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Hi, first time writer and with a long post. There is probably many other kind of posts like that but I feel I need to do my own because it seems I can't find with the search on this forum. I'm in my 40s and for a few years my sexual desires evolved. I got into toys and anal fun and I am now open to meet anyone as long as I am well with that person. But to have a good relationship, it needs to work on the sexual level and I want to know if I can actually enjoy sex with another penis in the bed other than mine. I discussed it with some really good friends for like over a year and it all leads to doing that discovery with a professional is the way to go. And while discussing, t-girl was brought up in some discussions and I started looking at that option, which seems to be like the best option because of the known and unknown territories of a mtf pre op trans girl.
And this little backstory is leading me to meet my first SP soon that does in call. I was wondering about the preparation and what I should bring? I will confirm before my appointment with her, but having a rough idea will help a little with the stress caused by the excitment of this new world of experience. I'm going to go for a more versatile experience because I want to discover giving and receiving oral. And if it goes well (which I am sure it will) I will definately want to be penetrated. I am not sure if I will want to penetrate her, but who knows because in general I don't have interest in fucking ass, but who knows! I am doing that to discover, and that will be part of the new experience maybe!
I already contacted her to make sure about what I will want as a session and which package I should go with. But since I'm far from the city where she is (there is no girl around where I live), I am in a waiting period until I visit the city which will be early January. And now, I'm all excited and also start to questions those preparation steps and what to bring. She already told me the delays to book her, so on that side it's all good. All I need to do for that is the day before call or text her to say "Are you available tomorrow at 3PM for 1 hour?" and that's it, the experience will be happening that day!!!
As for what to bring, cash is a no brainer. But, should I bring more money just in case? I was told by the girl I'll meet that I should book for 30 min/200$ or 1h/300$. I am planning the longer time frame to be sure. But should I bring like double that amount or something just in case? I don't think sessions are extendable and that I would be able to make this work for even 1 hour. What are you doing for that?
Are you bringing your own condoms to use? I'm going to play it totally safe, and she mention "safe only" in her ads, so between most of what happens, I expect that there will be some condoms switching. Let's say she suck me and then we move to me penetrating her, then I will use a condom for the sucking part and one for the penetration part. Hence why I am thinking of bringing my own condoms just so that I am sure we have enough? And also for some preference like I prefer to use a certain brand/type?
What about lube? I guess she would have plenty, but is it safer to bring up some "spare"?
I got some dildos too. Should I bring my own for safety reasons in case she would not get hard and that I would prefer she uses my own toy instead of hers? Every one tells "do not share toys that goes in your ass" and so I am wondering that...
As for preparation, how do you prepare? I know myself. I feel fully ready for the experience, but the closer I'll get to the planned date, the more stressed and excited I will become. How did you manage that first experience? And for more experts, if you still feel that kind of emotions, how do you prepare?
If you are going to receive anal, what are the preparation you actually do? I only played alone there, so I sometimes does not clean it that well. Should I douche a few hours before going to see her?
How did you actually also prepared to give orals? I tried it with toys, but the real life will be something else and I want a good experience, even though I am pretty sure I will feel bad at doing it because that will be a first.
Any other preparation tips?
Thank you!
And this little backstory is leading me to meet my first SP soon that does in call. I was wondering about the preparation and what I should bring? I will confirm before my appointment with her, but having a rough idea will help a little with the stress caused by the excitment of this new world of experience. I'm going to go for a more versatile experience because I want to discover giving and receiving oral. And if it goes well (which I am sure it will) I will definately want to be penetrated. I am not sure if I will want to penetrate her, but who knows because in general I don't have interest in fucking ass, but who knows! I am doing that to discover, and that will be part of the new experience maybe!
I already contacted her to make sure about what I will want as a session and which package I should go with. But since I'm far from the city where she is (there is no girl around where I live), I am in a waiting period until I visit the city which will be early January. And now, I'm all excited and also start to questions those preparation steps and what to bring. She already told me the delays to book her, so on that side it's all good. All I need to do for that is the day before call or text her to say "Are you available tomorrow at 3PM for 1 hour?" and that's it, the experience will be happening that day!!!
As for what to bring, cash is a no brainer. But, should I bring more money just in case? I was told by the girl I'll meet that I should book for 30 min/200$ or 1h/300$. I am planning the longer time frame to be sure. But should I bring like double that amount or something just in case? I don't think sessions are extendable and that I would be able to make this work for even 1 hour. What are you doing for that?
Are you bringing your own condoms to use? I'm going to play it totally safe, and she mention "safe only" in her ads, so between most of what happens, I expect that there will be some condoms switching. Let's say she suck me and then we move to me penetrating her, then I will use a condom for the sucking part and one for the penetration part. Hence why I am thinking of bringing my own condoms just so that I am sure we have enough? And also for some preference like I prefer to use a certain brand/type?
What about lube? I guess she would have plenty, but is it safer to bring up some "spare"?
I got some dildos too. Should I bring my own for safety reasons in case she would not get hard and that I would prefer she uses my own toy instead of hers? Every one tells "do not share toys that goes in your ass" and so I am wondering that...
As for preparation, how do you prepare? I know myself. I feel fully ready for the experience, but the closer I'll get to the planned date, the more stressed and excited I will become. How did you manage that first experience? And for more experts, if you still feel that kind of emotions, how do you prepare?
If you are going to receive anal, what are the preparation you actually do? I only played alone there, so I sometimes does not clean it that well. Should I douche a few hours before going to see her?
How did you actually also prepared to give orals? I tried it with toys, but the real life will be something else and I want a good experience, even though I am pretty sure I will feel bad at doing it because that will be a first.
Any other preparation tips?
Thank you!
