Texting etiquette

[modnaandom]

Hello,
Was curious about this texting experience I had with a provider whom some have provided good reviews for. I have specific kink that a enjoy when seeing a provider. So was a bit direct about. Just wanted to know if I'm at fault here and should have worded things different. Never had any bad experiences with any past providers but wanted to know just in case so that I can improve upon it.

Her ad said open minded and in my experience providers who mentioned there were never judgemental about others kinks so I was direct and open about it. But looking at the barrage of texts and insults that came afterwards wanted to be sure I wasn't at the wrong here before being too judgemental. And also maybe this can help out others here who are willing to seek this with her lol.

[modnaandom]

Sorry forgot to attach the rest of the screenshots. I tried to be polite as long as I could but then the spamming texts notifications kinda annoyed me lol. Had to block her after that last text.
Edit: the order of the photos are a bit jumbled. It's 3,2,4. Where the main post had the first screenshot. But there's a overlap on the texts to figure out the exact order.

[justvisiting2016]

Your opening texts were fine and you did nothing wrong. Sex workers should be open to being asked about a specific fetish, and respectfully say no if they won't do it. It was easy enough for her to say" I am only into what is in my ad, I am not into that. Thanks for asking". She was being a complete asshole. But, you should have just stopped texting there and not waste your brain cells beyond her initial response. The back and forth insults were stupid and not worth your time.

Don't deal with people who treat you this way .There are better, kinder, sex workers out there.

PS - if this provider uses this forum, you can potentially get a long manifesto of attack. Just ignore it, don;'t engage!

[modnaandom]

Your opening texts were fine and you did nothing wrong. Sex workers should be open to being asked about a specific fetish, and respectfully say no if they won't do it. It was easy enough for her to say" I am only into what is in my ad, I am not into that. Thanks for asking". She was being a complete asshole. But, you should have just stopped texting there and not waste your brain cells beyond her initial response. The back and forth insults were stupid and not worth your time.

Don't deal with people who treat you this way .There are better, kinder, sex workers out there.

PS - if this provider uses this forum, you can potentially get a long manifesto of attack. Just ignore it, don;'t engage!

Yes true definitely, I should have blocked her after she started the spamming after my first goodbye. Me engaging on it was bad on my part. Will definitely block her here as well if she does try to further engage in my DMs. But good to know that I wasn't overlooking any potential impoliteness in my initial messages. Thanks!

[tracebanana]

Oh god. She is more reactivate than Chernobyl.

looks like you dodged a bullet. Imagine booking with her and she presents this nasty behavior in person. No no no

[tao1kiku]

Open minded has many different meanings for different people. From what I can see, your initial inquiry was reasonable and polite, and if she wasn't into it, she could have said, sorry, no thank you. And your response would have been somewhat akin to have a great day. Her going off on those raging replies, not cool, professional or necessary and in a way, homophobic. What Trans woman calls a person/client "faggot"?. At the same time, replying to her responses would have just fuelled the fire as we have seen.