How come people dont like me around here....

[greep]

Admin: Im on the verge of abandoning this site.

Not a very friendly group of people. Incredibily sensitive.

Ive been called a pig, a goat, been told to fuck off, called a piece of shit, a retard, a mouth breathing something, chastised and mocked for using the wrong 'pronouns', and called a fag.

unbelievable. Even though none of these remarks even come close to bothering me, I find it ironic that some members here have no problem using these words.

Some members here do seem ok and are friendly, though and have good senses of humour.

I'll admit I've tried tried to spice things up a little bit here and there, but I never call people names based on thier sexuality.

[milkandhoney]

Admin: Im on the verge of abandoning this site.

Not a very friendly group of people. Incredibily sensitive.

Ive been called a pig, a goat, been told to fuck off, called a piece of shit, a retard, a mouth breathing something, chastised and mocked for using the wrong 'pronouns', and called a fag.

unbelievable.

Some members here seem ok and are friendly, though.

I'll admit I've tried tried to spice things up a little bit here and there, but I never call people names based on thier sexuality.

how about this? this is your 5th post:

I say take her disability away from her.

Shes healthy enough go to casinos (and spend our money).

Also where is she getting the money to pay for her sex change operations?

This is what is wrong with Canada we are too nice to people.

I have zero sympathy for this lady.

Fuck her. Prob just trying to scam the system- AGAIN.


ANYWAY:

maybe you came on a bit too uhm, strong? maybe you seemed to be a bit of an over-opinionated dick waver?

these are awful BIG (thoughtless and reactionary) OPINIONS from a newbie. you basically sounded like an ass, and first impressions are very hard to undo.

you then made the fatal error of continuing to beat a dead horse by returning to this story again and again:

alot of trans on disability?

why? To compliment their escorting income.

Are you saying people who are transgendered deserve to be on disability because of the the negative way they are treated in public?

Thats their choice to live and dress that way.

Thats like me dressing up as a pirate and go walking around malls for a month. And then go my doctor and say I need disability because of all the abuse I suffer in public. Please.


the point is: you basically ruined any chance of being accepted here with these idiotic I'M A BIG MAN WITH A BIG OPINION kind of remarks...

[greep]

how about this? this is your 5th post:

I say take her disability away from her.

Shes healthy enough go to casinos (and spend our money).

Also where is she getting the money to pay for her sex change operations?

This is what is wrong with Canada we are too nice to people.

I have zero sympathy for this lady.

Fuck her. Prob just trying to scam the system- AGAIN.


ANYWAY:

maybe you came on a bit too uhm, strong? maybe you seemed to be a bit of an over-opinionated dick waver?

these are awful BIG (thoughtless and reactionary) OPINIONS from a newbie. you basically sounded like an ass, and first impressions are very hard to undo.

you then made the fatal error of continuing to beat a dead horse by returning to this story again and again:

alot of trans on disability?

why? To compliment their escorting income.

Are you saying people who are transgendered deserve to be on disability because of the the negative way they are treated in public?

Thats their choice to live and dress that way.

Thats like me dressing up as a pirate and go walking around malls for a month. And then go my doctor and say I need disability because of all the abuse I suffer in public. Please.


the point is: you basically ruined any chance of being accepted here with these idiotic I'M A BIG MAN WITH A BIG OPINION kind of remarks...

Yeah those comments really warrant being called a retard, a piece of shit a fag and a pig.

What do you have to say about those who spewed that shit? Thats OK for them to say that, though, right. Imagine if I started calling people around here those names....whoa nelly. Imagine the uproar.

I stand by my comments about that lady (yes maybe a bit strong -regrettably) but I DIDN'T CALL HER ANY HURTFUL NAMES.

It seems around here its OK to call non-transgendered people bad names but DONT DARE USE THE 'WRONG PRONOUN' WHEN REFERRING TO A TG.

There's a certain amount hypocracy in this forum that I find laughable.

[greep]

I'll admit I try to make things a little juicier here and there.

