Where to find trans women?

[Woahboi]

I have been on grindr and have no luck finding trans women on there, where are the best spots to go out in toronto and ottawa to find or what are some other good apps to date trans women? Thanks

[Kylie Storm]

Usually dating trans women is a dead end ..most are working and like myself and have no interest in dating but that's just me i am not speaking for the whole community but for the few that do, you wont find them on grinder. Everybody knows guys looking for a trans on grinder is guys that want to fuck but for free . Maybe Mandy's parties on Danforth could be an option.

[cholla]

Usually dating trans women is a dead end ..most are working and like myself and have no interest in dating but that's just me i am not speaking for the whole community but for the few that do, you wont find them on grinder. Everybody knows guys looking for a trans on grinder is guys that want to fuck but for free . Maybe Mandy's parties on Danforth could be an option.

Very well said, an absolute truth.

[jensberger]

Usually dating trans women is a dead end ..most are working and like myself and have no interest in dating but that's just me i am not speaking for the whole community but for the few that do, you wont find them on grinder. Everybody knows guys pretending to be straight looking for a trans on grinder is guys that want to fuck but for free . Maybe Mandy's parties on Danforth could be an option.

Well said..so true! By the way, I’ve never had any luck with Grindr when it comes to finding someone for a serious relationship.
Most people on there are just looking for a quickie behind Wendy’s.
You really have to be lucky to find someone who’s actually interested in dating..and trans!

[Locomotion]

I have been on grindr and have no luck finding trans women on there, where are the best spots to go out in toronto and ottawa to find or what are some other good apps to date trans women? Thanks

Be wary in your search. There’s a lot of scammers out there who will use you for free stuff and money. Many are great actors.

[Hoozier Daddy]

Usually dating trans women is a dead end ..most are working and like myself and have no interest in dating but that's just me i am not speaking for the whole community but for the few that do, you wont find them on grinder. Everybody knows guys looking for a trans on grinder is guys that want to fuck but for free . Maybe Mandy's parties on Danforth could be an option.

One should focus on making friends and be prepared to put the time in to earn some trust to show you are more than a chaser IMO. Some of my dearest friends are Tgirls and their experiences have taught me a lot

[big-gun]

Be wary in your search. There’s a lot of scammers out there who will use you for free stuff and money. Many are great actors.

I'm on grinder (western Canada) lots of flakes, Had one guy asking for alcohol

[tao1kiku]

I actually found my Trans partner on Facebook. 6 year relationship now with no trauma or drama

[LeGLaS]

Usually dating trans women is a dead end ..most are working and like myself and have no interest in dating but that's just me i am not speaking for the whole community but for the few that do, you wont find them on grinder. Everybody knows guys looking for a trans on grinder is guys that want to fuck but for free . Maybe Mandy's parties on Danforth could be an option.

sad but true 😥

[Kylie Storm]

Thank you to all the guys that have replied and agreed with my comment.....Its just the reality of the situation and yes Grinder can be very flaky and sketchy.

[tao1kiku]

Thank you to all the guys that have replied and agreed with my comment.....Its just the reality of the situation and yes Grinder can be very flaky and sketchy.

Absolutely true for those who try connect with a Trans woman via Grindr or Tindr, those apps were originally designed for hookups. In Toronto there is a latin Club El Convento Rico that has a whole spectrum of patrons including Trans women, with very few pros.In that setting (and other places in Toronto where Trans women can be), there may be pros there, but you're meeting them in a social setting. If you like each other, dating is possible, you just have to be good with what line of business they're in.

[Kylie Storm]

tao1kiku Also a lot of trans women in order to date you either have to have money or be a guy with a hot bod and face.

[ladyluv]

Usually dating trans women is a dead end ..most are working and like myself and have no interest in dating but that's just me i am not speaking for the whole community but for the few that do, you wont find them on grinder. Everybody knows guys looking for a trans on grinder is guys that want to fuck but for free . Maybe Mandy's parties on Danforth could be an option.

I respectfully disagree. There’s some looking for LTR, some for wham bam, etc. Quite a selection, in my experience. All of these things may vary depending on one’s appearance, of course.

[tao1kiku]

tao1kiku Also a lot of trans women in order to date you either have to have money or be a guy with a hot bod and face.

Hmm, then I guess I have a hot bod and face? Lol. And I've come across those who have the shopping list:
Which part of the city do you live in?
Do you rent or own?
What kind of car do you drive?
What kind of job do you have?
What bars, restaurants and clubs do you go to?
Do you party? How often do you party?
How hung are you? (Assuming you are a top)
Where do you go to for vacations?
Who are the other Trans girls you've dated?
etc, etc.

My own personal experience, assuming I don't have a hot bod or face, is she just wanted to know if I was a decent person, no drug or alcohol problems, gambling problems, no criminal record, and wanted a long term relationship with good communication. (But then again she was, based on actually dating Trans women for over 20 years, a very very rare find)

[Kylie Storm]

ladyluv This is why i said "thats just me i do not speak for the whole community "