hormones and going out on a limb

[kristopin]

ok you can go ahead and crucify me for this.

several times whle in conversation to some of our ladies i have been told that there are several reasons that the girls get into their battles.


one was the almighty evil dollar. i understand that those of you escorting do so in a competitive business. how do you keep your clinet base? how do you 'sell' yourself. how do you judge how much money to save in case of bad times etc. these are all hard questions. the nature of your business can put you at odds with each other and things seem to get out of hand and the nastyness starts. i have in few posts expressed how much of a turn off this is. i am not innocent enough to believe that the only battles are the ones we see on this forum. i have been told and i am sure there are many more going on. the thing that i do not understand is why in such a small community do these battles occur. i would have thought that anyone going thru a transition or having gone thru a transition would be helpful to each other. it's just a thought. live and let live etc.

now for a bit of 'out of my depth' experience and knowledge. the gilrs that are in hormone therapy and are taking estrogen, have you had any experience that has indicated that you get moodier and more emotional when you are taking this therapy. Is it possible that, since you are not all taking the same pills at the same time and are in different stages of transition that the effects of the therapy are also differential in timing and this could also be leading to some of the upsets you have with each other?

okay go ahead sting me up.
i just want to see decent human compassion and feeling be more prevalent in your dealings with each other.

something to think about?

[sensual_lover20]

Money, money, money, money, money, money ... MONEY!
Money, money, money, money, money, money ... MONEY!

[chantel]

Money, money, money, money, money, money ... MONEY!
Money, money, money, money, money, money ... MONEY!

hi,well i cant really put an answer to it but its not always money,im not in the escrt buisness and never had any problems with the girls i know that are,but it also happens with the girls who are not escorts chantel xox

[kristopin]

$ ? $ ? $

Money, money, money, money, money, money ... MONEY!
Money, money, money, money, money, money ... MONEY!

money makes the world go round.
give money thats all i want.

there must be such incredible pressure to sell yourself. i dont think i could do it.

[kristopin]

thanks chantel

hi,well i cant really put an answer to it but its not always money,im not in the escrt buisness and never had any problems with the girls i know that are,but it also happens with the girls who are not escorts chantel xox

thank you for you input, i have not met any tgirls in toronto that are not in the sex trade yet, so i had not thought about that. thank you.

btw nice rosee cheeks.

[tslisaparadise]

ok you can go ahead and crucify me for this.

several times whle in conversation to some of our ladies i have been told that there are several reasons that the girls get into their battles.


one was the almighty evil dollar. i understand that those of you escorting do so in a competitive business. how do you keep your clinet base? how do you 'sell' yourself. how do you judge how much money to save in case of bad times etc. these are all hard questions. the nature of your business can put you at odds with each other and things seem to get out of hand and the nastyness starts. i have in few posts expressed how much of a turn off this is. i am not innocent enough to believe that the only battles are the ones we see on this forum. i have been told and i am sure there are many more going on. the thing that i do not understand is why in such a small community do these battles occur. i would have thought that anyone going thru a transition or having gone thru a transition would be helpful to each other. it's just a thought. live and let live etc.

now for a bit of 'out of my depth' experience and knowledge. the gilrs that are in hormone therapy and are taking estrogen, have you had any experience that has indicated that you get moodier and more emotional when you are taking this therapy. Is it possible that, since you are not all taking the same pills at the same time and are in different stages of transition that the effects of the therapy are also differential in timing and this could also be leading to some of the upsets you have with each other?

okay go ahead sting me up.
i just want to see decent human compassion and feeling be more prevalent in your dealings with each other.

something to think about?

its simple really,we fight cause we dont like each other it has little to do with the bizz,but more to do with the personalitty,as for how do we keep our client base,you do your job better then anyone else and if you dont think your doing it better then its time to get out period.horomones are an excuse for everything under the sun,usually those who bring it up have never actually used them strange but true.and yes horomones change the balance of power in the mind and body but if your a good person with a good soul you wont notice it.when i specifically fight with another tgirl its because i dont like them period or im trying to wake them up and send a message being older does give me that right.but to sum it up when it comes to fighting its because most tgirls are simply not very nice people period.thats something youll learn along the way.

[Wiseone26]

Hey even non escort trans girls fight, LOL I got into it the other day with my female roommate, LOL. seems my moodiness is around the time she is, look out. My doctor told me one day "No worries one day you will become a raving bitch." I replied "Too late..."

Escorting and money, I tried it , not for me. The money temptation is there but I just can't wrap my mind around that. I enjoy the simple life and not the glitz and glam. Sometimes it would be nice. I think my situation just builds my character differently for sure. Sure it would be nice to have $200 jeans and such, but honestly most of my clothes came from thrift stores. money...always looking for that winning lottery ticket that I never buy when I should.......

[tslisaparadise]

Hey even non escort trans girls fight, LOL I got into it the other day with my female roommate, LOL. seems my moodiness is around the time she is, look out. My doctor told me one day "No worries one day you will become a raving bitch." I replied "Too late..."

Escorting and money, I tried it , not for me. The money temptation is there but I just can't wrap my mind around that. I enjoy the simple life and not the glitz and glam. Sometimes it would be nice. I think my situation just builds my character differently for sure. Sure it would be nice to have $200 jeans and such, but honestly most of my clothes came from thrift stores. money...always looking for that winning lottery ticket that I never buy when I should.......

did you say thrift stores lol your my kinda girl.ya just cant beat the vv boutique

[Wiseone26]

did you say thrift stores lol your my kinda girl.ya just cant beat the vv boutique

asa matter of fact I did, and VV is usually the place.

[kristopin]

retro

asa matter of fact I did, and VV is usually the place.

you can get some cool retro styles there. i found a shirt in kensington market and someone has sort of dared me to wear it. (now that is just a mistake, with my sense of humour, someone is going to be surprised when i show up at GH with it on)

[tslisaparadise]

you can get some cool retro styles there. i found a shirt in kensington market and someone has sort of dared me to wear it. (now that is just a mistake, with my sense of humour, someone is going to be surprised when i show up at GH with it on)

hey is that the one you baught for me?

[tslisaparadise]

asa matter of fact I did, and VV is usually the place.

lol oh i know im like a kid in a candy store,i actually shop every single day and its amazing how much cool stuff you can get.

[kristopin]

retro

hey is that the one you baught for me?

definately retro style.

[tslisaparadise]

definately retro style.

thats not what i asked lol

[Haley]

I agree with what's already been said. Blaming the hormones for bad or moody behaviour is just an excuse. It would be the same as blaming testosterone for the fact 98 percent of people in jail are men. Mood changes can be affected by hormones, but there are plenty of people out there who don't attact people due to a change in hormone levels, so to blame it on hormones is simplistic and obviously incorrect. There are a myriad of other chemicals at work in the brain and who knows how any of them can affect a persons personality.

As for the fighting, it's as was said. They just don't like each other, and it's not localized to the escorting community either. It happens in every field of life. Sometimes people just don't like each other.