But I'm trying NOT to name call... and... to do things with a sense of humour(which I usually fail at, I know).

The truth is I really do admire Trans and shemales. Im attracted to many of them and would someday like to meet some.

And Admin, if you find that I'm being a total dick around here(as some suggest), just let me know me.

PS: if anyone thinks my posts/comments are bad, just look at some of recent cat fights in here between the girls. Holy shit, talk about vicious.

[Tia Phoenixx]

You are most probably still young.

I see honestly on your comments thus showing you are just being blunt most of the time.

Don`t forget that some of us here, girls and boys, are extremely sensitive.

be respectful, wiser and more thoughtful next time.
that`s all you need.

[kristopin]

trying to help

Dear Greep,

i personally know a transwoman that has been arrested and jailed for dressing as a woman both in the states and in toronto. she has been physically beaten, raped, spit on. all she is trying to do is live her life normally. she is flat broke and lives in a boarding house where the other roomies try to get her thrown out. she is a totally harmless person. the emotional scars she has had has affected her deeply. it is written on her face. the main reason for this happening to her is that she is not young and she is not pretty. this is just one story, real as it is, of what happens to transgendered folks.

there are other threads on this forum about a tranwoman that was murdered in out fair city.

even some of the best looking girls can tell you stories of their own lives and awful things that have happened to them.

discrimination against trans folks is systemic.

so yes there is sensitivity on our part. so when someone makes a mistake in a post it will usually draw the wrath of many trans folks.

you were gracious enough to apologise in my other thread and i appreciated that.
you are not the only one to have upset people. i did it myself a few times and still regret it. losing friends over ill spoken words is something i have to deal with. there is a thread somewhere on the forum about the 'four phases'. try to find it and it may help you to understand what is going on not only with us but also with your own self and your attraction to transwomen.

cheers and be friends. Kristy.

[maddplotter]

Well dude I agree some of the names shouldn't be called.
If a discussion is going on and you have a point, you at least deserve a logical reply and not a fuck you or whatever.

People here have to be less sensitive and some have to be less offensive.
We should be able to discuss all opinions on tgirls without feeling wrong, unless you are just plain rude.

For example on one hand Lisa calling you names for having an opinion about tgirls is wrong because she had no opinion at all.

But to go on to a Barbie thread and call her on?
What do you expect?
That thread is open season now and I didn't find any of it too personal, just a bunch of generic name calling.

So anyway I am trying to get rid of some of the useless fighting and personal attacks but I all in favour of fun fighting.

Tgirl pillow fights in lingerie? I would vote for that! That would a new and interesting fetish to get into.

[tslisaparadise]

Tgirl pillow fights in lingerie? I would vote for that! That would a new and interesting fetish to get into.

now that would be funny lol

[handpuppetboy]

Greep, I do not know you, nor your post, but I will chime in anyways.

Did you ever watch any specials on TV about GG hookers/escorts, and all the bullshit they go through? rape, beatings, ect. Not nice stuff, and at times they end up meeting the worst scum that walk this Earth, menatlly it damges them.

Now throw a Tgirl in there and there is a whole new world of bullshit, and emotions they have to deal with, and try to smile. Yes most of them are sensitive, and in most cases they act like immature women in the sense they are trying to one up each other as to who is sexier ect.

Now throw in a newbie(you) who like me has strong opinions, it's bound to ruffle some feathers.

Shit I am a genetic male, and some ass wipe comes on here spewing how he wants to fuck one of these lovely ladies and trick his wife into it, and get this, he wants it for free!!!!!!!!!! His logic was he did not want a tgirl that is an escort for fear of diseases, but yet he let's any gay male fill his ass up when he goes to bath houses. That insulting logic got him ripped a new one by me personally. How this relates to you? who knows, but be kind, and courteous, not only in here, but in your real life as well.

I am opinionated, and threw my filters out long ago when they became clogged, so I kinda know what I am saying here.

P.S Barbie and Lisa are wild ones, and will tear you a new one quite quickly and not in a sexual satisfying way