Should Escorts be able to be picky?

[cooldude]

Lisa, you and Nikki might think alike but she has got those big fancy words that sometimes make my head spin. You Lisa just get straight to the point.

[far2crazy]

I hesitated to post this but I thought it should be known. I also know that this topic has been discussed in the past.

Anyway, that being said, I have always thought that a certain Provider was really hot so I decided to send her an email telling her what I was looking for. She replied with the following: hi there how old ru? u gotpic. Based on that, I knew I didn't stand a chance so I replied back that I was a customer of Lucy, Lisa, Nikki and Meme and that I felt that if I was good enough for them, I was good enough for anyone. I also replied that because of her attitude, I was no longer interested.

I have not read all the responses but here is my view... YES.
If they are picky but don't advertise it then you get crappy service (ala YMMV). I'd rather hear from a girl "sorry your not my type" then have her put up with it and do a crappy job. I like to have fun when I pay an escort but I have had more then my fair share of shitty service.
Many have told me I am cute, I've even had girls/guys/tgirls try to pick me up in a bar (yes all 3 and more then once). I'm not gorgeous, never pretended to be, I'm slightly overweight and starting to bald. But I carry myself positively and smile a lot.
To get to the core of this... I have had one tgirl tell me on the phone "sorry not my type" then a couple months later get hit on by the same girl in a bar.
I know I am rambling a bit here.
most people don't really know what they want till they are faced with it, but the preconceptions can outweigh any other impressions.

I'd rather be picky and change my mind later and I give the girls the option to do the same.

[alyssa1]

choice is ours both ways

Hey Admin, Thanks for your thoughts on this subject. In view of what you said, I have a few additional comments.

"Would you rather have a crappy experience or just know up front she is not into you."

In reference to this, I like to think that acting is part of the job. I know damn well that the girls I have been with would probably prefer to be with someone much younger, better looking and with a much bigger cock. But they all made me feel like I was greatest while I was with them and for that I am most appreciative. I used to photograph and videotape weddings. Is it more fun photographing someone that is model material as opposed to someone who looks like Janet Reno (if anyone remembers her), you bet, but you do it anyway because you are being paid. You tell the ugly bride she looks great ( I never could lie and tell her she looks beautiful), and do your job to the best of your ability. Sometimes you could challenge yourself to make her look better than she really was. So, it is my opinion that as long as someone is clean and smells fresh and not morbidly overweight, the SP should grin and bear it and make a considerable amount of money in a short period of time.

so if they dont like old men it is no different than you not liking tall women like myself.should all men like tall tgirls no they dont they like the short ones or the asians or the blacks or the skinny or the fat.Just like the provider u mentioned doesnt like old men. Dont take it so personally ray im kinda glad i have my own choice. xxx alyssa

[far2crazy]

Hey Admin, Thanks for your thoughts on this subject. In view of what you said, I have a few additional comments.

"Would you rather have a crappy experience or just know up front she is not into you."

In reference to this, I like to think that acting is part of the job.

Not everyone out there is a good actor.
Having read most the comments people (and the tgirls especially) agree with that they should be allowed preferences. I've seen some some preferences that were anything from racist (no chinese/black/blue etc) to age (girl did not want to feel like she was banging her grandad) to weight (just a total turn off).
some people cannot perform when they are turned off.

[Ray]

Alyssa, Get over the height thing will ya. I know that you girls have the right to choose who you want to have sex with and so do I. In my case, I'm the one forking out $200 or more per hour plus having to drive about 5 hours round trip, so yes, I am going to be very selective. As long as I have the choice of someone 5'7" or less who will provide me with what I am looking for, that's who I will select. And hopefully that person is eager to earn a living and will accept the fact that I am older and not tall, dark and handsome, as they say. As I said in an earlier reply, when I was is the wedding business I didn't turn away a bride if she was fat and ugly thinking that maybe someone better looking might come along. When your in business, sometimes it pays to make compromises. I made a lot of money off those less than beautiful brides. And I am sure the same is true in the escort business.

[xploring]

Ray I think you have to come to the conclusion that you are alone on this one. And it is both the girls and the guys that say this. In the end it is their body and that means they get to pick and choose based upon any criteria they want. I cant imagine the range of people they meet and trying to look interested in all of them. That is why I believe the top girls deserve the rates they ask for.

[Ray]

I agree exploring and that is why I never quibble about the price and I always tip as well. And I might add that maybe the "Top" girls become "Top" girls because they know how to make money. I think most everyone will agree that Lucy and Lisa are "Top" girls and they don't discriminate because of age or whether you are really good looking or not.

