wtf is wrong with people

[kristopin]

peace.

[Lani]

Careful...Careful

i just do not understand humanity at times. i mean i have always had trouble making friends because in the end they always screw you over. i had hopes that the tgirl world was different. but oh no. here we go again.
what YOU did was just plain wrong. YOU know you are wrong. What i offered is now off the table. YOU are 100% free of me, and i am 100% free of you.

there is something totally wrong when you cause another human being emotional pain, it scars longer than bombs.

Careful with your heart! so much stress and anger isn't good for you, it's actually isn't good for anyone. So just think of the positive and cheerful things we have in life.

( and who are you upset with btw?)

[10ptbuck]

Sorry your having trouble but, The world is not a nice place. People screw eachother all the time. It's usually over money. I hope you can work it out.

I don't know if this will help but, I'll tell you something I told my brother about 4 years ago. He was planning a party for another family member and was arguing with several other family members that did not want to attend. I told him to let it go.

I told him that the only person who he's responsible for is himself and that if we waste time trying to be accepted by those who Don't want to accept us - is just a lesson in futility. You can't force yourself on others "whatever the reason" or visa-versa. There comes a time and an age, that you have fewer people around you. What I like to call your "sphere of influence" becomes smaller, more limited. Once you cut out all the excess, you become a much happier person.

I have maybe 5 people that I call friends and I am so happy. I don't have to work on being friends with anyone else.

I don't know what your particular problem is, but I hope that this story has helped you out.

Peace & Love.

[kristopin]

being me

thanks everyone for letting me go off like this. it was too closeto the heart.

i believe that i am an incredible person, dynamic and so full of love it is amazing. now that sounds like WAY to much blowing my own horn and is not intended to be so. it is that i have come to just be myself. in about six months i have discovered who i am and accepted that i am a person that is 50-50 male female. this was known in the native american tribes as two spirited. it can also be caused by thyroid conditions that balance the hormones with estrogen and testosterone. but what ever the case may be i know that when i am in the presence of tgirls i am completely free. i am home. this is why i came out with my wife and will be telling my kids the same. i am not ashamed of who i am whatsoever. i think that all of the girls i have met are the most incredible people i have ever met. you are all so vastly the same and different. so brave to allow yourselves to become yourselves, to just be who you are inside. that alone is amazing. there is absolutely nothing wrong with being yourself. if that means you are a tgirl then so be it. now the hard part. actually doing it. i know some of you are in various stages of your transition. i seem to be able to understand where you are at. i am also a very private person in reality and when my friends tell me thngs those things stay in confidence and do not get repeated or used against them.
i am not sure where this is all going but i think i just want to say to the girls that have become my friends that you can trust me. i am not here to hurt anyone, or expose anyone. there is an old dylan song that was covered by the byrds. it wnet something like:
i aint looking to beat on you
cheat or mistreat you
all i really want to do
is be friends with you.

well maybe its the father in me but if you need to talk i am here. if you need a shoulder to cry on i am here. if you need to vent i am here. if you need a hug i am here. if you need to bounce ideas of someone i am here.
i am here if you need a friend that will not judge you and will accept you as you are.

cheers all