Question to married men ?

[reeyees]

To married men who has never been with a transsexual. If you had the chance to cheat on your wife with a transsexual, how far would you go?

[ReachAround]

i voted not to cheat as i know what being cheated on feels like, but ideal fantasy if i was still married would be for a three way with the missus and a tgirl

[capitus]

Cheating is emotional. Sex is physical. They are in different domains.

[cobbler]

Cheating is emotional. Sex is physical. They are in different domains.

If you are married they occupy the same domain. I was married and now I'm not because I wanted to explore other women and couldn't live with myself an cheat on my wife. Monogamy is a committment to another person. If your partner is unaware of the infidelity, when he or she finds out they are the ones who feel soiled. Just my opinion, but I take marriage very seriously. It's why I doubt I'll ever do it again.
Now as for the three way and other variations on a theme, well that's not cheating is it?

[sensual_lover20]

If you are married they occupy the same domain. I was married and now I'm not because I wanted to explore other women and couldn't live with myself an cheat on my wife. Monogamy is a committment to another person. If your partner is unaware of the infidelity, when he or she finds out they are the ones who feel soiled. Just my opinion, but I take marriage very seriously. It's why I doubt I'll ever do it again.
Now as for the three way and other variations on a theme, well that's not cheating is it?

That is a great attitude and I respect you highly for your candor.

[capitus]

Monogamy is a committment to another person.

Monogamy is not the same a marriage , nor is monogamy necessary to have a strong, committed and loving bond.(see notyourmothersplayground.com).

If your partner is unaware of the infidelity, when he or she finds out they are the ones who feel soiled.

This is emotional and I would consider it cheating...however, if they are aware and emotionally unconcerned it is not. I (and my partner) would consider cheating to be developing an emotional bond, whether sexual or not, with another person at the expense of developing that bond with your partner.

Cheating could be said to be the solely the perception of the partner (Whatever they think is cheating, is cheating...and if the don't think it's cheating, it's not)...so if one is truly in a strong and loving marriage, one should know your partners feelings and perceptions and avoid actions that would cause your partner pain. I don't think cheating is about puting a body part next to another persons body part and rubbing vigorously, but rather developing a deep emotional bond to another person that damages the bond with your partner.

However, whatever is good in your life and relationships is fine by me.

[reeyees]

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[Heather Anne Peel]

I have been with a married man. it was great, he was so into it, passionate. I could tell that It gave him quite a thrill! I am not advocating affairs, it just worked out that way. Conversely, I am not passing judgment, either.