how do our ladies feel

[kristopin]

Ladies and gents we see a lot of threads and posts about how some of the gentlemen, i use that term in its fullest meaning, feel about our relationships and our needs. It occurs to me that we see few threads about how you feel. I realised yesterday that i may have been somewhat selfish and may not have paid enough attention to a 'special' friends feelings or needs recently. I think the gentlemen here might appreciate some insight.

cheers chris.

[merelypink]

no ones answering so far!

[kristopin]

pink

I understand why some of the ladies may be reluctant. I wonder if some of the 'men would like to hhazard a guess?

[tslisaparadise]

Ladies and gents we see a lot of threads and posts about how some of the gentlemen, i use that term in its fullest meaning, feel about our relationships and our needs. It occurs to me that we see few threads about how you feel. I realised yesterday that i may have been somewhat selfish and may not have paid enough attention to a 'special' friends feelings or needs recently. I think the gentlemen here might appreciate some insight.

cheers chris.

i dont think youll get alot of responces cause its a tough thing to open up in a forum where everyone here knows who we are,,,,,,,,,or do they? first off relationships are so hard not just on you guys but yes us girls.i know for myself theres a wall built up so high and think i dont expect anyone to try and break into my heart,too many years of negativity too many years of being the brunt of every joke and too many years of going to bed at night praying to god asking the same question over and over again why me why do i have to be so different and why dont people like me why do they laugh at me and why does it hurt so much after all these years why cant i be normal why cant you people see inside my heart and soul and see how awesome i really am and why do i have to fall asleep everynight with my tears rolling down my cheeks and why the hell would somebody wanna be apart of my life?how selfish could i be to let somebody love me and have to deal with this.

[papillion]

i dont think youll get alot of responces cause its a tough thing to open up in a forum where everyone here knows who we are,,,,,,,,,or do they? first off relationships are so hard not just on you guys but yes us girls.i know for myself theres a wall built up so high and think i dont expect anyone to try and break into my heart,too many years of negativity too many years of being the brunt of every joke and too many years of going to bed at night praying to god asking the same question over and over again why me why do i have to be so different and why dont people like me why do they laugh at me and why does it hurt so much after all these years why cant i be normal why cant you people see inside my heart and soul and see how awesome i really am and why do i have to fall asleep everynight with my tears rolling down my cheeks and why the hell would somebody wanna be apart of my life?how selfish could i be to let somebody love me and have to deal with this.

Lisa,
The issues that make you so different to the rest of vanilla society are also the reasons you're so attractive to the guys who love t-girls. The trick [no pun intended] is to find your prince charming in a sea of frogs

[Wiseone26]

i dont think youll get alot of responces cause its a tough thing to open up in a forum where everyone here knows who we are,,,,,,,,,or do they? first off relationships are so hard not just on you guys but yes us girls.i know for myself theres a wall built up so high and think i dont expect anyone to try and break into my heart,too many years of negativity too many years of being the brunt of every joke and too many years of going to bed at night praying to god asking the same question over and over again why me why do i have to be so different and why dont people like me why do they laugh at me and why does it hurt so much after all these years why cant i be normal why cant you people see inside my heart and soul and see how awesome i really am and why do i have to fall asleep everynight with my tears rolling down my cheeks and why the hell would somebody wanna be apart of my life?how selfish could i be to let somebody love me and have to deal with this.

Well put Lisa, well put....

[snoodle]

i dont think youll get alot of responces cause its a tough thing to open up in a forum where everyone here knows who we are,,,,,,,,,or do they? first off relationships are so hard not just on you guys but yes us girls.i know for myself theres a wall built up so high and think i dont expect anyone to try and break into my heart,too many years of negativity too many years of being the brunt of every joke and too many years of going to bed at night praying to god asking the same question over and over again why me why do i have to be so different and why dont people like me why do they laugh at me and why does it hurt so much after all these years why cant i be normal why cant you people see inside my heart and soul and see how awesome i really am and why do i have to fall asleep everynight with my tears rolling down my cheeks and why the hell would somebody wanna be apart of my life?how selfish could i be to let somebody love me and have to deal with this.

Wow. Those are some truly Poetic and honest words.
That really touched my heart.

[Haley]

What's wrong with being vanilla? Personally, I want to be loved for being me, and not for being someone's fetish.

That's probably also the reason why a lot of girls have not commented on this question. This is a site for guys to chase a fantasy. Most of the guys here have absolutely no intention of pursuing anything beyond a sexual fantasy.

Lisa,
The issues that make you so different to the rest of vanilla society are also the reasons you're so attractive to the guys who love t-girls. The trick [no pun intended] is to find your prince charming in a sea of frogs

[kristopin]

thank you

i dont think youll get alot of responces cause its a tough thing to open up in a forum where everyone here knows who we are,,,,,,,,,or do they? first off relationships are so hard not just on you guys but yes us girls.i know for myself theres a wall built up so high and think i dont expect anyone to try and break into my heart,too many years of negativity too many years of being the brunt of every joke and too many years of going to bed at night praying to god asking the same question over and over again why me why do i have to be so different and why dont people like me why do they laugh at me and why does it hurt so much after all these years why cant i be normal why cant you people see inside my heart and soul and see how awesome i really am and why do i have to fall asleep everynight with my tears rolling down my cheeks and why the hell would somebody wanna be apart of my life?how selfish could i be to let somebody love me and have to deal with this.

Lisa thank you for your post. it was generous,insightful, and heart wrenching. That was truly wonderful. I am sure there are folks who do love you for who YOU are not who you appear to be.

Haley thanks for your input to.

I believe i understand but i dont think i would be arrogant enough to make that claim without some doubt.

to both of you.

[shemale_patriciaM]

Very touching indeed.