I am so nervous

[biguynrye]

why the hell am I so nervous?

I've been with a few tgirls and loved the sex part. I'm an easy customer I think - just love to suck cock and have shemale cum on me - that's IT - perhaps a drink, a chat and 420 beforehand. I know Barbies gonna say I'm gay, but honestly, I don't find guys attractive in the least

I'm nervous even now and picking up the phone is sooooo frikkin hard for me.
So - I email and pretty much no one emails back which I totally get, but it would be nice to get responses. Usually by the time I get a response, the urge is gone.

Then there's the drive and the calls and the walking through the halls or up to the house, kids, strangers - it freaks me out. Or the "ya I know I said I kiss, but you're not doin it for me - I\m 44 decent shape and good looking - my girlfriend is 11 yrs younger than me and super hot. The girl who said this was just OK to me - maybe it's the "OLD" thing

anyways thank for the rant

[maddplotter]

You could have a fear of being recognized. I get nervous walking into an adult boutique. Still afraid to run into my boss.

[Lani]

OR............

why the hell am I so nervous?

I've been with a few tgirls and loved the sex part. I'm an easy customer I think - just love to suck cock and have shemale cum on me - that's IT - perhaps a drink, a chat and 420 beforehand. I know Barbies gonna say I'm gay, but honestly, I don't find guys attractive in the least

I'm nervous even now and picking up the phone is sooooo frikkin hard for me.
So - I email and pretty much no one emails back which I totally get, but it would be nice to get responses. Usually by the time I get a response, the urge is gone.

Then there's the drive and the calls and the walking through the halls or up to the house, kids, strangers - it freaks me out. Or the "ya I know I said I kiss, but you're not doin it for me - I\m 44 decent shape and good looking - my girlfriend is 11 yrs younger than me and super hot. The girl who said this was just OK to me - maybe it's the "OLD" thing

anyways thank for the rant

You could have a fear of being recognized. I get nervous walking into an adult boutique. Still afraid to run into my boss.

Or you've been drinking too much coffee

(try decaf)

[etrigan]

I used to be nervous all the time too. A couple of calming breaths and tell yourself "you're not doing anything to be nervous about" works for me now.

[Lani]

Awwwwwww

I used to be nervous all the time too. A couple of calming breaths and tell yourself "you're not doing anything to be nervous about" works for me now.

But do I still makes you nervous etrigan? because if I am, you've got to tell me lol!

[sensual_lover20]

You could have a fear of being recognized. I get nervous walking into an adult boutique. Still afraid to run into my boss.

I only wish I could meet a boss in an adult boutique store or even Goodhandy's for that matter. It would make life so much more interesting.

[maddplotter]

I only wish I could meet a boss in an adult boutique store or even Goodhandy's for that matter. It would make life so much more interesting.

So, what would you say or do if you ran into your boss?

[aguyoutthere1]

I find the nervousness a huge part of the excitement. Even when I see a Tgirl I've been with before, I am so intensely anxious the whole way there, to the point that they open the door.

Up until one of us has a cock in our mouths do I feel relaxed.

[markerverse]

Biguynrye

Your not alone in that regard. My struggle is even more pronounced than your own. Once I step in the direction of Good Handy's or, lift the receiver to arrange an appointment ,I'm drenched in perspiration. My legs feel like timber pieces. No your not alone in this dilemma.

[WantingToTry]

i'm very much like you. 46 , great shape and above average looks.

have no interest in guys. but i've never been with a tgirl.

i think my heart would pound out of my chest as her and i were getting naked and about to begin .

i do think though , once i started down on a her cock , after the initial shock , i would suck it for all its worth.

not sure about letting her cum in my mouth , cant be too safe..

not nervous at all about the anal part. other than a giant cock tearing me apart.

[sensual_lover20]

So, what would you say or do if you ran into your boss?

You need confidence first. I would probably go up to them and say. "fancy meeting you here" and then try to comfort them by saying your know why they are both there and you shouldn't be shy about it since it is only natural or you like the same thing too. Again, this requires confidence and if you don't have it then you will not succeed, not only with this, but also many other things in life. Women love confidence, clients love a confident professional, people are comforted by one's confidence. Confidence cannot be bought and seldom one is born with it. Usually it is acquired thoughout time and experience when one finally comes to the realization of what is really the worst thing that can happen. In your situation, if you say nothing and you both notice each other it will be awkward every time you meet until someone spills the beans. If you break this barrier, you will actually be more comfortable around your boss (possibly closer to them) because you have something in common now. Plus, it shows you have balls and the guy with the grapes usually gets that new promotion. No risk, no return.

[tao1kiku]

Like the Nike ad says, "Just do it!" Or do her, or whatever is applicable. Especially if your date is in another part of town, know one knows you, no one recognises you.

Although have to admit, last time i was at Goodhandys I saw a GG i very briefly dated - no rhyme or reason why she might ever be there. Promptly left before I think she recognised me. 2 dates with her and I find she's psycho, I'm not hanging out at GH's to let her know a more discrete and private side of my interests that she might blab to others to spite or try to hurt me.

[toban]

Here is a story related in a way to this thread - sort of!

So, what would you say or do if you ran into your boss?

This relates to the being very nervous about meeting someone you feel could be a threat to you, but in my cases it was essentially the escort who was nervous, about the meeting, not me (at least not as much as she was).


Now a bit of background on my past is needed to appreciate this story I will tell you today. Originally, I was employed as an industrial chemist, then later I changed professions and taught high-school. After my wife passed away many years ago, and long before my discovery of T-girls, I saw many GG escorts from local agencies, and always on an outcall basis.


Imagine my surprise one day as I opened the door and standing there before, me was one of my former students. I have to confess there were many times over the years when I had some nasty thoughts as I watched these nubile young ladies around the school, but now, here was one of them at my door. One in particular, who I had not recognized at first, was the only one that seemed overly concerned. As we chatted, it became very evident that she was the one who was very nervous about being there in my living room, about to offer me her sexual favours.

She had introduced herself, saying that she had been a former student. As soon as I heard her name of course I realized who she was, but then she quickly asked if I would like her to leave. “Heaven’s no!” was my answer, adding then “We‘re both in this together“.


On another occasion I had walked down the hall to meet another girl who, when she saw who she was comig to see, said “Hi, Mr. XXXX”, Oh, my favourite teacher!” and immediately greeted me with a big welcoming hug. Whew, what a relief that was - my first thought on seeing her was “Geez, what should I do about this one?” but there was no need to be concerned since she had so warmly greeted me. That session was repeated several times. She later set up her own agency and was always recommending someone she considered special enough to send over to me!


On a different occasion, after another girl and I were in the bedroom and had already got down to the business at hand, when she asked me, "? guess you don’t recognize me, I’m Suzie Queue?” After she mentioned her name for sure I recognized her! Damn, these girls look so different that it is often difficult to recognize them, as they become mature and all dressed up, with hair and make-up done.


So, the point of this rambling is that if you meet someone in a situation that you feel is rather contentious, rember that they too are in exactly the same situation as you. As SL_20 has said, it is better to acknowledge them and shift any concern to their shoulders.

They don't have anything on you! Quite the reverse, you could have something on them.

[WantingToTry]

geez... that is some kind of high school you were involved in...

pumpin out cock suckers left and right..

[toban]

geez... that is some kind of high school you were involved in...

pumpin out cock suckers left and right..

Right, and I taught them everything they know!