Hrt

[tslisaparadise]

Give me a break you're not that old! Planning an early retirement?

you know ive been offered a job here in brantford working with glbt mostly younger ones,but im not ready to give up my income i make now just yet.

[alyssa1]

3 years for me

I did not see results till 3 years after hrt. hrt takes that long for some shorter time for others longer evrybody is different and depending on what your body can take. You have to find the specific dose that works for you too much is not good and you always start small and build on what works best for your body. xoxo alyssa

[shytom]

you know ive been offered a job here in brantford working with glbt mostly younger ones,but im not ready to give up my income i make now just yet.

You would be good at that Lisa, something to think about in the future. The big money sometimes locks us into doing things that we would prefer not to be doing. But I always say in the end it's not what you have that's important it's what you did that really matters!

[tslisaparadise]

You would be good at that Lisa, something to think about in the future. The big money sometimes locks us into doing things that we would prefer not to be doing. But I always say in the end it's not what you have that's important it's what you did that really matters!

trust me im torn on one hand i know in order to get the surguries i need to progress i have to escort but on the other hand i feel an obligation to others who need me.maybe next year ill take it he said he will talk to me when im ready.makes me feel good that somebody thinks i can make a difference in peoples lives.

[Lani]

No don't envy them

i know sexy i was just adding to it,wouldnt it be nice if we all could transition as a teen.i look at all these young tgirls and it just amazes me how beautifull and passable they are im so proud that the next generation of tgirls will have it so much easier, were heading in the right direction and im very much looking forward to seeing these girls progress as i enter my final stages of my life.

You think this young girls have it all, think again.

Oh Lisa! your lucky indeed your away from the maddening scene. I tell you what...Without a nurturing guidance (from parents or elders) most of this girls are going nowhere in life, coz, instead of saving and studying they are hook-up early on the most dreaded hobbies in life (I need not further elaborate). And the young ones you see in a progressive transitioning are doing what? huddle together all the time and party this and party that and racing to be hooked by their partner who are willing to marry them, at the same time willing to share them with hundreds of men.

I'm telling you, I'd rather stay home and watched and take care of the people I love.

And don't envy them I feel sad, because majority of them are losing every opportunity for them to better themselves, most own nothing. (and beauty and being pretty is the only focus they had in mind).

[tslisaparadise]

You think this young girls have it all, think again.

Oh Lisa! your lucky indeed your away from the maddening scene. I tell you what...Without a nurturing guidance (from parents or elders) most of this girls are going nowhere in life, coz, instead of saving and studying they are hook-up early on the most dreaded hobbies in life (I need not further elaborate). And the young ones you see in a progressive transitioning are doing what? huddle together all the time and party this and party that and racing to be hooked by their partner who are willing to marry them, at the same time willing to share them with hundreds of men.

I'm telling you, I'd rather stay home and watched and take care of the people I love.

And don't envy them I feel sad, because majority of them are losing every opportunity for them to better themselves, most owned nothing. (and beauty and being pretty is the only focus they had in mind).

and that is the very reason they need me.

[Lani]

But what....

and that is the very reason they need me.

But what help can you extend to them, if most of them doesn't feel they need any. They won't listen to reasoning, they won't heed advice, they'll just do whatever they feel they wanna do, and for most part you have your own kids to attend too and they are certainly your utmost priority in life, not some of this girls who will bite you once you've given them the wings to fly, most even consider you as rival in this business. (even though you live outside their territory). Just my simple points of view.

[kristopin]

mine

Bitch

[tslisaparadise]

But what help can you extend to them, if most of them doesn't feel they need any. They won't listen to reasoning, they won't heed advice, they'll just do whatever they feel they wanna do, and for most part you have your own kids to attend too and they are certainly your utmost priority in life, not some of this girls who will bite you once you've given them the wings to fly, most even consider you as rival in this business. (even though you live outside their territory). Just my simple points of view.

with all do respect jenn we cant give up just because weve been bitten once or twice.wheather you like it or not i already am a huge role model to alot of my sisters.if you only knew some of my emails or phone calls asking for my help and advice when it comes to there family, kids ,hrt ,surguries etc. i know the same girls you do but the ones who need help aernt nessasarilly those who are in the bizz.as for my kids well let me say there the most well rounded kids you ll ever meet period being transgendered has no bearing on my parental instincs nor did it detract in any way.to them i am simply there mom,as for helping others well the biggest joy in life would be giving our children and sisters wings and watching them fly thats what life is all about.as for being a rival lol come on im 46 years old and live over 100 klms from most of them i really really doubt anybody would call me a rival silly girl.

