Kristy's journey and thoughts

[tslisaparadise]

hmm, and without futher ado, this is for you Lisa....

roflmfao,i nearly spit my freakin coffee you rock sexy sis thanks for being you now this ones for you baby http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CrAKiRZ9niM

[Lani]

wont be posting in this thread anymore.

time for me to go totally private.

good luck everyone
Kristy

Kristy, why do you always say goodbye? and what prompted you to always want to go on hibernation? life is a wonderful thing and it's a wonderful world.

No matter how you become what you are now and what you're going to be in the future, always look up and be thankful. You already hurdled on the most difficult part of your transitioning, which is the revelations to your family and friends. Now keep on hurdling on, I know it is hard, but would it be harder had you still kept it inside you until your 6 feet under. It's time to enjoy now, stop the non-sense. I don't think your current therapist is doing a great job on you, time to look for a real good one. And believe us, we, here in the forum care for you.

We can't say that we as 'we members here' love you like we love to jump in bed with you, no! nothing like that, but we care, especially us transgendered, we know the route you have taken and the journey you'll be travelling, but your 59 there's nothing to worry about anymore, just be yourself and be who you are, you don't need worry about the society.

Be happy! and avoid any place detrimental to your health and psyche! (that's why I'm against you going to a certain club. (and you know why, I need'nt have to explain)
I wish I'd rather do this on PM but, hey! i'm learning how to be bitchy now remember?

So deal with life, and take it like a man oooopppsss!, I mean like a transwoman.

[tslisaparadise]

Kristy, why do you always say goodbye? and what prompted you to always want to go on hibernation? life is a wonderful thing and it's a wonderful world.

No matter how you become what you are now and what you're going to be in the future, always look up and be thankful. You already hurdled on the most difficult part of your transitioning, which is the revelations to your family and friends. Now keep on hurdling on, I know it is hard, but would it be harder had you still kept it inside you until your 6 feet under. It's time to enjoy now, stop the non-sense. I don't think your current therapist is doing a great job on you, time to look for a real good one. And believe us, we, here in the forum care for you.

We can't say that we as 'we members here' love you like we love to jump in bed with you, no! nothing like that, but we care, especially us transgendered, we know the route you have taken and the journey you'll be travelling, but your 59 there's nothing to worry about anymore, just be yourself and be who you are, you don't need worry about the society.

Be happy! and avoid any place detrimental to your health and psyche! (that's why I'm against you going to a certain club. (and you know why, I need'nt have to explain)
I wish I'd rather do this on PM but, hey! i'm learning how to be bitchy now remember?

So deal with life, and take it like a man oooopppsss!, I mean like a transwoman.

co-sign......very very very well said Jenn

[kristopin]

trying

bitch

[tslisaparadise]

trying but i have to be realistic. i'd be the oldest newest trans in TO.

where i'm happy. 3 double brandies and a puppy to play with.

heads just in a bad place. 3 days anorexic will do that.

damn i gotta hang out with you more i could use to loose a few pounds damn it lol. on a serious note listen to james taylor i couldnt have written a better song for how i feel about you in my life. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wftbahypdAA

[shytom]

I think what kris is feeling is legitiment, it cannot be easy transitioning at any juncture in your life. Some of us have great supports others are all my themselves. Jen and Lisa have supportive families that they can fall abck on. I understand why Kris goes to that club. It makes her feel validated. It's too bad that there isn't a forum for girls to get together and support each other. It happens here, but it needs to be taken a step further. What kris is going through is real, getting it out here helps. You ladies are giving her some great advice. Positive attitude is always a key, but directing that positive attitude in a manner that succeeds in erasing your problems is another thing all together.
I'm trying to be positive today about the heat, but I'm failing to do anything about it.....lol!

[Lani]

But! and...

I think what kris is feeling is legitiment, it cannot be easy transitioning at any juncture in your life. Some of us have great supports others are all my themselves. Jen and Lisa have supportive families that they can fall abck on. I understand why Kris goes to that club. It makes her feel validated. It's too bad that there isn't a forum for girls to get together and support each other. It happens here, but it needs to be taken a step further. What kris is going through is real, getting it out here helps. You ladies are giving her some great advice. Positive attitude is always a key, but directing that positive attitude in a manner that succeeds in erasing your problems is another thing all together.
I'm trying to be positive today about the heat, but I'm failing to do anything about it.....lol!

But it's also the place where his heart got broken into many pieces. But if he really finds enjoyement even just being there, then I have no choice but to fully support him. And also you must understand that we cannot socialize with just one person the entire night, and as you already and personally finds that out yourself. As much as you feel or wish that someone could be just there to stay besides you and keep holding your hand (or your other parts lol!) all through out the evening, isn't really possible, unless you walk in with that person to join you for fun. (you understand what I'm alluding to?) of course you do.

[shytom]

But it's also the place where his heart got broken into many pieces. But if he really finds enjoyement even just being there, then I have no choice but to fully support him. And also you must understand that we cannot socialize with just one person the entire night, and as you already and personally finds that out yourself. As much as you feel or wish that someone could be just there to stay besides you and keep holding your hand (or your other parts lol!) all through out the evening, isn't really possible, unless you walk in with that person to join you for fun. (you understand what I'm alluding to?) of course you do.

I know what you're saying hon, but sometimes all it takes is seeing one friendly face, and I'm sure that's what she sees all the time when you're there! That's a powerful asset to be able to go to a place that validates who you are. There are some problems that also come with the territory. You are right about that!
Once we realize that the person that needs to take responsibility for our heart breaking is no one but ourselves. Then and only then can we do something about stopping that from happening to us. Take that responsibility away from other people, places and things and now you have the freedom to do something about it! You've freed your mind and started to take control of your life. All you girls have been there, transitioning was not about someone else telling you that somethings wrong here I need to become a woman. That was you taking responsibility for how you feel. That takes tremendous courage. Kris and all of you should always remember your courage. It's there inside all of you, build off of that courage. Whenever you feel broken, remember how brave you are!

[toban]

This is a revelation to me

What a superb support group it is that has gathered here 'round Kris at this time where he is feeling so very low. This great outpouring of support for a friend in need is absolutely, the most impressive thing I have ever witnessed on this Forum.

Hats off everyone, to Jenllani, Lisa and Shytom!

[shytom]

What a superb support group it is that has gathered here 'round Kris at this time where he is feeling so very low. This great outpouring of support for a friend in need is absolutely, the most impressive thing I have ever witnessed on this Forum.

Hats off everyone, to Jenllani, Lisa and Shytom!

Toban, This is just the tip of the iceberg, we can all be so helpful to each other. I was at Goodhandys last night and could not help but notice how many people were just standing around by themselves not communicating with anyone else. There were probably others that repeatedly communicate here in the Forum, but did't know that each other was there. Just think how more much fun and productive it would be, if we knew who we were standing with! What's more fun that helping people that we care about! I know you love tgirls too, my friend and have always support all that are here for many years now! Thanks for your kind words!

[kristopin]

damn

damn i gotta hang out with you more i could use to loose a few pounds damn it lol. on a serious note listen to james taylor i couldnt have written a better song for how i feel about you in my life. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wftbahypdAA

mm that got me crying. love you.

[kristopin]

listen to the first song in this thread then these ones

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owKSH...eature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iaUw3EsL9bs&feature=fvw


hope


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ozLo...eature=related

[kristopin]

thanks all

thanks all.

[tslisaparadise]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=owksh...eature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iauw3esl9bs&feature=fvw


hope


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7ozlo...eature=related

sweet i forgot he did the odd vocals not to shabby

[kristopin]

weird

bitch