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    Something that I’ve been thinking of recently is how I’ve learned to communicate with men as to guarantee the best possible booking.

    As some of you probably know, I’m notoriously hard to get ahold of. I don’t work very often in person, but one thing I’ve learned in my short time in this field is that I simply can’t tolerate poor communication.

    If a guy reaches out to me in proper English, with a respectful and succinct opening message, I am very inclined to book him. The very few negative experiences have been typically from men who fail to communicate properly. The most important thing for my sessions is that a client understands the rules and boundaries I have laid out in my ad.

    just something that I’ve thought of. I guess the key takeaway as a client would be to read a providers ad thoroughly and try not to waste her time.

    when grammar and spelling are shaky I usually assume the person is drunk or else there might be an insurmountable language barrier which can be an issue during a session.

  • #2
    Originally posted by TS_Isla View Post
    Something that I’ve been thinking of recently is how I’ve learned to communicate with men as to guarantee the best possible booking.

    As some of you probably know, I’m notoriously hard to get ahold of. I don’t work very often in person, but one thing I’ve learned in my short time in this field is that I simply can’t tolerate poor communication.

    If a guy reaches out to me in proper English, with a respectful and succinct opening message, I am very inclined to book him. The very few negative experiences have been typically from men who fail to communicate properly. The most important thing for my sessions is that a client understands the rules and boundaries I have laid out in my ad.

    just something that I’ve thought of. I guess the key takeaway as a client would be to read a providers ad thoroughly and try not to waste her time.

    when grammar and spelling are shaky I usually assume the person is drunk or else there might be an insurmountable language barrier which can be an issue during a session.
    That is a good point. Would you mind giving an example of what you deem to be an optimal first message?

    As an imigrant talking with several other nationalities here, I find it tricky, because sometimes there is a cultural background that governs our behavior. Nonetheless, I always try to be direct and also proofread everything. Twice hahaha

    You are not only beautiful but also a smart girl, Isla. I wish I could pay you a visit sometime.

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    • #3
      Originally posted by tracebanana View Post

      That is a good point. Would you mind giving an example of what you deem to be an optimal first message?

      As an imigrant talking with several other nationalities here, I find it tricky, because sometimes there is a cultural background that governs our behavior. Nonetheless, I always try to be direct and also proofread everything. Twice hahaha

      You are not only beautiful but also a smart girl, Isla. I wish I could pay you a visit sometime.
      Of course! A good opening message could be something along the lines of:

      ”Hello [x]. I was wondering if you had any availability on [x date] at [x time]. I’d like to book a [hr of hh] session with you. Let me know if this works!”

      Definitely doesn’t have to be overly complicated. Cutting straight to the chase is always ideal IMO.

      And thank you so much for the compliment 😘 Maybe we’ll get a chance to meet sometime.

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      • #4
        This is intelligent self preservation 👏 . Poor communication is a huge red flag.

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        • #5
          Originally posted by kai_says_hi View Post
          This is intelligent self preservation 👏 . Poor communication is a huge red flag.
          Yes and a massive turnoff 😭 I like spending time with guys who can talk to me

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          • #6
            Girl, if they can’t string more than two sentences together to try to communicate clearly I just stop responding🤣🙂
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            • #7
              Originally posted by kyliekarma View Post
              Girl, if they can’t string more than two sentences together to try to communicate clearly I just stop responding🤣🙂
              Yeah fr! I am really new to this and so twice now I've made the mistake of booking with a client who was very very curt over text and both times I felt there was no chemistry. I think if men want to have the best possible time, it is obvi a good idea to try and build some sort of rapport. Even tho it's escorting, chemistry is still important.

              and then yeah, the dudes who just hit me with a hello or hi will not get a response

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              • #8
                If I'm trying to book with someone, It always starts Off like this for example, Hello Isla Brad aka Big-gun from tgirl, I would like to see you today.
                Please let me know your availability, When i get a reply back that's when we get into date details etc.

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                • #9
                  Originally posted by big-gun View Post
                  If I'm trying to book with someone, It always starts Off like this for example, Hello Isla Brad aka Big-gun from tgirl, I would like to see you today.
                  Please let me know your availability, When i get a reply back that's when we get into date details etc.
                  Yeah that is like, the perfect opener!

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