Do they always ask why you chose a trans?

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  • Trueblade76
    Member
    • Jun 2010
    • 21

    Do they always ask why you chose a trans?

    Just wondering if its normal. If so, what is your response?
  • cholla
    Supreme Member
    • Nov 2009
    • 1204

    #2
    They who?

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    • Trueblade76
      Member
      • Jun 2010
      • 21

      #3
      The t-girl you chose for the night obviously

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      • cholla
        Supreme Member
        • Nov 2009
        • 1204

        #4
        I've never been asked such a question. My response would be - because I like how your look!

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        • peacecountry
          Senior Member
          • Dec 2014
          • 137

          #5
          I usually get asked if it's my first time or how much experience I've had. Can't really think of ever being asked why I chose to see a Tgirl.

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          • Basil5503
            Member
            • Aug 2012
            • 74

            #6
            I was asked how many I’ve seen and I told
            her that she was my first. She said she didn’t believe me…..

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            • SteviiSixxx
              TransDreamGirl
              • Oct 2023
              • 166

              #7
              Originally posted by Basil5503 View Post
              I was asked how many I’ve seen and I told
              her that she was my first. She said she didn’t believe me…..
              As I don’t know you, and was in no way involved in said situation, I can only believe you.

              However, my own personal experience during my first eight months of escorting, has been quite curious.

              Spare four or five clients who were very open concerning their veteran status in the t-girl escort game, basically every other client I have shared time with, has told me they were t-girl virgins.

              As that was the first time I’d met any of them, it’s not as though I knew their personal record for being honest, or if their ears wiggled when they lied. So, I simply accepted the information they provided me.

              Because, that is a pretty important part of my work.

              Considering the extremely high percentage of clients who have claimed I was their first t-girl, It would only make sense to assume some were possibly fibbing.

              …and that is totally okay, and completely understandable.

              I realize that many admirers of t-girls share a complicated relationship with their attraction to trans women.

              … and that too is totally okay, and completely understandable.

              Another reality with which I’m quite familiar, is that while every single one of us has fetishes and fantasies, rarely, if ever, do the finer mechanics of our individual fetishes and fantasies match up perfectly with those of another… Even when the core subject is the same, we all have our own little quirks, likes and dislikes.

              …and again, this is totally okay, and completely understandable.

              In the end, at least for me personally, whatever the reasons may be which dictate you are honest, or dishonest about things such as, if I’m your first sexual encounter with a trans girl, if you’re married, divorced or single, super-wealthy, just-gettin’-by, or whatever…

              I don’t mind if my clients warp reality in a way which makes them more comfortable with their own inner personal conflicts, or enhances their level of arousal, subsequently improving the quality of the time we will share.

              As long as the subject of their dishonesty is not mean-spirited, or could potentially place me in an unsafe situation, then I’m more than happy to play along with pretty much anything a client tells me… It’s really just part of the special fun which plays such an integral role in the unique fantasy-fuelled relationships shared between client and provider.

              Sorry… I really just meant to say that it’s surprisingly common for clients to claim it’s their first time. Ooops.

              ​​​​​​​

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              • SteviiSixxx
                TransDreamGirl
                • Oct 2023
                • 166

                #8
                Originally posted by John2002


                I used to lie about it when I was first starting out, but now I don't. I realized I have no reason to
                That’s right!

                However, for anyone who has yet to come to the same revelation, that’s okay too. You do you.

                …because there is nothing that can put a damper on a good time, quite like feelings of intense discomfort.

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                • ladyluv
                  Supreme Member
                  • May 2011
                  • 1824

                  #9
                  No

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                  • Basil5503
                    Member
                    • Aug 2012
                    • 74

                    #10
                    Originally posted by SteviiSixxx View Post

                    As I don’t know you, and was in no way involved in said situation, I can only believe you.

                    However, my own personal experience during my first eight months of escorting, has been quite curious.

                    Spare four or five clients who were very open concerning their veteran status in the t-girl escort game, basically every other client I have shared time with, has told me they were t-girl virgins.

                    As that was the first time I’d met any of them, it’s not as though I knew their personal record for being honest, or if their ears wiggled when they lied. So, I simply accepted the information they provided me.

                    Because, that is a pretty important part of my work.

                    Considering the extremely high percentage of clients who have claimed I was their first t-girl, It would only make sense to assume some were possibly fibbing.

                    …and that is totally okay, and completely understandable.

                    I realize that many admirers of t-girls share a complicated relationship with their attraction to trans women.

                    … and that too is totally okay, and completely understandable.

                    Another reality with which I’m quite familiar, is that while every single one of us has fetishes and fantasies, rarely, if ever, do the finer mechanics of our individual fetishes and fantasies match up perfectly with those of another… Even when the core subject is the same, we all have our own little quirks, likes and dislikes.

                    …and again, this is totally okay, and completely understandable.

                    In the end, at least for me personally, whatever the reasons may be which dictate you are honest, or dishonest about things such as, if I’m your first sexual encounter with a trans girl, if you’re married, divorced or single, super-wealthy, just-gettin’-by, or whatever…

                    I don’t mind if my clients warp reality in a way which makes them more comfortable with their own inner personal conflicts, or enhances their level of arousal, subsequently improving the quality of the time we will share.

                    As long as the subject of their dishonesty is not mean-spirited, or could potentially place me in an unsafe situation, then I’m more than happy to play along with pretty much anything a client tells me… It’s really just part of the special fun which plays such an integral role in the unique fantasy-fuelled relationships shared between client and provider.

                    Sorry… I really just meant to say that it’s surprisingly common for clients to claim it’s their first time. Ooops.
                    That makes sense, however it truly was my first time….

                    and here I was thinking I might’ve done a good job giving my first BJ or being topped for the first time…. LOL

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                    • SteviiSixxx
                      TransDreamGirl
                      • Oct 2023
                      • 166

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Basil5503 View Post

                      That makes sense, however it truly was my first time….

                      and here I was thinking I might’ve done a good job giving my first BJ or being topped for the first time…. LOL
                      I believe you.

                      ​​​​​…and I’m sure you did a great job, honey.

                      Did your first t-girl cum during your session?

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                      • Basil5503
                        Member
                        • Aug 2012
                        • 74

                        #12
                        Originally posted by SteviiSixxx View Post

                        I believe you.

                        ​​​​​…and I’m sure you did a great job, honey.

                        Did your first t-girl cum during your session?
                        LOL…

                        Yes, she did.

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                        • SteviiSixxx
                          TransDreamGirl
                          • Oct 2023
                          • 166

                          #13
                          Well then, you did great.

                          Damn… You’re a fine client. Honest, and skilled.

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                          • truck
                            Supreme Member
                            • Dec 2005
                            • 1167

                            #14
                            They ask me all the fuckin time.
                            almost makes me feel like they think I can do much better and don’t need to go see an escort.

                            They always ask, why do you choose to see escorts? Or why do you choose to see a trans girl.

                            I take it as a compliment. But it’s like they are saying, you are better than this. They ask with a puzzled look on their faces.

                            i fucked two escorts for free in my time. They did not charge me. So yea I guess I’m a good looking guy.

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                            • cholla
                              Supreme Member
                              • Nov 2009
                              • 1204

                              #15
                              I’ve never been asked about it. Maybe because her or my mouth was busy all the time. 🙂

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