I said? For basic info, e-mail should be fine. If we removed it, then you guys would have to call us for everything and that would get annoying real fast.

Then remove your email address or don't list it period. This is basic common sense which, with apologies to Mark Twain, obviously is not so common