[Rockheart]

Ray, the only place on earth I have ever seen that working tgirls don't reject guys based on their appearance is Thailand.
You can have a hundred tgirls that look like this one there.

Brazil they might go with you but if you do not turn them on, they will not be into and will rush and get it over with as fast as possible.

It makes no sense to me why you would insist on going with someone that is not into you. I understand your point but you cannot compare a regular business with one where you are expecting someone to have sex with you. This is a much more personal thing than a haircut or something.
They are not obligated to do business with you.

The ones that do it full time have to expect to take all kinds. The fact they do it full time points to them being very horny and having the ability to do it many times a day.

Personally if I have a really bad shoot with tgirl that turns me off and is difficult to work with, it can turn me off for days. I cannot not work through it. I imagine some tgirls, especially on hormones, may have trouble no matter who it is but if not seriously turned on they cannot function.

The full timers are full time for a reason and the part timers are there for some extra cash and maybe some fun. You cannot hold it against them.
Move on to the next tgirl you are into.
I cannot see if you say here whether you actually sent her your pic.
You said she asked for it but did you send and were actually rejected?
Does she screen people maybe by whether they are willing to send a pic?

[tslisaparadise]

Personally if I have a really bad shoot with tgirl that turns me off and is difficult to work with, it can turn me off for days. I cannot not work through it.

oh crap does that mean i dont get another shoot wtf oh this sucks lol,oh ya and they say i cant spell worth a shit lol craig rockhard lol there i corrected ya

[Rockheart]

oh crap does that mean i dont get another shoot wtf oh this sucks lol,oh ya and they say i cant spell worth a shit lol craig rockhard lol there i corrected ya

Ya i think if they see the shoot, they will know i wasn't turned off.

[tslisaparadise]

Ya i think if they see the shoot, they will know i wasn't turned off.

hahahaha,i cant wait to see the pix damn it lol i still love the balcony thing 23 floors up naked having a smoke and your pointing out how many people are watchin me as i wave to them lol too funny

[Ray]

Craig, thanks for your insight. No I did not send a picture and let me tell you why. I am really interested in Celeste from Vegas and have contacted her in the past with poor results. Lisa told me she is friends with Celeste and actually sent her an email on my behalf telling her that I'm a really nice guy. I then sent an email to Celeste with my picture and she did not even have the decency to reply, which of course hurt. So no more pictures. And yes, I have heard that about Thailand and I would really like to go. I am basically a shy person and Thailand is so far away that I'm not totally sure that it would work out for me. If I don't make up my mind to go soon though, it may be too late. I'm not getting any younger.

[Rockheart]

Craig, thanks for your insight. No I did not send a picture and let me tell you why. I am really interested in Celeste from Vegas and have contacted her in the past with poor results. Lisa told me she is friends with Celeste and actually sent her an email on my behalf telling her that I'm a really nice guy. I then sent an email to Celeste with my picture and she did not even have the decency to reply, which of course hurt. So no more pictures. And yes, I have heard that about Thailand and I would really like to go. I am basically a shy person and Thailand is so far away that I'm not totally sure that it would work out for me. If I don't make up my mind to go soon though, it may be too late. I'm not getting any younger.

I can almost guarantee that i am basically shyer than you.
However a long time ago I told myself I would force myself to do things that made me have to interact with others. I became a Bartender first.
I am sure I have been more nervous than my models many times!
When people tell me I am Psuedo-famous, I don't even believe it.

Also I just do stuff, my mind says don't do it, I force myself.
I spent what little money I have and go somewhere where I am forced to do what I intended. My mind says "don't do it" but I physically force myself to do it. I'm not scared of danger, or anything like that, I'm scared of personal relationships and am very awkward with them. Anything surrounding work or business gives me confidence thus makes personal interaction simple.
I could only dream of being with tgirl like Celeste, i'll probably meet her someday but I have no expectations.

Go to Thailand Ray.
You will feel like a king.
You can get a flight there for under $1000 and once there it is cheap.
Just don't fall in love.

[Ray]

Thanks Craig for the pep talk. I have been thinking about it for quite awhile and I just may take your advice. Can I PM you with a few ideas and questions I have?

[Rockheart]

Thanks Craig for the pep talk. I have been thinking about it for quite awhile and I just may take your advice. Can I PM you with a few ideas and questions I have?

Anytime Ray.
The worst thing about going to Thailand is the 24 hour flight.