Am i the asshole?

[Indialove]

I mean….. either this person is not well , cant read or its another provider… what do you think? Am i not allowed to not top black men? Like i said i wont top but i can surely bottom for a black guy … smh tbh if yall saw the messages i get… 😓

[Drifter2024]

Your body, do what only you are comfy with

[justvisiting2016]

Why not just block this guy. He is a nasty troll, shouldn't have talked to him after the first attack message.

[Indialove]

Sadly blocking people nowadays doesn’t do anything as they go and text from a different number witch is what happened in this case

[Cam Shafter]

On first inspection, I don't think it's another SP. Usually when another SP takes this approach, it is in response to what they perceive as competition. I've seen this when an SP, for example travels to another province. Not to take anything away from you personally, but you are in a smaller market with few other SP's relative to someone based in Toronto. This person is troubled, perhaps on something, and def english is not their mother tongue. In any event the bottom line is, this is someone to be avoided regardless of their identity or mal intent. Then again what do I know. LOL. I am just a simple gent trying to tackle a bucket list BBQ fetish, that's been on my radar for years now. Need the right type of lady for that. Peace.

[chuck_norris]

Many SP's refuse to see black guys at all top or bottom. You see who you want who cares if they think it's racist

[SIGFOR]

I lost 30% of my remaining braincells reading that dudes texts. Idk how some of you providers stay sane

[Indialove]

That is nothing

[FalconHeavy]

Not to worry, I hear he has plans to move out of his mother’s basement sometime this spring…. 🤔
Of course he’s moving into a tent in her back yard! 🤣🤣🤣

[justvisiting2016]

Not to worry, I hear he has plans to move out of his mother’s basement sometime this spring…. 🤔
Of course he’s moving into a tent in her back yard! 🤣🤣🤣

he is honestly probably a guy with a wife and kids and this is how he wishes he could treat women, so he takes it out on escorts. That is a very common thing.

[Indialove]

Its just sad tbh good thing its like water on the back of a duck for me but i can’t imagine for girls that are actually insecure, sensitive and take it personal in my opinion its because of people like this that some sp unalive themselves or self harm

[missjessica]

I mean….. either this person is not well , cant read or its another provider… what do you think? Am i not allowed to not top black men? Like i said i wont top but i can surely bottom for a black guy … smh tbh if yall saw the messages i get… 😓

Honestly, these are sadly tame messages compared to the shit I get on Grindr.
When I tell them no, oh boy do they freak the f out like don't blow a blood vessel.

Have a lot of SP's as friends, but when I tell a dude that I don't provide those kind of services, they get wacky tobaccy.
So sorry you go through that crap. I get people have fantasies and shit but if they can't treat you like a human & with respect, that's a huge red flag.

[Kylie Storm]

As an SP i do come across people like this on occasion and i find the best way is to not engage and just block and if they reach out from another number block again, i find that responding is like pouring gasoline on a fire .Trust me you are not wrong here.

[Indialove]

As an SP i do come across people like this on occasion and i find the best way is to not engage and just block and if they reach out from another number block again, i find that responding is like pouring gasoline on a fire .Trust me you are not wrong here.

Ive done the “block&repeat” for so long and they seem to be more insistent when i do it so i said to myself i’ll reply w/o being a savage and just kinda give them somewhat the attention they need because i believe that if someone goes out of their way to attack (freely) someone else it must mean that they are not at peace and need to kinda let it out? I know i got tough skin so i never take it personally but idk if im a bitch it aint good if im nice then im ”weak” 🤷🏽♀️

[Indialove]

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