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  • Ana_Jolie
    Love Warrior
    • Jun 2012
    • 1055

    What We Deal With

    Just a glimpse into what we as SP’s deal with on the regular. This is a very common thing. This guy was contacting me told me my rates were too much then went on to offer me drugs. Then got pissed off to start threatening to ruin my reputation and post fake ads.
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  • hornystan
    Supreme Member
    • Aug 2015
    • 1470

    #2
    Originally posted by Ana_Jolie View Post
    Just a glimpse into what we as SP’s deal with on the regular. This is a very common thing. This guy was contacting me told me my rates were too much then went on to offer me drugs. Then got pissed off to start threatening to ruin my reputation and post fake ads.
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    Guy is a total asshole. . Sad you have to deal with people like that .Hope you have a great day today Ana
    Last edited by hornystan; 05-02-2024, 09:50 AM.

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    • Ana_Jolie
      Love Warrior
      • Jun 2012
      • 1055

      #3
      Originally posted by hornystan View Post

      Guy is a total asshole. . Sad you have to deal with people like that .Hope you have a great day today Ana
      Thanks babe. I am fine, unfortunately as sex workers this is such a common occurrence may it be from other girls or angry guys you become used to it. In this case though I think it was a girl tbh. Or a girl instructing a guy what to say. No guy would post ads or have money on ******* to post escort ads. So kind of sold themselves out. What I find hard to think of though is the girls that suffer from mental illness or addiction or even new to the industry falling prey to predatory toxic behaviour like this. I remember what it was like to be starting out and feeling very small in a big place.

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      • SteviiSixxx
        TransDreamGirl
        • Oct 2023
        • 166

        #4
        Originally posted by Ana_Jolie View Post

        …or even new to the industry falling prey to predatory toxic behaviour like this. I remember what it was like to be starting out and feeling very small in a big place.
        I’m so sorry you had to go through this Ana. Having yourself, or your livelihood threatened in any way can be quite scary and violating.

        I started in the industry this past November, and I must say there were a few guys who provided me a crash course in how to deal with this type of toxic behaviour. I must have done alright, as none of their threats ever materialized.

        I found the best way to deal with people trying to exploit you in one way or another, is to never acknowledge or validate their threats. If they still don’t back down, or disappear, they may be willing to follow through on the threats they’ve made.

        Between the threats of bad reviews from guys I’d never even seen before, to demanding a free session, or they’d send photos to my family, it can certainly shake a person emotionally.

        Add to that, the fact that LL is over 80% scam ads, and I start to get the feeling, I may have entered sex work at a problematic time.


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        • justvisiting2016
          Supreme Member
          • Mar 2016
          • 2635

          #5
          Originally posted by DAMIT
          Buddy is some 50 yr old guy living in a basement apartment with a cat that doesn’t like him 😂
          lots of men with wives and girlfriends and jobs and homes also act like this too.. its not just the fat lonely incel crowd

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          • FalconHeavy
            Ready to Launch Again!!
            • Jul 2017
            • 1967

            #6
            Originally posted by DAMIT
            Buddy is some 50 yr old guy living in a basement apartment with a cat that doesn’t like him 😂
            Probably true…..

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            Don’t know why haters have to hate…..
            Giving the ladies a hard time and making clients into everyone’s problems…. 🙄
            There’s no present like the time...

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            • willey-willey
              Junior Member
              • Mar 2024
              • 6

              #7
              That’s unfortunate. Customer services in virtual any group, business or organization must be able to deal with angry “crazy” customers at times. In the SP world it’s just as impossible for the client because there are far too many phoney rip-off providers out there. So many that clients are giving up rather than put up with it anymore.

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              • StrokeShow69
                VIP Member
                • Sep 2015
                • 525

                #8
                Originally posted by Ana_Jolie View Post

                Thanks babe. I am fine, unfortunately as sex workers this is such a common occurrence may it be from other girls or angry guys you become used to it. In this case though I think it was a girl tbh. Or a girl instructing a guy what to say. No guy would post ads or have money on ******* to post escort ads. So kind of sold themselves out. What I find hard to think of though is the girls that suffer from mental illness or addiction or even new to the industry falling prey to predatory toxic behaviour like this. I remember what it was like to be starting out and feeling very small in a big place.
                Sorry to hear about the asshole giving you a hard time, sexy Ana!

                I am going to jack off to your sexy photos once again out of solidarity.

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                • Ana_Jolie
                  Love Warrior
                  • Jun 2012
                  • 1055

                  #9
                  Originally posted by StrokeShow69 View Post

                  Sorry to hear about the asshole giving you a hard time, sexy Ana!

                  I am going to jack off to your sexy photos once again out of solidarity.
                  🤣

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                  • ladyluv
                    Supreme Member
                    • May 2011
                    • 1825

                    #10
                    Originally posted by DAMIT
                    Buddy is some 50 yr old guy living in a basement apartment with a cat that doesn’t like him 😂
                    😂

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                    • ladyluv
                      Supreme Member
                      • May 2011
                      • 1825

                      #11
                      Originally posted by hornystan View Post

                      Guy is a total asshole. . Sad you have to deal with people like that .Hope you have a great day today Ana
                      Just block and forget about him. Doesn’t seem like a very intelligent person tbh. Often see you on here and you are always polite and respectful. If he doesn’t like your price, then he needs to move on. Not your problem.

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                      • Ana_Jolie
                        Love Warrior
                        • Jun 2012
                        • 1055

                        #12
                        Originally posted by ladyluv View Post

                        Just block and forget about him. Doesn’t seem like a very intelligent person tbh. Often see you on here and you are always polite and respectful. If he doesn’t like your price, then he needs to move on. Not your problem.
                        He wanted it for free and wanted me to do drugs with him lmao it was well beyond liking a price lol

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                        • ladyluv
                          Supreme Member
                          • May 2011
                          • 1825

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Ana_Jolie View Post

                          He wanted it for free and wanted me to do drugs with him lmao it was well beyond liking a price lol
                          Haha what a loser

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