[tslisaparadise]

Lisa your a doll in more ways than one.

but you cant take age as yours its mine.

id be like someones great granny tranny for f..k sakes.

omg lol dont be giving any of these girls amunition to nail us old bitches lol

[kristopin]

im liken it

Bitch

[Lani]

One more thing

and that is the very reason they need me.

In your previous post you mentioned you were offered by glbt to work for the services needed for the young transitioner and for the betterment of their life, their struggles... This, if you can do, is what will really made an impact and legacy you will leave on for generations to come ( and I'm pretty sure that you are the right person for the job), but! as you have stated before you're not yet ready to turn your back on the line of work and the financial obligations for your children, and because of that, we fully understand.

[shytom]

Anytime you have a place for a group to meet on a regular basis you create a powerful tool to help each other get beyond some of their individual problems. The amazing thing I see at Goodhandys is that you have a large group of individuals that have gathered together to ply their craft. Some, the very attractive, self confident and passable girls reap great rewards by being there. But many on the fringe are out of place and don't get enough attention. The fact is that the ladies are there together, they seem to get along and appreciate each other. This makes me think that they should be using Goodhandys as a place to come to terms with the problems that they are having as a whole. I bet the ladies of Goodhandys could be a real power to help each other out, if they collectively put their pretty heads together?
They need leadership and they'll need a few of their current leaders to take charge. Amanda for one is key. But, a good start is to meet regularly to come up with a framework for uniting. Once you do that you can set out to come up with goals and objectives.
I think Lisa could also be helpful at leading such a group. Lucy is like a rock star she's also key. Goodhandy's has brought you together, now take advantage of that opportunity. Right now you tgirls are out there working as a a lot of seperate unorganized entities. To some that reaps a great deal of advantages, but to the group it tends to do little. Some would say that I may be stirring up trouble here. But the real truth is that what I'm saying is fact. Uniting and working together is the best way to resolve problems for everybody.

[Lani]

Wishful thinking

Anytime you have a place for a group to meet on a regular basis you create a powerful tool to help each other get beyond some of their individual problems. The amazing thing I see at Goodhandys is that you have a large group of individuals that have gathered together to ply their craft. Some, the very attractive, self confident and passable girls reap great rewards by being there. But many on the fringe are out of place and don't get enough attention. The fact is that the ladies are there together, they seem to get along and appreciate each other. This makes me think that they should be using Goodhandys as a place to come to terms with the problems that they are having as a whole. I bet the ladies of Goodhandys could be a real power to help each other out, if they collectively put their pretty heads together?
They need leadership and they'll need a few of their current leaders to take charge. Amanda for one is key. But, a good start is to meet regularly to come up with a framework for uniting. Once you do that you can set out to come up with goals and objectives.
I think Lisa could also be helpful at leading such a group. Lucy is like a rock star she's also key. Goodhandy's has brought you together, now take advantage of that opportunity. Right now you tgirls are out there working as a a lot of seperate unorganized entities. To some that reaps a great deal of advantages, but to the group it tends to do little. Some would say that I may be stirring up trouble here. But the real truth is that what I'm saying is fact. Uniting and working together is the best way to resolve problems for everybody.

And that, I can tell you right now, won't happen, not in a trillion years. Ideal, but it's just a wishful thinking.

[Lani]

The amazing thing I see at Goodhandys is that you have a large group of individuals that have gathered together to ply their craft. Some, the very attractive, self confident and passable girls reap great rewards by being there. But many on the fringe are out of place and don't get enough attention.

As you probably have noticed too, is that not all attractive girls have reap a great rewards, as you might have seen that some gorgeous ladies are, like in sport are just on their benches LOL! it's the aggressive ones who catches a lot of graces hahahahahaha!, now tell me how many have proposed to you during the course of the evening, till you finally decide to hit the road and call it quit?.